What are the steps to get married? Does anyone have a complete guide?

1. Engagement

In Beijing, gifts are generally required for engagement. The engagement means that the man's parents come to the woman's home to propose marriage, and if everything goes well, they will have a meal together.

About what to bring:

1.4 kinds of gifts: You can give 4, 6 or 8 kinds of gifts as gifts. The options include cigarettes, wine, tea, Candies, fruits, snacks, etc., 8 items is really too much, so it is usually 4 or 6 items

2. Three golds: gold necklace, gold ring, gold bracelet

3. Deposit/gift money: at least 10,001. Different amounts can be given according to different local customs. Of course, no one will object to more, it depends on the ability of the mother-in-law's family

2. Taking wedding photos

Depending on your actual situation, you can choose a photo studio or studio. Studios are generally cheaper and will give you many gifts.

I know relatively little about photo studios, so let’s focus on the studios

About the gifts:

1. Some studios will also send wedding dresses, or you can You can use the wedding dress once for free on the wedding day. Photo studios are generally not so generous to give away wedding dresses

2. Some studios or photo studios will give away ampoule sets, which can be used on the wedding day

3. Some studios or photo studios have membership cards. With the membership card, you can take a set of membership photos for free every year

About the price:

Below 1.3000: can wear about 3-4 sets of clothes. No outdoor scenes

2.3000-4000: Can wear 4-5 sets of clothes, can freely choose one outdoor scene

3.4000-5000: Can wear 5-6 sets of clothes, can freely choose 2 Exterior scenes, the rest are in real studios

About clothes:

1. It is recommended to choose at least one set of white gauze and one set of phoenix crown and haori

2. 1-2 days in advance You can try on clothes on the same day. If you wait too long in advance, you will have incomplete clothes, miss new products, etc.

3. If you bring your own clothes, be sure to wash them in advance

About Finished products: The studio usually gives away more things at the same price. If you don’t want some things, you can discuss with customer service to exchange them for others. However, when the gifts are exchanged for other products, the price will be much discounted, such as a wedding dress. If you don’t want it, the merchant will say to give you a display stand, so if you don’t have special needs, it’s better to choose the original gift

About the shooting date: It is best to choose non-weekends, as there are more people on weekends. The service is not necessarily good. During normal times, the photographer, makeup artist and lighting technician are in a relatively good mood, and the photos produced will be better.

About before shooting:

1. Early in the morning Go to bed, make sure you sleep, and don’t have panda eyes...

2. Take a shower and wash your hair. Don’t apply too many skin care products and cosmetics in the morning. If you apply them, they will be white. You have to remove them when you get to the studio. Drop

3. Bring your favorite shoes

4. Bring your favorite socks, bring a pair of various colors

5. Bring a pair of slippers , so that you can take a rest when you are tired, or just wear slippers when you don’t need to wear high heels

About the day of the shooting:

1. It is best to arrive on time, if you are late, It is always bad, not to mention wasting time, but the night view is not as good as the daytime view until very late, unless you are very willing to take night scenes

2. You must have breakfast, you are hungry and have no energy, why? Can you still laugh?

3. If you are short-sighted, wear contact lenses. Wearing glasses for wedding photos will definitely not look good.

4. It would be best if you can drive there by yourself, so you can save money on renting a car.

5. It would be best if the studio or photo studio provides lunch. If not, you can treat the photographer to a meal. After all, they have to be busy all day long, so don’t let them feel too cold.

About film selection:

1. Delete the ones you don’t like. Don’t worry, the studio usually shoots a lot. If you don’t delete the ones you choose, you won’t be able to finish them all in a long time

2. Although all studio negatives are provided, the ones that are refined are still much more beautiful, so the customer service will also advise you to select more, just ignore them

3. If you add 40 photos into the book, Just choose 40 photos. If you choose more, you can only put more in each album, but the photos will naturally be smaller

About getting the finished products:

1. There will generally be more finished products , it is best to go by car. If you don’t have a car, you will definitely have to take a taxi home

2. Check with the merchant and take apart each item to see if there are any defects. If there are any problems, be sure to report them immediately. Just let the studio or photo studio redo it, and if you go home and confirm it again, it’s unclear whose responsibility it is.

3. Choose the date of registration and wedding

In fact, there is not so much emphasis on it now. Sometimes everyone chooses it very casually.

About the date of registration

1. You can choose either party’s birthday, dating anniversary, Valentine’s Day, other anniversaries that are meaningful to you, etc.

2. You can also choose auspicious numbers, such as the 6th, 8th, etc.

Regarding the wedding date: the registration date is relatively casual. You can refer to the perpetual calendar for the wedding date, plus the above principles. .

Beijing Marriage Registration Online Appointment System: /jhyy/marryout/marry/

In ancient times, when relatives of the emperor married a wife, it took one year from the engagement to the wedding. It's half a year, 3 months for scholar-bureaucrats, and 1 month for commoners. Nowadays, people take these lightly, but intentionally or unintentionally, they usually don't get married until at least half a year after the engagement. In fact, it's not that particular.

4. Registration

1. Make a reservation online in advance

2. Prepare three 2-inch photos of the two people

3. ID cards of both parties. If due to special circumstances, such as lost ID cards, temporary ID cards can be used

4. Household registers of both parties

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6 .You can prepare some candies for the registrar and let everyone be happy together

7. Go to the Civil Affairs Bureau where one of the two parties has their household registration to register

7. No need to be particularly early, around 9 o'clock Just go to the marriage registration office

8. Queue up, wait until your number is called

9. If you make an appointment online in advance, there will be a dedicated team

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5. Buy a diamond ring and a matching ring

Confirm whether you need both a diamond ring and a matching ring, or just the matching ring.

Diamond ring:

1. Carat: Recommended for 50 points and above, which has greater collection value

2. Fineness: I and above are recommended

3. Cut: G or above is recommended

It is cheaper to buy rings in pairs, and more expensive to buy individually. It is more cost-effective to catch up with events. Some diamond shops have flagship stores in Taobao Mall, and the prices are lower than those in experience stores. It’s cheap and can be bought at wedding expos. If you spend a certain amount of money, you can also participate in the lottery organized by the wedding expo organizing committee. The chance of winning is very high

6. Hotels for weddings

1. Determine the number of people and tables. Do not make an estimate. You must confirm the specific number of people with each person. After all, wedding banquets are generally more expensive

2. After making a preliminary list of the number of tables and people, make sure it is acceptable. The price per table, filter the hotel according to the price

3. According to the number of tables, choose the hotel that can accommodate the corresponding number of tables

4. Select the wedding hall and choose the appropriate one A hall of the same size is enough. If there are only 10 tables, but choosing a hall that can accommodate 20 tables will appear very empty

5. Go to the hotel for actual inspection, negotiate with the hotel staff, and set the date for the wedding. It is best to book half a year in advance, especially for good hotels and big hotels, which will be booked half a year to a year in advance

6. Confirm with the hotel which price range to choose for the wedding banquet

7. After choosing the price, choose a further set meal in the same price range. You can ask some people to actually try it once, and replace or add or subtract dishes

8. Negotiate with the hotel staff what you need and see if it is possible. It is free to use. If it cannot be used for free, see if it can be rented. If not, you can ask the hotel to help prepare it

9. Ask the hotel to prepare a dressing room for the wedding day, which can be used for makeup and rest.

7. Wedding Company

Choose a suitable wedding company based on the price you can accept. You can provide some of your own ideas, such as personalized MVs, electronic photo albums of wedding photos, and photos from childhood to adulthood. Video, etc.

About the emcee: Take a look at the wedding samples hosted by the emcee in the past to see if the style is not suitable for you. If not, change someone decisively. Style is very important

About the photographer: One or two people are allowed, preferably two people, who can take pictures from different angles, and one person for the bride and one person for the groom, so that the wonderful scene will not be missed

About the photographer: One person is enough, If there are two people, the bride and groom can each have one person at first, but it will not be used later, so one person will be enough. You can ask a friend to take photos of the bride or groom before they meet

About the stage background: If it is a combination of Chinese and Western Yes, pink, red and other festive colors are recommended. If it is purely Western-style, white is recommended. If it is purely Chinese-style, of course red is the best.

About the projector: at least one can be used to display wedding photos, childhood to Large photo clips, MV, etc.

About Luyin: Recommend spherical, pink ones, or design your own favorite shape

About hand flowers: It is best to choose round ones In terms of color, it is best to choose red and pink ones, which look festive

About table flowers: It is best to put them on the main table, or at least on the two tables in front. Flowers, if you don’t care how much you spend, of course it will look better if all the tables are put on them

About the arch: you can choose half flowers. If the arch is full of flowers, it will not look good. You can also choose balloon doors. But now most of them are still decorated with flowers

About bubble machines: You can choose one or two. The bubbles sprayed at the critical moment will look very beautiful

About balloons: According to The background can be appropriately decorated

About champagne towers and candlesticks: you can choose your favorite style and shape from the Internet, or ask the wedding company to directly provide their special products

8 , Wedding

1. When the wedding was scheduled, the wedding times I had attended varied, including 11:28, 11:38, 11:48, 11:58, 12:08, 12: 18. 12:28, you can decide after discussing with your family

2. After setting the time, inform your relatives and friends<

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3. Go to bed early the night before and eat lightly

4. Eat something in the morning, otherwise you won’t be able to last the whole day

5. If the hotel is close to your home , you can pick up your relatives at around 9 o'clock. If it is far away, please advance appropriately according to the distance

6. Make an appointment with the makeup artist and pick them up in advance

7. Call your relatives and friends and arrive home early. , prepare to block the door

8. Hide the shoes before the groom comes

9. Decorate the new house about 3 days in advance and hang up ribbons, balloons and other festive items

10. Prepare fake wine

9. Honeymoon

Generally, honeymoons are mainly relaxing. It is recommended to choose the beach. If you are abroad, if you have a good time, you will naturally choose the Maldives. If it is cheap, it is Phuket, if you can’t go abroad, you can choose Sanya.

About passports:

1. Prepare a 2-inch photo in advance

2. A copy of the original ID card

3. For the original household registration booklet and the first page and a copy of the personal page, it is best to make a form from the Internet, print out the front and back and fill it out. This will save you time at the processing place, and prepare photos to save time at the processing place. The place spent 30 yuan to take the photo, but saved 5 yuan for the photocopy

4. The official download address of the application form is: /web/bgxzfile/2008-09-16_10-22-34.rar

5. If you have anything to consult, please call: 84020101

6. Manual consultation hours: Monday to Saturday (except statutory holidays)

7. Now The General Bureau of the Beijing Municipal Public Security Bureau, which is also the Lama Temple, is not open to ordinary residents. If you want to apply for a passport, you can only go to the branch offices of various districts and counties. You don’t have to go to the district where you are from to apply. You can apply for it nearby

About the dates:

1. It is best not to choose travel peaks such as May Day, National Day, and Spring Festival. Since it is a wedding, you might as well choose it during normal times

2. It is best to choose spring or autumn, when it is suitable to travel

3. Book air tickets, hotels, and itineraries one month in advance