The love between Nie Jielin and Nie Haisheng: No matter where you are, you will always be my deepest concern

Sometimes, to change your destiny, you cannot rely on others, you can only rely on yourself. Only if you have dreams in your heart, only if you have pursuit in your heart, only with persistence and dedication, hard work and struggle can you live your life. It's getting better and better. Once you escape, once you shrink back, then life may turn a corner around you and go ups and downs. Those smooth roads are never presented to you easily, but are owned through your own efforts. At any time, you can Learn to have your own opportunities, learn to pursue your goals firmly, and give up easily if you cannot face difficulties. Only by pursuing bravely can you realize your ideals.

Nie Haisheng, born in 1964, is from Zaoyang, Hubei. When he was young, he had many brothers and sisters in the family and poor economic conditions. He worked in the production team to herd cattle since he was a child. When he was in junior high school, his father passed away and the whole family had to bear all the burden. On the shoulders of his mother, he was ready to drop out of school in the third year of junior high school and go home to farm, but when his mother found out, she persuaded him to return to the classroom. He often wore his sister's old clothes. He couldn't afford shoes and went to school barefoot. His family paid for his tuition, and he often borrowed it from here and there. Once, when his family couldn't afford the tuition, he went to catch a wild rabbit and sell it. Only after I got the money did I pay my tuition.

He studied very hard since he was a child, and his academic performance was very good, especially in mathematics. He often got full marks in the exams. He was called the "King of Mathematics" by his classmates. When he was in school, he was the study committee member of the class. He got excellent results in the high school entrance examination and was admitted to the county's key high school. Only two students in the town passed the exam and he was one of them. When the school learned that his family was in financial difficulty, it decided to give him a subsidy. To earn more than ten yuan for his family, he often went to move wood, pack tea, and work in the fields during holidays. Although it was very hard, he felt very sweet and satisfied. People should be self-reliant from an early age, endure hardships, and train themselves. In this way, Only then can we face various difficulties in future life.

In 1983, he signed up to take the exam to recruit pilots for the Air Force. He stood out among 250 candidates and passed the strict physical examination. He was admitted to Changchun Aviation School. After entering the school, he studied hard and studied hard. With professional knowledge and practical operation, he graduated with honors and became a pilot in the army, flying a fighter plane. While he was a pilot, he met Nie Jielin, a nurse in a hospital where the army was located, and she was also a girl who liked to fly in the blue sky. , full of admiration for Nie Haisheng's dedication and honesty, and Nie Haisheng also had a good impression of her virtuous and kind-heartedness. After a period of dating, the two entered the palace of marriage. After marriage, they had a daughter. The couple was loving and happy. They encouraged and supported each other and made each other's careers develop very well. Nie Haisheng also grew up from an ordinary person. The pilot grew into a deputy flight commander. Good love can promote each other's careers, allow each other's careers to have a good development, and achieve great achievements.

In 1996, Nie Haisheng became the first batch of astronauts. However, his wife wanted him to be safe in life and work. She felt that being an astronaut was dangerous, but Nie Haisheng was determined to go. Nie Jielin insisted not to let him go. In anger, she decided to divorce Nie Haisheng. Nie Haisheng was tough and agreed to the divorce, but he was thinking of ways to persuade his wife to agree to her becoming an astronaut. After more than a month of quarreling, one weekend, Nie Haisheng suggested going shopping with his wife, which made Nie Jielin very happy. Carrying bags and acting as a consultant to his wife, Nie Haisheng found a hotel in the evening, booked a room, and took his wife in to have dinner. During the meal, he talked with his wife, did her work, and talked with her. In the process, he obtained his wife's consent and immediately called the astronaut recruitment staff to tell them that his wife agreed to him becoming an astronaut. Husband and wife should discuss each other, and when they encounter different opinions, they should patiently persuade each other. All objections are a kind of love, and all different opinions are a kind of care. As long as they communicate well, there will be no obstacles that cannot be overcome.

In 1998, the astronaut brigade was established in Beijing Aerospace City. Nie Haisheng was transferred to Beijing to work. Nie Jielin also became a microbiology researcher at the Beijing Institute of Aerospace Medical Engineering. She picked up her mother-in-law from her hometown. When I arrived in Beijing, I walked and chatted with the old man. I took good care of the old man and solved my husband's worries. The old man lived happily with his son and daughter-in-law for eleven years. Nie Haisheng's uncle fell ill and there was no one at home to take care of him. The old man had to go back to take care of him, but unexpectedly, he suffered a cerebral hemorrhage. The two immediately flew back to their hometown. And brought about 60,000 yuan for medical expenses. Looking at her mother-in-law on the hospital bed, Nie Jielin immediately asked for a long leave from the work unit and devoted herself to serving her mother-in-law. When her mother-in-law was discharged from the hospital, she gave her mother-in-law another 20,000 yuan. When she returned home, , and sent another 5,000 yuan to my mother-in-law. After the old man was discharged from the hospital, he recovered well, with hemiplegia on the right side of his body and difficulty speaking, but everything else was normal. The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is the focus of the entire family. Good love means that a wife can understand her husband, support her husband, take the initiative to take care of her mother-in-law, and improve the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, which will consolidate her love.

Since Nie Haisheng became an astronaut, she rarely went to the mall. On weekends, Nie Haisheng came back from the apartment. In order to keep Nie Haisheng from being overweight, she mobilized her daughter after the family had dinner. She went for a walk with her husband to increase Nie Haisheng's exercise intensity. Under the influence of her husband, she also became fascinated with aerospace matters. When she had time, she researched and studied with a monograph. Usually, when she is free, she sends text messages and letters to her husband to encourage him. Through her hard work, she has mastered a lot of aerospace knowledge and has become an aerospace expert. She has also given her husband a lot of suggestions for his reference. . Later, she said that I really wanted him to go to school. For a person's life, this is a rare opportunity. When her husband flew into space to celebrate his birthday, she ordered an exquisite cake for him, lit birthday candles for her husband who was far away in space, and told her husband, no matter where you are, you will always be my deepest concern.

To this end, the flight control center also arranged for a phone call with their family. She said to her husband, Hai Sheng, I am Jie Lin. Snowflakes were falling at the launch site this morning. I saw you carrying confidence. , embarked on the journey into space with a smile. As a wife, I feel very relieved. At this time, I feel a little distressed. At this moment, do you feel good? Nie Haisheng said to his wife, it feels good, thank you for your concern. She said, everything is fine at home, don't worry, mom is in good spirits and gets very excited when she sees you. Nie Haisheng said, OK, I understand. She added that it will be your 41st birthday in two hours. Here, I really want to say to you, good luck to the sea and good luck to the gods. Nie Haisheng said, thank you. The conversation between the husband and wife is very simple, but it is encouragement and comfort. They are all words from the heart, and they are also full of concern. They make the husband in space feel relieved and at ease. They are full of love. In simple words, they express the couple's feelings. Deep affection and care between them. Good love means always giving the other person confidence, making the lover feel at ease and feel at ease.

In 2013, the 49-year-old Nie Haisheng flew into space again driving the "Shenzhou 10". In 2021, he flew into space for the third time and stayed in space for 3 months, which was a complete success. Complete the mission and return to the motherland. Some of his heroic deeds in the past were also spread together with his feats of flying into space. When he was a pilot, the plane suddenly stopped due to mechanical failure. The plane that lost power fell down like a kite with a broken string. Seeing that Nie Haisheng was not afraid of danger and responded calmly, in order to save national property, he resolutely flew the plane back. Under repeated urging from the commander, he was not forced to parachute until the plane was at an altitude of 500 meters and could not be controlled. His colleagues said that he was very smart both in the sky and on the ground and that he was born to fly. He has good psychological quality, quick thinking, simple and kind-hearted person, cheerful personality, bold and careful. These are good conditions for an outstanding talent. If a person wants to stand out and become a talent, he must have these conditions. Some are born, but some are acquired after training.

Now, he is a special-level astronaut and has won the title of "Hero Astronaut". His comrades also call him Team Nie. In the space station 390 kilometers above the ground, he teaches the astronaut crew " "The first lesson of school", he said that he was born in a small village and often herded cattle by the river when he was a child. Sometimes, when he fell asleep lying by the river, he would dream. He once had a strange dream. He grew a pair of big wings and flew into the blue sky. At that time, he had not seen an airplane. From then on, he had his own ideal and soared in the blue sky. While working on the space station, he said, looking at the beautiful blue earth and the vast starry sky from the porthole, I feel very excited every day, because this touch of blue has been my ideal since I was a child. He said that every small step he takes to fly to the sky is a big step forward for China's aerospace industry. This honor will make him proud throughout his life. Career will bring you success and gain, and you can also gain respect from others. A person who loves his job and is dedicated to his job will become a role model for others and will allow others to follow suit.

A writer interviewed him and said that when he was a child, his family was so poor that they did not even have a hook to carry water. Two ropes were hung on both ends of the pole, and a wooden hook was tied to the rope to hang the bucket. Nie Haisheng When carrying water, one does not need a pole but carries it by hand. When going to school, one sleeps on the bed wrapped in a quilt. Nie Haisheng told the writer that he could write more tragically, but not too miserable. Now, Nie Haisheng often encourages students to study hard and serve the motherland. In the interview, he said that he would live up to his mission, live up to his trust, and make new achievements again. A person who has dreams in his heart, dares to take on responsibilities, and serves the country wholeheartedly will maintain his optimism at all times and always find ways to overcome difficulties. A person who can overcome difficulties can also face his own life and career. Only those who solve difficulties can also solve various problems encountered in life and career.

A man who grew up from a poor boy to an aerospace hero has experienced many hardships and difficulties, and also met a wife who loves and supports him. Good love is sometimes opposed and sometimes blocked. In fact, It is a kind of deep love. Once you understand it, you will stand firmly behind your lover and become the person who supports him and never abandons you. The steadfastness between husband and wife is that when you need support, your lover may consider your safety. Once he stands with you, he is the strongest person in the world, able to solve your problems, be able to go through fire and water for you, and even face no matter how difficult it is. The person who never frowns despite the difficulties and dangers, is happy for your happiness, happy for your joy, and silently becomes your stepping stone for your pursuit, allowing you to step on and climb higher. Stand steadier, see further, and walk more smoothly.

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