My mother-in-law disliked my poor family and didn't give me a change fee at the wedding. What do you think of this practice?

Before I met my husband, my life went through a difficult and tortuous process.

I was born in a remote mountain village, where the traffic is blocked and the economy is relatively backward. I have four brothers and sisters, and my parents have no education and skills. They can only feed us on a few acres of fertile land. In order to supplement the family, a brute father often went up the mountain to cut wood, dried it and sold it to the local brick kiln factory.

Parents' culture is not high, and the idea of carrying on the family line is deeply rooted. My mother gave birth to our three sisters in one breath, and it can be seen from the names of our three sisters that both parents want to have a son. My name is Leddy, my elder sister is Zhao Di, and my second sister is Gates. When the mother gave birth to her fourth child, she finally got her wish and gave birth to her younger brother.

Many people eat at home and few people work. Parents are often sad about our tuition. Although I graduated from junior high school and was admitted to the city's key high school, I voluntarily gave up my studies in order to share my parents' worries.

As the boss of the family, I naturally have to shoulder the heavy responsibility of the family. After dropping out of school, I followed my big cousin to work in the southern city. I have a low education, and it is more difficult to find a good job in the city than to ascend to heaven. I worked as a dishwasher in a restaurant, a waiter in a hotel, and a cleaner in an airport ... all dirty and tiring jobs with low wages.

I get paid every month. I only keep the necessary living expenses and send the rest home. In order to change my fate, I took the adult self-study exam. It's hard to learn, but I've been persevering. A few years later, I got a college diploma from the adult self-study exam.

I got a college diploma and the position of hotel lobby manager, and my work was a little easier. I made unremitting efforts, got a self-taught undergraduate diploma, jumped into a company and became a white-collar worker.

With my help, my old house was decorated into a second floor. To my relief, my sister and younger brothers are considerate of me and study hard. My mother said I was the hero of my family, and I just smiled. I use facts to prove that a daughter can also be the pillar of the family.

When I was twenty-six, I met my present husband. He is the business manager of a company and has business dealings with our company. He is a local, has a car and a house at home, and his parents have jobs. He is an only child. My husband is impressed by my unremitting efforts in life and keeps pursuing me.

But I think my husband's family conditions are superior, and some people worry that the door is not right. Husband smiled and said: What age is it now, and I still pay attention to these. As long as we are in two of a kind, it will be better than anything. My husband and I have complementary personalities and help each other at work. There are many common topics, and there will always be endless whispers.

However, my mother-in-law is very dissatisfied with me. She thinks there are many brothers and sisters in my family, and she is afraid that I will supplement my family in the future. My husband and I are in love, and my mother-in-law always talks with a gun and a stick, mocking me as a rural girl.

My husband took me home and met my in-laws for the first time. My mother-in-law didn't give me a red envelope and put on a condescending posture. What I ate at noon was still left over, and I was not treated as a future wife at all.

My in-laws don't like me, but they have no clear objection to our marriage, because my husband loves me and my in-laws love my son. When my in-laws and my parents discussed our marriage, they only went to a small restaurant for a meal, which was extremely simple, about 300 yuan.

My in-laws asked my family to give a bride price, and my parents asked for 88 thousand. Although my in-laws agreed on the spot, they then asked my parents what to marry.

My mother is a strong woman. She said that although my family was poor, it was ambitious, and she never wanted to leave a bride price. My mother promised to marry me with a car.

I'm also angry that my mother-in-law said so. I said to my husband: your mother looks down on my parents too much, and this marriage is still not married. Husband smiled and said: On the wedding day, I asked my mother to give you a big red envelope to change my mind.

My husband assured me again and again that my anger had disappeared. Seriously, I really didn't mean to change my mind. I think my in-laws' attitude towards my family is simply unacceptable.

Before getting married, my husband went abroad for a month on business. Who knows that my father-in-law suddenly had a cerebral hemorrhage in the middle of the night and my husband couldn't come back. He asked me to go to my mother-in-law's house. When I went to my mother-in-law's house, my father-in-law was already in a coma. I rushed him to the hospital. After the rescue, my father-in-law saved his life.

My mother-in-law is in poor health. She has been diabetic for more than ten years, and it is too much for her to accompany her to bed alone in the hospital. Every day after work, my mother-in-law goes home to rest, and I accompany her in the hospital at night. I have to go to work during the day and accompany me at night. After more than twenty days, I lost six pounds.

After my father-in-law was discharged from the hospital, my mother-in-law began to prepare for our wedding. My mother-in-law booked a four-star hotel. I am very happy. I think my mother-in-law still attaches great importance to our wedding.

On the wedding day, the wedding scene was very lively. In the tea ceremony, the wedding host implicitly asked her in-laws to change red envelopes for herself, but her mother-in-law actually said that she forgot to change red envelopes and quickly took out a bank card from her pocket. The host has probably never encountered such a situation, and at that time he was a little confused. However, it was quickly adjusted to let her mother-in-law announce how much money was in the bank card.

I handed the tea to my mother-in-law and said to her, please have tea, mom. My mother-in-law swallowed it and handed me the bank card. The mother-in-law took the host's microphone and announced loudly that there were 88 thousand in her daughter-in-law's red envelope. I froze on the spot. I didn't expect my mother-in-law to be so generous and make a 180 degree turn to me.

My mother-in-law took my hand and said to the guests emotionally, "I used to look at people with colored glasses, which made you wronged." I only have one son. You married my son, that is, my child. I also have a daughter. "Mother-in-law voice down, the guests applauded warmly. I was finally accepted by my mother-in-law, and I couldn't help shedding tears of happiness.