Journey to the heart: I met you and didn't waste my life.

A wheelchair, a bike and a dog.

A trip that just left.

This is the scene in the documentary "Meeting You".

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Journey to the heart: I met you and didn't waste my life.

A wheelchair, a bike and a dog.

A trip that just left.

This is the scene in the documentary "Meeting You".

This is a big "heart" shape on the Chinese territory, which explains to us what is called "you accompany me for a journey, I will accompany you for a lifetime" love.

After seeing Ding Yizhou again, Lai Min's less and less "smart" brain was filled with more and more fearful things. I'm afraid I can only give him efforts, but I can't give him happiness. I'm afraid he will collapse on the day of death. I'm even more afraid that I can't even marry the man in front of me because of my illness. Ding Yizhou smiled like a ruffian bad boy: No fear, the Civil Affairs Bureau won't give us a permit, so we will draw one ourselves.

Lai Yizhou, an 85-year-old couple who was awarded the honorary title of "Wandering Couple" by netizens, moved Dong Qing, Jing Li and Sitar tan, shocked CCTV, and was also made into a TV series by director Xiaomei.

? 20 1 565438+1October1A mountain bike, a wheelchair, a dog, a healthy man and a terminally ill woman set out from Liuzhou, Guangxi, and walked out of a "heart" shape on the land of China. But this time, there is no time limit. Maybe half my life, maybe all my life. Ding Yizhou and Lai Min never dared to think that they would grow old together.

? Because Lai Min's hereditary cerebellar ataxia was already working before he began to fall in love. Hereditary cerebellar ataxia, commonly known as goose disease, is one of more than 6,000 rare diseases in the world. At the beginning of the disease, the patient will stagger like a penguin. As the cerebellum shrinks, the ability to stand and walk will gradually disappear, then language, internal organs ... until life stops.

? When they met, Lai Min was already ill and could not walk smoothly. But this does not prevent Ding Yizhou from taking her away. In Ding Yizhou's eyes, Lai Min is a very warm girl. When I was at school, my temper was stuffy and my grades were poor. Nobody cares in the class, only Lai Min teases him every day. She seems to be laughing all the time. They haven't seen each other for a long time after graduating from high school. Before the reunion, he clearly remembered the female classmate who had a crush on him by his warm smiling face. When he found Lai Min again, he knew that she had an incurable disease and would be able to walk and talk soon, and that she would leave early. He also knows that she lost her parents in a short time, was abandoned by her ex-boyfriend who talked for seven years after her illness, and had to face the incurable demon. Despite many bad things, she can still grin and smile beautifully. Such Lai Min, Ding Yizhou can't let go.

? Fate is like a pair of iron palms, trying to push her into the water. But it doesn't matter, he is strong enough to catch her. Facing Ding Yizhou's "application for care", Lai Min was more afraid than moved. I am afraid of being rejected as my illness worsens, and I am afraid of being abandoned after a happy day.

Love, can you still believe it?

"Let me take care of you."

? The boor didn't say anything sweet, but he proved his determination with clean actions. "I may not be able to marry you, and I may become a burden to you." Lai Min is afraid of Ding Yizhou's impulsiveness and sympathizes with her more than likes her. Dante Yizhou firmly said to her: "It's not sympathy, it's love. This is the only thing I can be sure of in my life. " People who really love you, even if they cross Qian Shan and go through all kinds of difficulties and obstacles, will eventually meet.

? Ding Yizhou didn't give Lai A Min a chance to refuse. Unable to resist, he was directly transported back to Liuzhou from Nanning, and there was a working dog named Po. At that time just together, although not so neat, but Lai Min still move. She also wants to be a "three good girlfriends", so besides waiting for him at home, she will cook his favorite dishes every morning and go out to buy him breakfast. However, every time he goes out, Lai Min falls down many times uncontrollably. She won't tell Ding Yizhou all this. It is a very satisfying thing to pay for the person she likes. There is no need for the other party to know.

? Besides, wrestling is just the beginning. The future will be even more difficult. In order to treat Lai Min, Ding Yizhou unequivocally spent all his savings. But don't eat money for this disease. I have been in and out of the hospital many times, but Lai Min's speech speed is getting slower and slower, and it takes a lot of effort and time to walk a short distance at home. Lai Min worked as a tour guide when he was in good health. She always wants to travel around like a chivalrous woman. Such a dream, she told Ding Yizhou, did not expect to be remembered by him.

? Since it can't be cured, it has no value in the hospital. Those white walls and unchanged windows are the same every day. Let's go outside and have a look. At least, let her last memory of this world be colorful.

? Lai Min once said in Reader that her favorite is San Mao's You Are My Dream, which she read with a smile and tears. In the article, San Mao's memories of Jose are full. As we all know, Lai Min is reading his own prediction!

She said: "Ding Yizhou must have traded her cerebellum for God, but she didn't regret it." Indeed, for Lai Min, Ding Yizhou is an unreachable dream in her life. Dante Yizhou said to her: Please let me help you realize this dream!

Ding Yizhou decided: Dead! Anyway, I won't live long, so I might as well live a wonderful life in another way. Lai Min and Ding Yizhou are going to travel around China? Their physical condition and economic situation can't support this dream. Friends don't like it, and family members protest angrily, but these can't stop them from taking all their savings of 200 yuan, bringing some dry food and changing Lai Min into a wheelchair.

Ding Yizhou rode a bicycle, and Lai Min, who was pulling with Po, seemed to set off casually. On the day of departure, the weather was particularly good. Lai Min looked at Ding Yizhou from behind. His shoulders are full of morning sunshine, much like the heroes in her little world. In the movie, Xia Zixian is waiting for the day when her Prince Charming will marry her in a golden dress with colorful clouds.

? Now, Lai Min's lover, riding a mountain bike, has come to pick her up and travel around China. China is very big, the wheelchair moves slowly, and it often goes on strike because of excessive wear and tear. Later, some enthusiastic people learned their story from the media and sent an electric tricycle to give them a decent means of transportation.

? Because they have no money, they hardly stay in hotels except during their physiological period in Lai Min or when they need to take a bath. Find a flat land, build a simple tent, and fall asleep with it. This love story, the house and the car are the same, and it is really "poor and white."

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? We often mistakenly think that love must be kept fresh, and there must be many real things other than feelings to ask for the so-called sense of security. Lai Min and Ding Yizhou may have nothing, but they have everything. Lai Min especially believes that Ding Yizhou will not starve himself at any time. Before leaving, she was curious. What should I do if I have no money? He said, you put the wheelchair aside and I'll kneel down and beg you.

? Jokes are jokes, old man. They don't live on the pity of others. He is so skilled that he can feed two people anywhere. Ding Yizhou used to be a barber. In 10, he became a hair director. Cutting people's hair is 198. Can go out, or those hands, cut once as long as 10 yuan. As they walked, Ding Yizhou worked. Along the way, in addition to cutting hair, he also worked as a mason, helped people collect crops, herded cattle and sheep, and sold bamboo rice, which opened up many new skills. Ding Yizhou never cooked before. But Lai Min's health is getting worse day by day, and his legs won't be stiff when he stands for a short time. So he grabbed pots and pans and clumsily learned to make a fire outdoors and cook with limited ingredients like a primary school student.

? When you get to the plateau, you may be out of breath when you walk normally, let alone carry people on your back. Dante never shouts tired on the boat. He carried Lai Min on his back, walked through steep mountain roads, crossed potholes and piles of stones, face to face, heart to heart. He took care of her and tried his best, as he promised. However, he didn't want to treat her as a patient.

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? In order not to let Lai Min give up exercise easily, Ding Yizhou waited at a distance, forcing Lai Min to do it himself. He also likes to pinch her into a pig's mouth and find fault with her. This indomitable spirit and omnipotent man invited pets in front of her like a child.

? Lai Min, always let Ding Yizhou. There were many quarrels on the road, but after each quarrel, she cried bitterly and turned to coax him with a smile. Of course, he was never soft-lipped when he was taught a lesson. Ding Yizhou has no concept of money. When they set up stalls to make money, he is always in a daze, not counting flowers. Lai Min was really angry and frowned at him. She was worried, too. She is so careless about money. What will he do if she loses herself in the future?

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? Along the way, although Ding Yizhou has always taken care of Lai Min more, she also felt embarrassed about Ding Yizhou and tried to help him share. He couldn't stand up, so he sat on a small bench and stepped on his feet to help him wash his dirty coat. I can't move anymore. I want to go to the bathroom in the middle of the night. Seeing Ding Yizhou sleeping soundly, I couldn't bear to wake him up, so I couldn't wait until dawn.

? Ding Yizhou said: "I don't think she is dragging me down. She is actually fulfilling me, fulfilling my responsibility and responsibility as a man. It is she who really shines, and I am lucky because I can occupy this warmth. "

Before meeting Lai Min again, he was a simple man to the extreme. Even when stylists earn more than 10,000 yuan a month and live a luxurious life, they never feel the enthusiasm of life.

? Indeed, in the face of fragile life and death within reach, Lai Min became a dazzling sun in front of Ding Yizhou, which suddenly brought his life back to life. She spoiled and fought in front of him like an ordinary girl. What she thinks about every day is not how much life I have left, but how long I will spend the rest of my life happily with you. People who really love you will not care about your beauty, ugliness, wealth and sufferings.

? If I have no money, I will earn; If you can't leave, I will carry you around the world and watch you smile like a flower. I like you, so I want to spend the rest of my life with you, rain or shine.

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"You accompany me for a ride, and I will accompany you for a lifetime." This is Ding Yizhou in Lai Min's eyes, the simple man. He gave up all the company with her just because he decided that she was the only one in his life. In fact, this is not what Lai Min thought. She knew that without her, Ding Yizhou would collapse. Therefore, she spent the rest of her life to stay with him, so that she would always be the best self in his memory.

? On July 1 2065438, Ding Yizhou took Lai Min to the Potala Palace in his dream. Ding Yizhou and Lai Min arrive at Potala Palace in Tibet. That night, with the encouragement of the donkey friends, Ding Yizhou knelt in front of Lai Min with a bunch of Gesang flowers and proposed to her.

? "Marry me. Although I can't give you wealth, I will make you happy ..."

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After sleeping in the wind for more than half a year, they finally got together. "I only spend one twentieth or even one tenth of my life with her, but she spends the rest of her life with me, which I can't live up to."

? Two people, you rely on me and I help you, from Guangxi to Yunnan, from Tibet to Xinjiang. In no hurry, I walked out of a half heart shape on the map of China, but the unexpected arrival of "Ding" discouraged them.

? Goose disease, the genetic probability is 50%, Lai Min got sick from his mother. She doesn't want her children to suffer as much as herself, so they have been carefully avoiding the arrival of the children. When I arrived in Xi 'an, Lai Min found that she was pregnant.

? I never thought about having children, but when I learned that I was pregnant, Lai Min couldn't take them off. She wants to protect her children, be a good mother, and let her children accompany Ding Yizhou for a long time instead of herself.

? "Give this child and give ourselves a chance." It was the first time that Lai Min was willful, and it was also the first time that Ding Yizhou saw Lai Min crying out of breath. They ran to Beijing and waited for their children to have genetic screening five months later. If the child does not carry the disease-causing gene, Lai Min will be born even if he is desperate. During the waiting days, Lai Min wrote a letter to the baby from 1 to 18. She puts her hand on her stomach every day, imagining what the child looks like, and even naming the child. Waiting and praying, but they still didn't expect the lucky star, and the child was determined to have a disease-causing gene.

? They must say goodbye to Ding. They haven't met yet. Lai Min, who was waiting for induced labor in the hospital bed, never wanted her legs to move. If she can, she will run away and keep Ding. How could she not want to be a mother? How come! However, she can't.

? But she knows that she can't be sad for long. Ding Yizhou must be more sad when he cries. Although he didn't cry bitterly, Ding Yizhou snuggled in his arms was weaker than ever. Yes, why doesn't he want to be a father …

? It was almost a year since Ding was lost, and Lai Min and Ding Yizhou recovered from that despair. She can laugh mercilessly again, and Ding Yizhou begins to make more plans for their future. Through crowdfunding, they opened their own inn in Litang, Sichuan, where they once held a wedding. It's named after a baby I've never met. It's called Yao Lu Starry Sky. I also made a "Flying Penguin" public welfare program, hoping to help more patients like Lai Min see the world.

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? Although Lai Min's illness has caused respiratory muscle paralysis. Sometimes when she catches a cold and can't spit out a mouthful, she will hold herself unconscious. Her shrinking calf is thinner than Ding Yizhou's arm. But he will always tease her, laugh at her dreaming and drooling, and stuff her into the pig's mouth. She didn't give up on herself either. Although she is slow and laborious, she still tries to dress herself and move her body step by step. Ding Yizhou can still often photograph Lai Min's smiling face.

I have always been amazed at her strength. I don't doubt her energy at all. She will live a wonderful life without me. But in fact, they have gone from two people to one person. What would have happened if we hadn't met? Lai Min felt that Ding Yizhou would be more free if he didn't have this "burden". Ding Yizhou disagreed: I can go up the mountain and go to sea without you. But I don't want to leave you and go anywhere.

? In this world, maybe there are many disappointments in love. However, some people are willing to bear the countless critical blows of fate and dare to ignore the pressure of death just to walk with each other all the time.

? Watching their interview video in Reader, my tears never stopped from beginning to end. I was moved by their persistent and firm love, and also by Lai Min's bright and simple smile. I don't know what kind of feelings can make two people so determined about love. Does it make us believe in love again? For myself, I have always believed in love. I firmly believe that love has never changed there, and it has become a popular feeling. Some compare love to a chess piece, some regard love as a weight that can be turned over, some regard love as a game, and some have never expected love. Love has never changed for thousands of years. Only when you and I have changed, do we feel that love has changed. Especially in this materialistic era, many people's pursuit of material things is often higher than their persistence in love.

Sharing happiness is not difficult, but not everyone can do it. Although Ding Yizhou and Lai Min have had unfortunate experiences, they are luckier than others, because they have the best love and intimate partner in the world. Hold your hand and grow old with your son. I sincerely pray that God will treat them well and let them spend more time together.

? Leslie Cheung has a song called "Dragonflies Passing by", which sings that a person does not hesitate to treat the person he likes. As Lai Min said, no one will accompany another person forever. We can only accompany each other for a journey instead of a lifetime. Everyone in other people's lives may pass by like a dragonfly. But although dragonflies are short and fragile, even though life is sometimes even thinner than dragonflies, don't be afraid of strong winds and snowstorms.

? You came to the earth to see the sun. You should try to be satisfied, and then walk down the street with your sweetheart.