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The friendship between men and women has always been controversial, so is there pure friendship between men and women?

If there is pure friendship between men and women, it is self-deception or an ambiguous excuse for each other. Because there is no pure friendship between men and women. Why do humans divide men and women? Just to mate and breed with each other, this is nature, a natural law, and we can't violate it. If there is pure friendship between men and women, what is it? How to reproduce? No matter how pure the best friend relationship is, it's all bullshit.

I have a friend who talked about a girlfriend. When determining the relationship, his girlfriend clearly told him that she had a boyfriend. At that time, my friends thought it was normal to have a boyfriend and girlfriend, so they didn't worry much. A month later, he broke up. He really couldn't stand his girlfriend and his boyfriend.

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Mankind is the largest social group in the world, so monogamy is stipulated in civilized society. This is the foundation or foundation of the stability and harmony of human society. To put it bluntly, it emphasizes the oneness and specificity of sex. This determines that the opposite sex, except husband and wife, can be intimate. Other heterosexual relationships need to be considered and a certain social distance is needed. A girlfriend of the opposite sex who has no privacy is simply untenable. As the saying goes, always walk by the river and never get wet. Playing ambiguous will produce so-called long-term love. Between men and women, if you talk about everything, you can talk openly, and it is easy to have a * * * sound, and the impulse leads to crossing the border. In reality, there are many such examples.

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Especially some married women, whether consciously or unconsciously, always like to talk to men about the flaws or dissatisfaction of husband and wife's life. Some men who study women's minds and understand psychology will act as psychological counselors. Zhao Ge said that personally, no matter how big the contradictions and grievances between husband and wife are, don't talk to the opposite sex under any circumstances. Contradictions within the family are actually family privacy. Talking to outsiders casually, especially to the opposite sex, is disrespectful to yourself and your partner.

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Zhao Ge said that personally, married men and women, the simpler the feelings, the more loving the husband and wife, and the more stable the family. Greed or desire is a taboo for a happy life. Please don't scold Zhao Ge for being stubborn and old-fashioned.