What did you do to live the life you wanted? After reading, 10 _ after reading _ after reading.

What Have You Taken to Live the Life You Want is a paperback book written by Cat Demon and published by Jiangsu Phoenix Literature and Art Publishing House. The price of this book is 42.00 yuan and the number of pages is 256. The article gives some readers' thoughts after reading, hoping to help everyone.

What kind of life do you want? (1): Only hard work can make people independent in this world.

The title is not what I thought, but a sentence in the author's book. I like it very much and I like to convey it to you in the best way.

The author of this book is called Cat Demon. It is because of reading this book that I know Demon has his own reading column. I always thought it was just a shopping platform. This fact proves once again that in this era, gold will always shine, and what we eat is no longer the stage, but the real strength.

I feel a little ashamed after reading the resume of Cat Demon and his words. After all, compared with him, I am a 30-year-old woman like an ordinary old aunt. What he experienced, working abroad, is my dream. I feel that in the seven years since I graduated, nothing has changed except my efforts. And he will change every short year or two. I live a stable life, but she lives in change. She strives to survive and be independent with her own struggle in this world, full of the courage of generate.

Life in the twenties is the best life, because at that time we were full of curiosity about the world and had the courage to change it. Our edges and corners have not been smoothed by life. We are so cute, so naive, so hopeful. But people of this age are often confused. Many people may have read many books by this time. At this time, many people walked a lot and traveled all over Qian Shan in order to break through the confusion. In the end, at the age of 30, we will all have our own answers.

From a girl's point of view, the cat demon summed up people's life and feelings at this stage in 35 words. At this stage, people's state and position are all in one-to-one correspondence, and it seems that every small link has our own shadow. What kind of person can you live in this world? Only you can define who you are. Who would you be? This is probably the main idea of the author's whole book, or the positive energy he wants to convey to us.

Although all the streets and alleys in the society are called beauty goddesses now, almost all the girls clearly know that they are not goddesses. No matter how beautiful people are, they still feel that they are not beautiful enough or want to be more beautiful. So do we. No matter how many books we read, we still want to read more and more books to make further progress in our personality and study. Only this positive force is the driving force for us to live.

I like the attitude conveyed by the author in the book, the way of doing things and the details of life observed. I think if he publishes the next book, I will definitely continue reading it.

What kind of life do you want? (2): I am trying to live the life I want.

It is a simple sentence to live the life you want. But to really realize it, the hard work is unimaginable for those who have never experienced it.

What looks simple is quite difficult to do.

Nowadays, many articles are aimed at explaining the so-called "positive energy" with some derogatory terms such as "short and poor" and "black and fat and ugly". It is to criticize you with other people's successful examples, and then tell you how to change, so you can live the life you want.

Just, is it really you?

When I opened the book "What kind of life do you want", the cat demon wrote it. First, I felt that the topic was enough and because it was enough, I suddenly had an impression, and then I extended my memory. Am I living the life I want now?

Each of us is very busy every day and has no time to think about whether the life we have lived is what we want. When we have time to think carefully, we find that the life we live every day may not be what we want, and maybe we have no choice at that time. Some people gradually become silent in this inability to choose; But some people, in this impossible choice, generate created an amazing little universe.

This may be the ultimate meaning for a person to change his life.

No one can complete the pilgrimage of life instead of us. Only we can complete the pilgrimage. Change is the end of life pilgrimage. Only by longing for the contrast between life and real life can we live the life we want.

To be honest, as a person who has been in the workplace for nearly 20 years, "What Have You Taken to Live the Life You Want" didn't attract me at first. After all, I have clearly seen an irresistible fate in the passage of the vast years. But after reading it, I suddenly found that the best life is not to live like others, but to turn my life into a life template. Maybe one day someone will follow your template. !

Looking back on the past years, what is the life I want most in my heart? There is a house with four bedrooms, two bedrooms, a study and a gym. Make a cup of good rose tea every morning, open a good book and read it carefully, or draw two colors on the easel at hand, and then get inspiration. Grab the laptop at hand and tap the keyboard left and right to turn your thoughts into jumping words in exchange for labor income. Then, look back at the husband and children around you, this life is enough!

Maybe you will laugh when you see the life I want, but I am trying to live the life I want now.

Work hard ~

What kind of life do you want? (3): Today, I saw how beautiful reality can be.

0 1

June 20 14, the day I graduated from college, I took my luggage and got on the train going north.

At that time, I just signed a contract with Aerospace. As a science student, this steady road is in line with the expectations of the masses. I walked all the way to Beijing for 30 hours with a letter of appointment and the mission entrusted by the motherland and the chairman.

Next, I entered a compartment, full of incomprehensible gobbledygook such as orbital theory and space gravity. Although I am anxious to go crazy every night, I still stubbornly tell myself that you can do it, and you can do more.

In this way, with a sense of revolution, I forced myself to finally get an excellent exam. Then, there will be opportunities to go abroad. I was so excited that I went abroad.

I still remember the day when I left. The sun was so hot that it seemed to melt me. With the ambition of going abroad to do great things, I swaggered, bid farewell to my family and embarked on a trip abroad.

Life abroad is very comfortable. Compared with many friends in China, I really live in heaven. If you only look at the salary, I am very cost-effective.

However, life will never be smooth sailing. My career has hit a bottleneck, and I can't get a position. The content is far from what I originally thought. Needless to say, I'm depressed, but the only thing I haven't thought about is quitting.

How can I put it? People who are used to ease can't escape from the greenhouse. I thought it over and over again, but I gave in.

Every day, in addition to doing your own thing in a down-to-earth manner, shielding all domestic news, like banishing yourself to Xanadu. I think it's a good thing to live in such obscurity.

In this way, after more than a year, there is no economic pressure, the work content is handy, and I get along well with my colleagues and leaders. Apart from the occasional confusion and self-loathing, outsiders think I'm really doing well.

Until one time, a friend came back to visit relatives and chatted with me, mentioning that my classmates in China were worried about the rent of several hundred and one thousand yuan. It seems to be driven to ashes by social pressure, but it strangely glows something called * * * and hard work.

I admit, at that moment, I lived like a pensioner. Suddenly, when I struck the table, my head was covered with blood. I decided to resign.

02

Life back home, as everyone says, is difficult step by step, but it takes several times of effort to make a fraction abroad. I joined the job search army alone.

The miserable years of job hunting can probably start from June 17 to June 17. I looked up confidently and looked at my glittering resume, proudly thinking that my work experience was not bad and my appearance would not be deducted. Finding a job is not a matter of minutes.

But the truth hit me in the face again. I have been looking for a suitable job for half a year.

From the beginning, I can chat with my friends on the phone. Later, I even told my parents with trepidation that I was safe, for fear that they would ask if they had found a job.

With the living expenses given by my parents, I hid under the quilt in the rented house and cried, facing the work information day after day, and finally felt sick.

I was full of confidence when I first entered the domestic competition. The little giant inside me can effectively defeat the Statue of Liberty and gradually begin to collapse. The confidence I had built for a long time collapsed. I began to ask myself again and again, is it right to resign? Is it rash to choose a strange city with all your eggs in one basket?

With this kind of self-doubt and self-denial, I became a little bit let the right person in. Any fire can ignite me instantly, and it is no exaggeration to describe yourself as a firecracker.

Later, I thought for countless times whether the rough experience of this year was the torture of God or the test before fate gave candy. During that time, I believed that my strong psychology was defeated. Although I could still say with a smile that this was a big task for me, at that time, I knew I couldn't make it.

I can't accept that I don't have a glamorous and well-paid job, but I feel like nothing. You think you should be king in this world, but in the end, I found that everyone is king except you.

But fortunately, I am still an inexplicable positive person who can spontaneously inspire. Although the blows came one after another, I can still lie in bed at night to comfort myself after a day's rush. Don't be afraid, you are God's chosen few.

Probably because of this blind optimism, I finally got what I wanted.

03

I didn't have smooth sailing, but fortunately, I always firmly believe that as long as there is blood in my bones, who can say that we can't do anything?

Even if you are defeated, you can still fight back with your fists after sleeping.

I know I'm not an inspirational role model for successful people, and I know how much I weigh. I can only say that I have not been defeated by the mediocrity of life in these years. After reading my distant dream, I have never compromised.

Last year, on my birthday, my friend said that I was an out-and-out idealist, to the effect that I was living in a castle in the air, full of dreams and blood, and not grounded at all.

But on the other hand, probably because of this paranoia, I have never forgotten my true ideal for more than 20 years, which enabled me to overcome most of my procrastination and laziness, dare to face up to my inner cowardice and press myself forward step by step.

When I was a child, I chatted with my family. My father asked me, what is the most important thing in your life?

At that time, I was young and had almost no complete picture of the future, but I still answered hit floor: realize your dream.

Now it seems that I have lived up to expectations and really put those big words into practice, not to brag about how awesome I am, but for those who have never thought about it and dare not think about it. I actually saw hope one day.

This feeling is really dreamy.

I realized that every step I think is wrong is actually the only way in life. People should strengthen their true self at every moment of self-doubt.

When I first started writing, I wrote down and said what happened in real life with the idea of cooking words to satisfy my hunger.

But God's arrangement is always wonderful. Slowly, a group of lovely friends gathered around me. Those young people who are experiencing confusion, depression, sadness and pain like me tell me that they see courage and strength in my words.

It is these strangers who silently support me and trust me unconditionally. To this end, I persisted.

I sat in front of the computer for hours. Although I am tired to death every day, I still keep on outputting. I set myself a small goal. If I'm lucky, I hope I can publish a book of my own before I'm 30.

But who would have thought that this goal was five years ahead of schedule.

I will enrich my skeleton little by little, with flesh and blood. In this process, I no longer dwell on previous failures. I have seen too many excellent writers and entrepreneurs who are conscientious and diligent.

Only then did I understand that when I was young, I was too young to be depressed by a trivial matter. Quite picky is just looking at the leopard.

What I really get is the fracture and remodeling of values and outlook on life. Whether I resigned and returned to China, or I knew that I was not sure, I resolutely followed the possibility of another life.

One year in Beijing, one year abroad, and one year back home to apply for a job gave me great courage. I know that even if I am no longer excellent, I still have the experience of traveling to several countries and standing on the international stage on behalf of the national communications industry.

At that moment, I frankly faced my ambition, full and sinister.

04

On the first day of this year, when I was preparing to write, I opened my first article, which recorded a rather lofty writer's high hopes for himself.

The paper says: the hardest thing to stick to is the initial heart. I hope you can stick to the Tao in your heart all your life, stick to your responsibilities as a writer and do whatever you want.

Today, my first book is listed, and I still solemnly write such a message here, hoping that I can still be a moral, ambitious and moral "scholar" under the constant erosion of society and the oppression of utilitarian reality.

But I know that a few words can't describe my past ups and downs and my thoughts on people and the world, so I wrote them all in "What do you want to live?"

I believe you can see the confusion and confusion we are experiencing more or less in it. I also believe that it will definitely bring you a full positive feeling and bring you positive energy to stand up again.

We are finally leaving, and we will definitely arrive.

Yes, I am eagerly looking forward to seeing that we finally live the day we want most.

I wish you a bright and prosperous future!

Pawn things

What kind of life do you want? (4): You are poor, ugly and fat, which means you.

What depresses me most is that others are better looking, more capable and harder than you. What's the use of my efforts when others are so powerful! But if you think so, you are a big joke. People dumped you for a few blocks. If you don't work hard, you will only fall further and become more inconspicuous.

What makes you keep trying, girl? What made you lock your heart? Buy whatever you want, there are mountains to support and no mountains to stand on your own feet. When there is a mountain, who doesn't want to rely on it? Backed by a big tree, you can enjoy the cool. There is such a person who can save you from hardships and troubles and shelter you from the wind and rain. If you are abandoned by a big tree, what do you have?

Someone asked: Girl, what gives you a sense of security? The most straightforward answer I have ever heard is "money". Only when you have money can you buy what you like. Even if you cry, you can choose where to cry, to the hot springs in Japan, to the Golden Hall in Vienna or to the super hotel in Dubai, instead of sitting on the roadside crying. Some people succeed in their twenties, and you die in your twenties. No matter how much money you earn, as a girl, you should have your own career, so that you don't have to spend your own money to get in touch with new things, but you can't "lose" the ability to make money. It's never too late to start. There is always a suitable job waiting for you. Don't cry so hard and tired. Difficulties are temporary, and there are always more ways than difficulties.

I chatted with the student party in the book circle last night about learning. They complained that it was difficult to learn. "Black hair doesn't know how to study hard early, and Bai Shoufang regrets studying late."

I said: learn math and physics well, and you are not afraid to travel all over the world.

Little White Rabbit No.1: Math is so difficult.

I said: selling vegetables does not necessarily require advanced mathematics. Good mathematics can determine where you go to buy vegetables. Everyone is a waiter, and your Excellence determines where you will be a waiter. There is no difference in work, Excellence is a habit.

It is not easy to learn the unknown, but it is not impossible. Otherwise, there are so many pioneers, and if there are difficulties, face them. The greater the difficulty, the more successful they will be. Won't they have a sense of accomplishment?

360 lines, each line is a champion. There's no need to worry about others flying planes and you repairing them. Without your regular inspection, they can't fly in the blue sky with peace of mind. We are all a brick of society. We should cooperate well, play our role, actively learn professional skills and shine.

What is your definition of success, fertile land, a house full of gold and a wife in your arms? Everyone is pursuing the so-called success, but no one can tell what it is. I have an inaccurate definition: being envied by others.

Some time ago, my mood was very depressed. My brother said, Sister, if you download a Tik Tok, your mood will be better. Maybe it's because I've been stuck in a small village for too long and I've met many excellent people. They call it "the great god of Tik Tok", and they have one thing in common: fire. Some have excellent voices, some make-up parties, some show calligraphy, and all kinds of "monsters". I'm not talking nonsense with you, nor am I advertising. The talent you show is loved and envied by others, even if it is a sigh: Wow, that's amazing, teach me quickly. This is all your success. Do a correct problem today and help grandma cross the street tomorrow. This is all your success. Qian Qian, an outstanding figure, is a medal for you.

Studying both inside and outside is the real attitude of girls. Even if you have money to wear high-definition clothes, you should wear a pleasing feeling instead of making people feel like a walking corpse. Fitness is not only for beauty, but also for a healthy body, away from doctors, saving a lot of unnecessary pain.

Be conscious, read more books, cultivate one's morality and be a woman with a fragrant soul. I don't like a nagging girl. It's really annoying It's okay for you to sit there quietly and express your emotions appropriately. Talking endlessly is really a headache. You often say that you hate "bitch scolding the street", although it is also one of the solutions to the problem, which is really disrespectful.

Everyone will lose control of their emotions at times, and there will be 10,000 MMP sentences on their lips, but I hope you can say "I can handle it calmly" every time, so that you can't control it. That sentence is the last straw. As long as you can bear the consequences, go to sleep. I wouldn't advise people to be cowards. I hope you are a "wise man" in life.

All the above ideas about this book are caused by my reading this book. I may have read too many inspirational messages recently and published many distorted "three views". Read (what I wrote) if you like it, and forget it if you don't like it.

"What did you take to live the life you want?" He is a JD.COM reading columnist and a cutting-edge writer, who is active in platforms such as Jane Books and JD.COM Reading. I like to think about life, and the truth summed up is really useful. Be strict with yourself and be lenient with others, which can also be regarded as the cultivation secret of a "three highs" person.

How is your life now? This is all your choice. If you want to change, don't wait any longer.

What kind of life do you want? (5): Listen to your inner voice

"What can I do to live the life you want?" I have told many stories, some positive and some negative, some concrete and some bold, and the goal to guide is clear-how to live the life you want.

This book touched me, and it was not the listed stories that made me think, but the title itself. Because no matter how wonderful the story is, the strong sense of substitution is simulating other people's lives. The so-called other people's lives read in the story are just a leaf full of trees, a fragment of a big drama, and the tip of a huge iceberg. The background of the story, the inevitable contribution and accidental encounter of the protagonist are beyond the comprehension of onlookers.

Life is a realistic article, covering the whole process of human existence. Who doesn't want this article to be colorful and meaningful? Thinking is one thing, and ending is one thing. The distance between the two is "Where have you been" in the title. Of course, this book is impossible, and it is impossible for any book to list all the methods and tools of "crossing". What it can provide is only a mirror image and enlightenment, and it may also be a blow. When you talk endlessly about what I want, or immerse yourself in beautiful ideas about the future, someone in your ear gently asks you-how do you want to live the life you want, and whether those beautiful ideas suddenly spread out like soap bubbles, making you fall from the clouds to reality.

Live the life you want. Close your eyes, look inside yourself and ask yourself, what kind of life do I want? This is very important. It is a beacon on the vast sea, a banner of novelty-seeking, the truest voice in your heart, and the glorious other side that you will never regret after thousands of turns. Determine the life you most desire, the desire without any conditions attached, and the desire without giving yourself any excuses. As long as your desire is strong enough and your heart is firm enough, all the shackles of external blessing are not worth mentioning.

Without a goal, the winds in all directions are in the opposite direction. Clear goals, raise flags, light lighthouses, and life will surprise you. Is the target far away? As long as you are on the road, it is not far away. Make clear what the dream is and solve the problem of goal and direction. Let the dream walk on the road and solve the problem of methods and tools.

Let the dream go on the road, the most important thing is to bring a warm-blooded heart. It is not the cruelty of reality that scares you, but the triviality of reality that kills you. Every day's indulgence is a departure from dreams, and every moment's compromise is the cooling of blood. What can I do to live the life you want? As long as I think deeply enough about this topic, my heart will be touched. To some extent, this book may awaken the sleeping consciousness, activate the repressed will and make the blood boil and cool.

Some people turn their whole lives into regrets, and the life they want into an impossible infinite future tense. You may be able to read regrets from other people's negative textbooks, especially to arouse your inner ambition and the courage to die for your dreams. Don't care about the eyes of outsiders, don't be distracted by the prosperity around you, and don't get into trouble. In order to live the life you want, all efforts are enjoyment. Never give up, you can send out a steady stream of strength. Your inner strength is due to your persistence in your dreams. Go all out, all or nothing. You just need to listen to your inner voice and live the life you want.

Let the dream always be on the road, but also bring self-discipline and persistence. Self-discipline can be free. Simply put, on the way to the life you want, can you cut off all the branches and vines and reject all the colorful ones? "Everything that starts well is complicated, and everything that ends well is widowed." The road to dreams is not the practice of fishing for three days and drying nets for two days, nor the practice of playing with water, but the long-term hard work and perseverance. Can you keep trying to move forward? Can you adjust your daily state and go all out?

Life is the product of inevitable and accidental marriage. When you wear the red heart of "I want to live this life", when you hold self-discipline in your left hand and insist on self-discipline in your right hand, another important factor-opportunity is striding towards you. Because opportunity is not in the sky, it is at your feet.

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