What should the best man prepare?

Question 1: What should I pay attention to when I want to be the best man? I have had two best man experiences, one in East China and one in Shanghai. I don't know where you are. But these five lessons, I think, are applicable to most places in China:

1, what you have to face when you get up in the morning: you can't wear it.

It means don't dress more festive than the groom. The core is a suit, which is not the same color as the groom and is no more festive than the groom. Whether you are more handsome or not is not the key, because no matter how handsome you are, people still say that the groom is handsome, so don't worry. Specific suggestions are dark suits, orthodox and casual, but not too modern suits (similar to formal clothes, don't wear them). I said the best man. The groom can wear any fashionable clothes.

2. When accompanying the groom to marry the bride: Don't talk yet, be careful and generous.

There should be a habit of picking up brides all over the country.

Don't talk yet: it means greeting the groom politely and then talking as little as possible. Greeting points: whatever the groom's name is, you can call him. When I say less, I mean not to usurp the role of master.

Cautious clearance: It means that the bride's family and the bride's best friend may be embarrassed by the groom and need to be cleared. What should I do as the best man? If the man has elderly relatives, or the man has female relatives (usually the groom's sister), then don't make a move, because you are also one of the "difficult" objects of people today, and you can't get stuck if you come to rescue him. Remember, don't care too much about the woman's embarrassment, because it is necessary for them to spend time, otherwise it will be uncomfortable. It is a custom that women marry to embarrass the men below. It's almost over. Women will lower the steps themselves.

3. At the wedding reception, keep: talk less and laugh more.

Say less: let's say less, because I told you before that even you are the object of "embarrassment" today. It is a national custom to embarrass the groom and the best man at the wedding. You should have heard this sentence: "You think the best man is so easy to be!" "Otherwise, why do people thank the best man and bridesmaid so much? In many places, after the wedding reception, the bride and groom will specially invite the best man and bridesmaid to have dinner again to thank the hard work on the wedding day. Talking less can avoid two things: first, make too many new friends, who may be the people who advise you to drink the most today; Second, you can talk well, which means you can drink well-this is a fallacy, but everyone at the wedding reception thinks so. In fact, the people who talk a lot on the wine table are the ones who are toasted the most.

Laugh more: I have nothing to do most of the time, and my face may be stiff. This is a big no-no. Remember, although you stand there doing nothing and no one cares too much about you, you must smile and feel that everything is fine. Otherwise, people don't say it, but they say in their hearts: this best man is an idiot. Haha, in fact, the best man is a person who stays there to decorate. If you keep laughing, even if you don't say a word, people will say that this best man is good, but if you don't laugh, people will say that you are a fool.

4, the process of toasting with the best man: it doesn't matter if you drink too much.

This process varies from country to country. In some places, the best man does not help the groom drink, but only pours the wine for the groom and guests. In some places, you need help to drink.

Toast attention to three points:

Point 1: If necessary, help the groom get rid of alcohol. This can't be helped, or the groom will drink badly. In fact, hotels have this kind of "service": the wine in the bottle in the best man's hand has already been changed, maybe it is white water or grape juice, and they will blend it. In this case, your core task is not to let others take the bottle away. Taking it away has two consequences: one is to change it into real wine, which harms the new person; The other consequence is even worse. Being exposed by a kind-hearted person on the spot will not only make the couple make a fool of themselves, but also make them feel sorry for their relatives and friends who just toasted-they will boo the couple before toasting, so it is needless to say how troublesome it is to deal with it.

Number two: don't make trouble. You must know how to "ask for grievances" on this occasion. Note that some relatives and friends may ask for a toast a little too much, so don't be too stubborn and have to decline the phone call. There are many things you may not know. Maybe this person is the best person in their family that the bride told the groom, then he may ask too much. If you don't understand, you feel that the groom is being bullied and refuses to answer the phone. This is not good. This kind of person is an example, and there are many special circumstances. You should act according to the new person's face.

The third point: it is the problem of drinking by yourself. Try not to get ahead at first, and avoid feeling drunk in front of the groom, so you can't help the groom. If necessary, it is appropriate to sacrifice a little.

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Question 2: What should the best man pay attention to and what should the best man do? Marriage is a great event in everyone's life. If your friend is married, you are lucky enough to be invited to be the best man at his wedding. Do you know how to play this important role after the couple? What should the best man say in his toast? Jin Shan's wedding dress agency suggested that before attending such a wedding, as the best man, you might as well learn the following skills: Know your role. You know the happy or unhappy scene when your friend is single, and even some ridiculous things. As a friend's best man, all you have to do is let everyone know what a good young man your friend was before he met his sweetheart. On the wedding day, your task is to let the parents, relatives and friends of the bride and groom know what an excellent young man the groom is. He is not only a good friend, son and student, but also able to cope with all kinds of situations. Of course, in a hurry, he can't do without your help. Learn to make a toast: first, make a brief introduction, tell the guests how long you have known the groom and how much you know about him, and let everyone know that your friendship made the groom choose you as his best man. If you are a friend from childhood to adulthood, tell more stories about your childhood and let others know how deep your friendship with the groom is. Frolic: Explain that you are the groom's best friend, and then you can take the opportunity to be humorous and tell some stories about "bad things" you did with your friends and interesting episodes when you were together. Stories should be short and interesting, and always reflect the feelings between you and your friends. Blessing: Finally, as the groom's best friend, tell the bride that she has made the best choice and the combination of the bride and groom is perfect. You can list the interests of the bride and groom in detail and wish them happiness in the future. And expressed the hope to continue to maintain friendship with the bride and groom. This is very important, because then you can attract the audience and ensure that your friendship with your friends can continue well after they get married.

Question 3: What should the best man look like? What should I do and what should I pay attention to? Best man responsibilities:

1, to assist newcomers to deal with temporary or unexpected situations;

2. Give the bride a flower gate;

3. Contact the staff when picking up the bride and the float parade, so that they can know the situation and location of the new couple for arrangement;

4. Serve the tray and stop drinking when toasting.

Candidates: unmarried young men, not too tall, preferably good friends and Dionysus.

Reason: He'd better drink a lot and work hard, because it's hard for the best man to hold the bottle at the wedding.

Bridesmaids and groomsmen can be said to be important figures in a wedding working group. Usually, the couple will invite a female companion as a bridesmaid, and some people will invite 6~ 12 girlfriends or sisters, one of whom is a bridesmaid, and some people call it a "companion" or a "bridesmaid". When there is only one bridesmaid, some grooms will invite 2-6 friends to follow the motorcade to marry the bride, so as to make the bride's family beautiful. Everyone is called "the best man", except one main best man. Usually, the number of groomsmen should be matched with that of bridesmaids.

As the name implies, the best man and bridesmaid are the companions and representatives of the new couple. Except for the wedding ceremony and the wedding ceremony, the tasks of the best man and the bridesmaid are slightly different. Most of the time, they need to complete the following two tasks:

Mission 1: personal butler

1, stay close to the couple and accompany them at any time. Especially when couples are on the stage, the best man and bridesmaid must wait at the edge of the stage.

2. Always pay attention to the image of new people. For example, help couples simply tidy up the hem of the suit, the skirt of the dress and the veil, and call a makeup artist to support them when necessary.

3. Pay close attention to the needs of newcomers. The most important thing for the best man and bridesmaid is to have a "wink": it is the best man's job to open the door for the couple, take what they have and help them maintain good manners; When the newcomer is thirsty, he will pass the water; When you see a couple crying, hand in a tissue in time. Many couples forget to rest and are hungry because they are busy or excited, so the best man and bridesmaid must remember to remind them.

4. Be familiar with the personal belongings and personnel arrangements of the newcomers, so as to better help them coordinate and share. In particular, bridesmaids should be familiar with the shoes, underwear and accessories needed for the bride's dress, and take care of the replacement.

5. Qualified bridesmaids and groomsmen should also try their best to ease and appease the new couple's nervousness.

Mission 2: Newcomer Representative

1. At the wedding reception: bridesmaids should try their best to make the groom complete and don't let him take the bride away easily. Even the bride's handkerchief should read the bride's mind and try to let her enjoy the joy and glory of marriage. The best man should "fight" for the groom together with the bridesmaids and other sister groups and help the groom fight for beautiful women.

2. When welcoming guests: The maid of honor's task is to welcome new people and pay attention to their appearance, while the best man and the best man should do most of the reception work.

3. During the dinner: When someone has a problem and the bride is slightly embarrassed, the bridesmaids should step forward and do their best. Now is not the time to be shy around the bride. It is the best man's responsibility to help the groom stop drinking, and he can't shirk it.

4. By candlelight: light a candle gun for the couple and follow them.

5. During the ceremony: bid farewell to the witness, respect the parents and elders, and bid farewell to both parents.

6, make trouble in the bridal chamber: the best man will lead the guests to make trouble from the beginning. Don't get me wrong, the bridal chamber is interesting, and the newcomers will be more excited. If it doesn't work out, the best man will take the lead, grasp the scale of success, and finally carefully see the couple off. Bridesmaids can make fun of themselves, just don't forget to observe their words and deeds, stand up for the bride when necessary or try to divert everyone's attention.

Memo of bridesmaids and groomsmen

1. Sometimes bridesmaids will take the responsibility of keeping red envelopes. Please prepare an exquisite but bulky handbag in advance, and remember to give it to the financial supervisor or parents designated by the couple before the ceremony, and ask them to keep it properly.

2. Remind the couple not to forget the ring, or keep the ring for the couple, and make sure to give it to the designated person on the stage before the ceremony.

3, holding a ring pillow, the bridesmaid undertakes this work, must remember to pay attention to their position, so as not to become a "third party" in the photo, and then help the bride pick up the flowers and take off her gloves. If flower girl is holding a ring pillow, please ask the bridesmaid to take good care of him or her.

4. The groomsman and bridesmaid convey the new couple's voice on the wedding day. Don't hesitate to find relevant staff in time to help newcomers convey their wishes and let professionals provide services for newcomers. Never make a decision without authorization.

Of course, if you plan to hire a professional wedding planner, it doesn't matter whether the best man and bridesmaid have experience. The wedding planner will not only arrange all kinds of trivial matters in the wedding, but also guide and remind the work, position and etiquette of the best man and bridesmaid during the wedding ... >>

Question 4: What should I pay attention to as the best man? According to the custom, the best man is served by the relatives and friends of the man, the bridesmaid is served by the woman, the floats are opened by the best man and the bridesmaid respectively, the bridesmaid opens the bride's car door, the best man opens the groom's car door, regardless of getting on or off, the bride and groom must take the first car, and the best man and bridesmaid take the second car, no matter where they are on the road or by car.

In addition, the important duties of the best man are to assist, wait on the groom, take the coat, bring happy cigarettes (but don't bring cigarettes yourself, bring them to the groom when necessary), (happy candy is brought by the bridesmaid), and so on. The bridesmaid will accompany the groom to welcome guests at the gate. When entering the door, the bride and groom walk in front, followed by the best man and bridesmaid, and they must be male left and female right, if the bridesmaid doesn't have one.

Finally, at the banquet, your duty is to stop drinking, which basically depends on you. After all, people have work at night. So it's best to be prepared first, but it's best not to drink fake ones, which is unlucky. You can take some medicine.

Generally speaking, the best man's duty is to complete the etiquette with the bridesmaid, assist, serve the best man, stop drinking, and, oh, yes, hold the red envelope in your hand and give it to the groom when necessary.

In addition, the dress must be consistent with the groom, not his Tang suit, but your suit. If he wears a suit, so do you. And there is no need to give the best man a red envelope on the wedding day. After all, because we spend more time together, we can give it at any time. There's no need to give it in front of people. You don't need to give it where you hang the gift.

Question 5: Does the best man have to wear a suit? What should I pay attention to? Wedding is a solemn and formal occasion. You should wear formal clothes instead of casual clothes. This not only shows your respect for the bride and groom, but also helps them improve the quality of the wedding.

If there is more than one groomsman, you must communicate the clothes, colors and styles of the day. Also pay attention to avoid wearing ties and shirts of the same color as the groom.

The best man does more auxiliary work, watching and listening. Cooperate with the process when the ceremony is going on, such as helping the handle when you need to send something, and handing the paper towel when you see the groom sweating.

At the banquet, the best man and bridesmaid will help the bride and groom send some things like cigarettes, alcohol and candy to meet their needs as much as possible. When guests make fun of you, you should help.

The best man will be very hard, and there may be no rest time for the whole wedding. In short, just do it in the spirit of serving the bride and groom.

Question 6: What do I need to prepare to be the best man for the first time? It must be a suit. Ask the groom about the arrangement. There is no requirement for the color of clothes. If not, wear a suit. Make it neat and generous, talk less, and if you can drink, you can appropriately stop the groom from drinking.

Question 7: What should I pay attention to as the best man? Being the best man is actually very simple, but it will be very hard, because I have to go to the groom's house early in the morning to help him sort out his clothes and things (the diamond ring will be kept by the best man first). When picking up the bride, some places have the custom of opening the door with red envelopes, so I asked the best man to be more energetic and help the groom break down the door. At the wedding, the best man only needs to stand behind the groom. The hardest part is that the groom walks to the table and makes a toast. At this time, the best man should prepare a bottle of wine mixed with boiling water in advance and give it to the groom when toasting. Don't let others find out that sometimes it's too late to drink real wine, and the best man has to help the groom drink it. It's hard to pour wine, light cigarettes and wrap sugar at the end of the day, so you must eat more in the morning, otherwise you won't be able to hold on at all.

As the name implies, the best man and bridesmaid are the companions and representatives of the new couple. Except for the wedding ceremony and the wedding ceremony, the tasks of the best man and the bridesmaid are slightly different. Most of the time, they need to complete the following two tasks:

Mission 1: personal butler

Keep close contact with the couple and accompany them at any time. Especially when couples are on the stage, the best man and bridesmaid must wait at the edge of the stage.

2. Always pay attention to the image of new people. For example, help couples simply tidy up the hem of the suit, the skirt of the dress and the veil, and call a makeup artist to support them when necessary.

3. Pay close attention to the needs of newcomers. The most important thing for the best man and bridesmaid is to have a "wink": it is the best man's job to open the door for the couple, take what they have and help them maintain good manners; When the newcomer is thirsty, he will pass the water; When you see a couple crying, hand in a tissue in time. Many couples forget to rest and are hungry because they are busy or excited, so the best man and bridesmaid must remember to remind them.

4. Be familiar with the personal belongings and personnel arrangements of the newcomers, so as to better help them coordinate and share. In particular, bridesmaids should be familiar with the shoes, underwear and accessories needed for the bride's dress, and take care of the replacement.

5. Qualified bridesmaids and groomsmen should also try their best to ease and appease the new couple's nervousness.

Mission 2: Newcomer Representative

1. At the wedding reception: bridesmaids should try their best to make the groom complete and don't let him take the bride away easily. Even the bride's handkerchief should read the bride's mind and try to let her enjoy the joy and glory of marriage. The best man should "fight" for the groom together with the bridesmaids and other sister groups and help the groom fight for beautiful women.

2. When welcoming guests: The maid of honor's task is to welcome new people and pay attention to their appearance, while the best man and the best man should do most of the reception work.

3. During the dinner: When someone has a problem and the bride is slightly embarrassed, the bridesmaids should step forward and do their best. Now is not the time to be shy around the bride. It is the best man's responsibility to help the groom stop drinking, and he can't shirk it.

4. By candlelight: light a candle gun for the couple and follow them.

5. During the ceremony: bid farewell to the witness, respect the parents and elders, and bid farewell to both parents.

6, make trouble in the bridal chamber: the best man will lead the guests to make trouble from the beginning. Don't get me wrong, the bridal chamber is interesting, and the newcomers will have more face. If not, the best man will take the lead, grasp the scale after the start, and finally see the couple off as appropriate. Bridesmaids can make fun of themselves, just don't forget to observe their words and deeds, stand up for the bride when necessary or try to divert everyone's attention.

Memo of bridesmaids and groomsmen

1. Sometimes bridesmaids will take the responsibility of keeping red envelopes. Please prepare an exquisite but bulky handbag in advance, and remember to give it to the financial supervisor or parents designated by the couple before the ceremony, and ask them to keep it properly.

2. Remind the couple not to forget the ring, or keep the ring for the couple, and make sure to give it to the designated person on the stage before the ceremony.

3, holding a ring pillow, the bridesmaid undertakes this work, must remember to pay attention to their position, so as not to become a "third party" in the photo, and then help the bride pick up the flowers and take off her gloves. If flower girl is holding a ring pillow, please ask the bridesmaid to take good care of him or her.

4. The groomsman and bridesmaid convey the new couple's voice on the wedding day. Don't hesitate to find relevant staff in time to help newcomers convey their wishes and let professionals provide services for newcomers. Never make a decision without authorization.

Of course, if you plan to hire a professional wedding planner, it doesn't matter whether the best man and bridesmaid have experience. In addition to arranging all the trivial matters in the wedding, wedding planning will also guide and remind the best man and bridesmaid about their work, position and etiquette in the ceremony, and even arrange for the new secretary to perform part of the bridesmaid's work.

Bridesmaids and groomsmen's dresses

The best man is relatively straight ... >>

Question 8: My friend is married. I will be the best man. What should I prepare for a toast?

Should a toast praise everyone at the party, or talk seriously about friendship with the groom in a formal suit? In order to enliven the atmosphere, how presumptuous and enjoyable the groom is, you will make the groom's parents and even the bride unhappy. What exactly should you say?

▲ Your role: As the best man of a friend, all you have to do is let everyone know what kind of good person your friend was before he met his sweetheart. You know the happy or unhappy scenes when your friend is single, and even some ridiculous things. If you are married, you should know how important those days are to your friends-a happy single life.

▲ Wedding Day: On the wedding day, your task is to tell the relatives, friends and parents of the bride and groom what an excellent young man the groom is. He is not only a good friend, a good son and a good student, but also can cope with all kinds of scenes. It is best to have emotional memories and make some jokes about the past at an appropriate time.

▲ Introduction: The first thing is a brief introduction, telling the guests how long you have known the groom and how much you know about him. You should let everyone know that this is your friendship and let the groom choose you as his best man. If you were friends when you were children, tell more about that time and let people know the depth of your friendship with the groom.

▲ frolic: once you explain that you are the groom's best friend, you can take the opportunity to be humorous, make a fool of yourself, and talk about the bad things you did with your friends-not really bad things, of course-interesting episodes when you were together, such as what you did for the first time, mistaking someone for you, and taking a trip. Short stories should be short and interesting, reflecting the deep friendship between you and your friends from beginning to end.

▲ Blessing: Finally, as the groom's best friend, tell the bride that she made the best choice. If you are familiar with the bride, it is said that the combination of the bride and groom is perfect. (Hint: You can specifically cite the same hobbies of the bride and groom, such as tennis and literary criticism. ) In short, you should give a thumbs up to praise their union, and finally, you and your wife (if any), I very much hope to continue to maintain friendship with the bride and groom. This is very important, because then you can attract the audience and ensure the friendship between you and your friends after the honeymoon. Finally, think of your toast as a movie script written specifically for your friends. Of course, your friends are the protagonists, including the bride's short and wonderful performance, your best friend, the games you played in middle school and so on. Your script should be rich in plot and romantic, and the ending should leave people with infinite reverie.

Question 9: What equipment should the best man prepare for the bridesmaid's clothes? Where the bride helps prepare more wedding dresses, there are usually bridesmaids' clothes that can be fixed together. You can buy it if you don't want to borrow it. After the ceremony, you can seal the gift and give it to her best man. Generally, boys bring their own black suits. If there are more bridesmaids and groomsmen, the bridesmaids' clothes should be uniform, and the photos of groomsmen will be more accented.

Question 10: What should I pay attention to when I am the best man?

The night before the wedding, accompany the groom to sleep in the new house (press the bed)

Press the bed early the next day and ask for a red envelope.

Get up in the morning to buy breakfast, paste happy words, and prepare alcohol, tobacco, sugar and tea.

Take charge of the mobile phone for the groom and meet the first guests who don't know the way.

After all relatives and friends are in place, the best man is responsible for accompanying the groom to change his hairstyle and getting in touch with the cameraman.

Then it is divided into two types: 1. The groom picks up the bride himself (the best man's job is to follow the bag).

The groom goes directly to the hotel (arranges all matters for the groom in the hotel, and keeps in touch with the bride by phone at any time to prepare for the wedding)

After the bride gets off the bus, the best man can basically take a break to meet the host, and lead the host, DJ, producer, lighting engineer, sound engineer and cameraman to the bride's room for a simple meeting and exchange.

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After communication, coordinate the parents and guests of the couple to sit down and prepare for the ceremony.

The work during the ceremony is arranged by the host.

After the ceremony, prepare beer, white wine (white water) drinks and cigarettes, and accompany the couple to change tables to recognize their relatives.

And do a good job in accounting.

At the last table, arrange people to pack food and arrange cars to send important guests home.

Go back to the new house with the couple in the evening and cooperate with the cameraman to do the final work (make trouble in the bridal chamber)

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