The mistakes made in those years

"The heavy rain and the love that I missed in those years, I really want to hug you ..." The song "Those Years" in my student days is believed to be fresh in most people's memory. This is the story of my school days. I want to tell an adult story and the mistakes I made in those years.

I am 13 years old, and have worked as a winter and summer worker in a hotel. /kloc-leaving society at the age of 0/5. Now I'm in my prime. I have experienced some things in these five years. What I will never forget in these five years is the mistakes I made. What kind of chemical reaction will a person, an ignorant teenager of 13 years old, send out when he enters the vat of society? These mistakes can be confirmed.

A mistake made in those years

When I started working in the kitchen, I was very timid. I did what my master asked me to do. But at that time, my mind was simple, I just wanted to do things and thought nothing else. One winter vacation, my colleagues in the kitchen got to know each other soon. This is not good for me. As long as you get acquainted, you can't control your mouth. At that time, I was 14 years old and went to the kitchen to work as a winter worker. I once joked with my colleagues: "Believe it or not, I was definitely older than Master Xu." Master Xu is a cook. He looks over fifty years old. His salary at that time was more than 3000 yuan. Although I was only 1000 at that time, I felt that my salary was definitely higher than his when I was his age.

The second mistake made in those years

I used to be a handyman, just doing chores in the kitchen and doing everything. There is an aunt in her forties who works as a handyman with me. I called her an old woman. I thought she was so old then. I feel ashamed to do odd jobs. So there were some sarcastic remarks at work. A master couldn't stand it anymore and criticized me and said, "She's about your mother's age. Why don't you look down on her?" This sentence stung me at the age of 15, and then I apologized to that aunt. Change your previous attitude and respect her.

The third mistake made in those years

In my daily work, my daily work has been completed. At this time, the master asked me to finish cleaning others. That colleague got off work early, and no one wanted to finish his cleaning. The master asked me to go, but of course I was not convinced and said a lot. He just said that the kitchen is to work more and talk less, and do it for me quickly. I didn't understand it at that time, so I had to do it reluctantly. I learned later.

The fourth mistake made in those years

I was never grateful before I came into contact with the fitness industry. I chose to change careers at that time and wanted a different life. On the recommendation of my friends, I became a member consultant of the gym. When we started working, our boss trained us. His conclusion is: "I hope you can be a grateful person". Why? I looked puzzled at that time, and then I asked him why he said that. He replied to me: "Sheep have the grace to kneel and nurse, and crows have the feeling of feeding back." Why can't people be grateful? " Your parents gave birth to you and raised you. Don't you know to repay them and thank them? "I was confused by this sentence, in retrospect. I am a teenager, but I still don't know how to be grateful. It scares me to think about it. This society is kind to help you, and it is its duty not to help you!

The fifth mistake made in those years

My chef changed careers for three years, doing fitness. After doing fitness for four months, he felt that it was not suitable, and then he became a takeaway brother. At that time, the take-out in our county had just come in, and I made it first when I was hungry. It took me three months from 3,700 yuan in the first month to 5,000 yuan in the second month. Then I jumped ship and went to Baidu takeaway. I worked in sales, and my salary was 4 thousand. But I'm not satisfied. After working for two months, I went to the US Mission for takeaway.

Then I worked in the Meituan for a year, with a monthly salary of 7500 at most. I think it's ok in our city with a per capita income of less than 3000. But it's all hard work and time. I think it's natural to take that money. But there is one thing I am not satisfied with. I will always be a takeaway. Then I offered to resign, but after I resigned. Because I didn't know what to do, I hit a wall everywhere. During that time, I didn't go to work for two months. I kept reflecting on what I had done wrong, and then I gradually understood.

The sixth mistake made in those years

Since I left the society, I have been working as a chef and delivering takeout food, and I have no time for myself at all. Not to mention taking time to spend with my family, what makes me feel guilty most is my grandmother's departure. Grandma died this Mid-Autumn Festival, and she raised me since I was a child. When I used to go to work, I always told myself that I was busy and had no time. I lied to myself if I had spent more time with that old man. I won't regret it now. Life is not easy and I need to cherish it.

The seventh mistake made in those years

My family says I'm stubborn, more stubborn than an ox. I don't know why I am so angry. Others don't look back when they hit the south wall, and I don't look back when I hit the south wall. It is "one track-minded", which leads to my image of straight cancer. In fact, many things have stood the test of time, so what we think must be right? The answer is no.

The eighth mistake made in those years

This kind of thing often happens in life, for example, I bought a car before, and I hope the whole world knows that I bought a car. The circle of friends began, and WeChat began. After riding for less than ten kilometers, it had a flat tire. I was embarrassed, so I learned my lesson. No matter what I get or achieve, I will do "not to rejoice in things, not to grieve for myself".

Every mistake carries an experience, and it is precisely because of these mistakes that the more people experience, the more silent they become. There will be many experiences and mistakes. The advantage of mistakes is that people will remember them and force you to grow up.

Whenever I recall these mistakes, I will thank those who were there. It is these mistakes that made me who I am today.