The eldest daughter-in-law is too strong, and the youngest daughter-in-law doesn't want to suffer. I really can't teach me. I love them very much, and I don't want them to have conflicts. They all hav

The eldest daughter-in-law is too strong, and the youngest daughter-in-law doesn't want to suffer. I really can't teach me. I love them very much, and I don't want them to have conflicts. They all have them. Sister-in-law is the most difficult relationship in the world. First of all, you should pay attention to the following three points: First, love for two grandchildren should be absolutely fair. When dividing things, the size of apples should not exceed 5 grams. The length of sugarcane should not exceed 1 cm. Women are always sensitive to the idea that their children's status in the family is equal to their own. Second, you can't mention the little mistakes made by your daughter-in-law in front of your son. Women can't tolerate anyone saying that they are not good in front of their husbands, which will only make the problem more and more serious. Third, never accuse daughter-in-law B behind her back in front of daughter-in-law A. Your criticism may become a weapon for them to attack each other in future quarrels, and it will not end then.

Then I'll make three more moves: first, cooperate more. Often invite them to do housework with you, such as cooking some difficult dishes, including jiaozi. In order to cultivate the tacit understanding between them. Second, go shopping more. A long shopping trip not long ago can not only increase our understanding, but also in this pleasant process, contradictions are often easily solved. Third, talk more. When talking alone, deliberately amplify another person's kindness to her. For example, "She bought you XXX? ! ! ""She did XXX for you! ! ! "I didn't expect that! "(If they really haven't given each other anything or helped each other, you can secretly replace them several times). When chatting in groups, you should always show your love for them: "You two are like my daughters, and I can't bear to leave anyone." "If you get along with your sisters, I'm happier than winning 5 million. "

The above is for reference only. In short; "Whether the sister-in-law relationship is good or not depends on her mother-in-law."

Finally, I wish your family harmony and happiness! !