What should I do if my brother cares too much? You can't wear suspenders and miniskirts when you go out. Where else must I report? Don't have too much contact with boys, too much.

What a sweet trouble. Some people care about being loved and taken care of by their families, and sometimes they seem like mother-in-law, but if you think about it carefully, it's for our own good.

If we have a time machine, you can quickly enter the next five years or even 10 years later, most friends will think that you will be grateful to have such a brother around you.

However, at this age, we just want to grow up freely and happily. I don't want my family to tell me what to do, not to mention just my brother, not a few years older than himself, and not my father. He cares too much. The little sisters around you are all wearing the latest fashion. They can wear it. Why can't I wear it?

I can understand your feelings very well. But more friends envy you, and you can have a little brother to take care of you. Kindly remind you that from a boy's point of view, you must lead an honest and clean life, and the society is complex, so you must be careful.

Slings and miniskirts are beautiful and sexy, of course. Walking in the street is absolutely cool, and you can turn your head properly. Is this what you want? But what will the boy behind you say about you? Maybe you can't hear it, maybe you don't care. But your family and your brother care. Do you need to respect their feelings properly?

As for the criteria for reporting and interacting with boys, family members can give their own suggestions in good faith, and naturally they can't impose their own will to interfere with your personal freedom, including emotional development. You should trust your family, and your brothers care for you out of kindness.

Are there few cases in society where people are infringed because of improper behavior or careless friends? The worries and worries of family members are by no means unnecessary. No matter how old you are now. Are you an adult? Don't resist your family's advice too much. Learn to communicate with them rationally and share their life experiences. Only in this way can we learn to grow up in life instead of being brave and willful.

Of course, there is a limit to everything. If my brother is too lenient and too strict, everything will be fine. You can also express your feelings and opinions appropriately and have a good exchange with your family and brothers. I believe they are people your age and can understand your feelings now.

At this time, everyone's communication is the most important, rather than blaming each other, or even causing conflicts, resulting in unnecessary frictions, misunderstandings and contradictions.

I believe that my above suggestions will definitely help and touch you. I wish you a happy life here!