When the 82-year-old man got married, he learned that the other person was his first wife who separated 60 years ago. What happened?

"In a person's life, some subtle things are meaningless in themselves, but they are very important. After things change, looking back at the causal relationship, I found that its influence is amazing. "

Lin Yutang's Smoke in Beijing is a novel that shows the changing times, and many sentences in it will make us think deeply. People may encounter many coincidences in their life, but these coincidences are arranged by fate. Many times, small details that don't attract our attention will only be discovered after fate is buckled. Therefore, in the face of life, we should always keep an expectant heart, so as to "do not do it with small goodness, not with small evils", and tomorrow may give us new surprises.

An 82-year-old man in Chongqing has a legendary love story. He was married three times in his life, and the last time he didn't know it was his first wife who separated 60 years ago until he got the certificate. All this is a coincidence.

Two old people

The 82-year-old man named Qiu Daming was born in Rongchang County, Chongqing. In A.D. 1936, Qiu Daming was drafted into the army and joined the 20th Army of Sichuan Army. I have to say that Qiu Daming, as a China native, bravely stood up during the national crisis and did not drag out an ignoble existence in the rear. So Qiu Daming began his service career. The first place he went to was Xuanhan County, Sichuan Province.

Here, Qiu Daming met a beautiful love. Qiu Daming is a warm and cheerful young man in the army and is very popular with people in the army. Coincided with Qiu Daming's 20th Sichuan Army, a company manager often went to the countryside to buy food. In the village, he met a woman who had a precious daughter and was not engaged. Hearing this, the quartermaster remembered Qiu Daming in the army. Qiu Daming is undoubtedly an excellent young man, and the purser is willing to lead him along this line.

So under the mediation of the company quartermaster, the two began to talk about marriage, and the woman was also very satisfied with Qiu Daming. The other is a soldier, a face of righteousness, majestic. In this special period, women are willing to give their daughters to a soldier to protect their lives. Not only does she think so, but the woman 19-year-old daughter is also very satisfied with Qiu Daming. Her daughter's name is Li. Li recognized Qiu Daming at the first sight. Qiu Daming also likes this gentle and beautiful girl, so it contributed to the marriage of these two people.

During the national crisis, these two people can find their own happiness, which is undoubtedly a very happy thing for people around them. They temporarily brushed away the haze in their hearts and began to prepare for their own wedding. Qiu Daming and Li had a lively wedding, and they were happy after marriage.

In the ruthless years of war, there will soon be a new task on it, and this unit will be transferred soon. Qiu Daming had to bid farewell to his new wife, leave Xuanhan County, Sichuan Province, and go to the front to die for his country. At this point, they have only been married for four months. Li is also reluctant to leave Qiu Daming, but she is not a woman who doesn't know the overall situation. Despite her sadness, she let go of her husband's hand.

Anti-Japanese warrior

Qiu Daming followed the instructions accepted by the troops and participated in two battles in Shanghai at that time. However, there is a gap in armaments between the two sides. Qiu Daming's troops were routed all the way, killing and injuring countless people. In the background of smoke, Qiu Daming often writes to Li to tell him about his recent situation, but Qiu Daming has never received a letter from Li, and he doesn't know whether Li has received his letter. "After three months of war, a letter from home is worth a ton of gold." Du Fu's poems describe the difficulties of communication during the war. Qiu Daming moved with the army and finally lost contact with his new wife.

This can be said to be the necessity of the war years. Too many families were forced to separate because of the war, but unlike most people's choices, Li can be said to be unswerving to her husband. Since Qiu Daming left, he has been waiting for Li endlessly. Li's relatives persuaded Li to remarry, because they didn't know where Qiu Daming's troops went or whether Qiu Daming was alive or dead. Li's parents are more anxious to see their daughter because they want her to have a good home while they are still alive.

But Li is a stubborn man. She didn't listen to anyone's advice at all and waited for her husband Qiu Daming wholeheartedly. Finally, Li's parents died one after another. With the departure of relatives, Li began to doubt the meaning of waiting, but Li did not give up, or waited day after day, year after year.

When the war is over. Qiu Daming was discharged from the army in A.D. 1942, because he was tossing and turning in the war for many years, and his health was not as good as before. The army also sympathized with Qiu Daming's great contribution, and found a good place for Qiu Daming to be a police chief in Lu Xian County, Sichuan Province. Later, he was promoted to be the director of the police station. Qiu Daming's life has settled down, but he still can't contact his first wife. In this case, Qiu Daming had to give up looking, so Qiu Daming married another wife. After the marriage, Qiu Daming was no longer infatuated with the former Li, but began to enjoy his beautiful life now. He has a stable income, a kind wife and a pair of children. Only when he recalls the past occasionally will he feel extremely embarrassed, and Li is like a dream.

Since Li never remarried and had no children to take care of her, her later life became more and more sad. Li can only find some jobs to make a living by himself. Coincidentally, I went to Chongqing to be a nanny for others. A woman's life is too difficult, so Li chose to marry a chef and two people helped her live. Li changed her name to. After the name change, Qiu Daming couldn't find it. Two people.

Qiu Daming's stable life didn't last long. Because of some things, he began a life of prison reform. He spent 265,438+0 years in prison. After Qiu Daming was released from prison, life has changed dramatically. His wife has remarried with her children. Qiu Daming can only live by himself and has no ability to work. He can only live on the minimum living allowance. At the same time, Liu Zehua and the chef's husband are not harmonious in life, so they discuss living separately, and Liu Zehua becomes a lonely person again.

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Liu Zehua didn't want to live alone in his later years, so he told his friends when he visited them. This friend happened to know a lonely old man, so he said he would introduce Liu Zehua, but the other side was in a bad condition. Liu Zehua thinks he doesn't care, as long as the other person can accompany him. She still has some savings and doesn't need to spend each other's money, so she has no requirements for family conditions. Liu Ze Huadu said this, but his friends didn't convince him. He introduced two people directly, and this person happened to be Qiu Daming.

Qiu Daming and Liu Zehua were satisfied with each other after contact, so they began to try to communicate. After communication, no differences were found, so at the suggestion of Liu Zehua, they planned to get married. The two just invited some friends and relatives and neighbors to have a simple meal at home. This is their wedding.

As two people get to know each other better, they will naturally ask some questions about the past. When talking about his former residence in Xuanhan County, Sichuan Province, Qiu Daming involuntarily remembered his first wife and volunteered that his original name was Li. Qiu Daming is extremely excited because he has been looking for someone for half his life, and now he is here. Liu Zehua didn't expect her long-awaited husband to reunite with her decades later.

Both of them were very excited about this and strengthened their determination to spend the rest of their lives together. After all, such a situation is rare, which is not only a coincidence, but also the power of true love.