200 points, Peking man's character and temper.

1. Peking man's character

If you haven't practiced tongue twisters such as "eat grapes without spitting out their skins" or "red phoenix powder, phoenix powder and phoenix fly", you'd better show your tongue in front of Beijingers less. Because Beijingers, regardless of physical strength or fighting skills, are recognized throughout the country.

Beijingers always speak with a word "reason". Beijingers say, "Reason is for talking, not for discussion. Otherwise, how can there be such words as reason and theory? " So if you quarrel with Beijingers, you have to be careful. They can argue with you for hours without saying the same thing.

Beijingers are characterized by humor, informality, eloquence, bragging, obsession with being an official, and respect for others. Opening one's mouth is macro-thinking, and words and manners reveal the superiority of the capital people. In the past, old Beijingers paid attention to hanging around the quadrangle with bare arms, shaking banana fans and getting together to brag. Today, Beijingers changed to brothers and went to Shichahai, Sanlitun Bar to soak, drink a little wine, small tongue, watch a Beijing movie and talk about the past and the present.

Beijingers can speak, which is beyond the reach of any foreigner. Being able to speak in Beijing is an ability and a proud capital. Chatting is a unique leisure way for Beijingers. Most Beijingers have a glib tongue, a glib tongue, and Beijing movies. However, what they care about is not "what to talk about", nor "how to talk about it", let alone "how to talk beautifully". They just talk about it for the sake of talking about it. They don't want form, most of them have no purpose, ranging from national affairs to trivial matters. You can be happy, you can be angry, you can be dizzy, you can't find the north, you can call it "God Talk".

Someone said humorously, why are the mountains around Beijing so low, just to let Beijingers "talk" (chop hands). The streets and alleys of Beijing are brightly lit by hotels of all sizes. The main reason is not that Beijingers love to eat, but that Beijingers love to talk together. Beijing people talk about a wide range of topics, including eating, drinking, eating, drinking, living, eating, drinking, eating, drinking, eating, drinking, eating, drinking, eating, drinking, eating, drinking, eating, drinking, eating, drinking, eating, drinking.

Beijingers are generous, open-minded and open-minded, and often focus on the overall situation and don't care about small things. In the value system of Beijingers, loyalty, courage and generosity are highly respected, while shrewdness, cunning, tact, cowardice and calculation are despised by Beijingers. Life pays attention to letting nature take its course, returning to nature, not deliberately carving, simple and extensive, loyal rather than rules.

The advantages of Beijing men are talkative, talkative, humorous and sensational, and they become talkative if they are not careful. Men in Beijing are all "grandpa"-"I am grandpa". If you play in Beijing, you have to play a lottery, and if you mix it, you get a name. Going out is a "person", falling is a "person" and opening your mouth is a "buddy". Wang Shuo's sentence "I am a rogue, who am I afraid of?" Once swept the country.

Men in Beijing are burly, healthy, rough and arrogant. Although not as generous and sincere as men in Northeast China, they are slightly better than smart men in Shanghai in word of mouth. Men in Beijing have a high cultural quality and like to talk about what they have seen and heard or give directions to the country. They will also make amazing and witty remarks, and they will make others stunned. Men in Beijing are also very fashionable. When shopping, they always choose the most popular style and appearance. They usually buy new products earlier than men in other cities, like to try new brands and are willing to spend a lot of time and money on trendy things.

Men in Beijing play hard, first playing billiards, then bowling and mahjong. Self-help tourism appeared as early as the late 1970s. At present, rock climbing, bungee jumping, downhill drifting karting and other adventure sports are popular. To put it mildly, this is a way of life to relieve tension and release pressure in modern society. In fact, it is something in the bones of men in Beijing: southerners call it "cool" and Beijingers call it "hardworking".

Beijing men think they are "superior to the emperor". Business people are called "profiteers", boasters are called "Kanye", topless people are called "help ye", and even people who pedal tricycles are called "help ye". Under the shadow of "Ye Jing" culture, the bad habits are: talking more, doing less, not doing big things, not doing small things, saving face, putting on airs, just wanting to be served, not wanting to serve others. If you see a young man repairing shoes and cooking range hoods on the street, he must be a foreigner, but he is unlikely to be a native of Beijing, because most Beijingers are more face-saving and don't want to do this at home even if they don't have a job.

Generally speaking, women in Beijing are not beautiful, but their temperament is incomparable in other places. They have more beautiful tastes than beauty. Beijing women are not avantgarde, but there is something more tasteful than avantgarde. No matter how expensive it is, it always makes people feel different and have elegant taste. In appearance, their self-knowledge will also surprise you. She will take the initiative to say, don't call me beautiful. I am like a mirror in my heart, but my charm is unique. Beauty is accompanied by youth, and connotation is accompanied by my life. Beauty is absolutely dependent on the heart. Therefore, women in Beijing are a beautiful scenery with Beijing colors in it.

Women in Beijing are naturally proud, which is also where men and women in other places are aggrieved. However, the pride of Beijing women is not arrogance, but pride in their bones. She can walk around sogou; No money but still hold your head high; You can fight men, never admit defeat, and then you can go outside to vomit ... This pride is brought out in the womb, so you have developed the character of Beijing women who are cheerful, frank, dare to love and hate.

Beijing women's love declaration: Love must be true, and two of a kind can do anything pleasing to the eye. Their love and hate are clear, they love each other fiercely, burning you, boiling you, and excited to death; If you hate it, it will become cold, and you will be pushed into the freezer with a knife. Women in Beijing are willing to cry for their feelings. In the emotional world, they are not used to ambiguity and euphemism, and they don't like the continuous drizzle. It's either a strong wind or a shower. Women in Beijing have a cool temper, like the autumn wind, and they will never drag their feet when they are happy. My friends often say: I like to listen to Beijing women's words with clear pronunciation and mellow voice, just like pouring pearls of all sizes into a plate of jade. Women in Beijing are angry like hail in midsummer, and a violent diarrhea is devastating.

Women's hearts in Beijing are as soft as sand and as hard as the walls of the ancient Great Wall. Beijing women's hearts are as wide as Chang 'an Avenue and as deep as the bottomless sea. Beijing women's hearts are as clear as the moon in the sky and as clear as the shallots mixed with tofu ... Beijing women's hearts are the collection of all women's minds. This is not to eat more and occupy more, but to tell you that you can't guess the minds of women in Beijing, and you can't guess either.

2. How is the character of Beijingers formed?

The character of Beijingers is the product of this special cultural soil in Beijing. Beijing's urban character is also based on the accumulation of ancient capital culture, North China culture and traditional culture, and is shaped in the strong magnetic field of the government and schools. Beijingers attach importance to macro thinking. Compared with Shanghai, South China and other places that pay attention to practical, microscopic, feasible and operational theoretical research, Beijingers are particularly keen on overall, macro and strategic research. Shanghai writers tend to see the big from the small, and analyze social life from trivial matters and daily life, roughly from a head-up perspective. Most writers in Beijing look down on life, condescending, mocking and cursing all sentient beings, and pursuing the value of life beyond reality.

Beijingers have a certain aristocratic spirit, which is both expensive and domineering. This is undoubtedly a replica of the imperial capital culture, upper-class culture and elite culture, and it can also be said to be the soul of Beijing. As the capital of new China, Beijing is an all-round city integrating politics, military affairs, diplomacy, science and technology, culture, education, sports and information. There are the largest party, government and military organs, the largest financial and commercial institutions, the largest scientific research institutions, the largest institutions of higher learning, the largest information network, the largest stadiums, publishing houses, newspapers, radio stations, television stations and the largest international airport in China. Embassies from all over the world are here, and elites and important information industries from all over the world come and go here. In other places, Beijing has; What is not available elsewhere is also available in Beijing.

Beijing is the political and cultural center of China, and the strong political atmosphere makes Beijingers have a special liking for politics. For most Beijingers, there is no occupational distinction in advocating politics. Even street vendors will even talk about politics in the street. Politics is like salt in the life of Beijingers. Without it, the life of Beijingers will be boring. But as the saying goes, politics is salt and humor is monosodium glutamate. The humor of Beijingers is second to none. For example, some people satirize bald people who cover their heads with a lock of hair as "local support for the central government"; Long hair slides down to the center.

Beijingers are cows, those with power, those without power, those with money and those without money. This "cow spirit" is innate and deeply rooted. You can see Tiananmen when you go out. Can you stop being "cow"? Sending children to school in the morning and buying food after work at night must go through the gates of national ministries and commissions. Could it be a cow? The cultural performances organized by the community can call several popular stars with one phone call. Can it not be "awesome"? The international marathon passed through the alley, and people were too lazy to watch it. Can we not be "awesome"

In Beijing, as long as something influential happens at home and abroad, it will look good. Almost all people, old and young, are experts and scholars, pointing out the mountains and inspiring writing, who else? From sandstorms to killing cockroaches, from Putin's re-election to laid-off workers, from Saddam Hussein's capture in the Taiwan Strait, from Gong Li's Red Sorghum to Cecilia Cheung's film and television anecdotes, the whole picture is "Lao Zi is the best in the world". Beijing people's "cattle" can be seen from this.

Beijing has always been a city that dares to think independently and express opinions. Only in this way will it become the source of the May 4th Movement and the New Culture Movement. Beijing has always had aristocratic spirit and humorous spirit, but the aristocratic spirit cannot be achieved overnight, and it needs long-term cultivation, accumulation and edification. Beijingers have the secular advantage of being in the "first good area", so their careless temperament is really from the heart. The chessboard-style urban pattern is magnificent and tidy, and the urban construction is quite magnificent. It is a representative of the inland cities in the north. Because of this, Beijing has become the most atmospheric city in China. Knowing this, we can get a general idea of the origin of Beijingers' "atmosphere".

3. How to get along with Beijingers

Beijingers are polite and treat people with respect and courtesy. However, this ancient style seems to be disappearing. Nowadays, Beijingers give outsiders the impression that they are living in the land of Gyeonggi, well-informed, influenced by official culture and bathed by the children of the Eight Banners. They tend to be condescending with the eyes of "officials" and enjoy life with a playful attitude. High, so the world is arrogant, especially in front of "outsiders", always feel that they are "central figures" and overbearing; Being cynical, glib and good at teasing, they came forth in large numbers and got the notoriety of "Beijing Wanderer".

Most Beijingers make friends by feeling and get to know each other as soon as they meet. If they are right, no matter who you are, a drink or two will make you friends. Once you are familiar with it, you will not return the ticket when you are in trouble.

Due to the psychological entanglement of political complex, all Beijingers are like politicians, and friends gathering is like a politician's salon. Beijingers talk about state affairs and political situation, just like talking about mountains and rivers, with great momentum. Therefore, there is a jingle saying that "Beijingers talk about Marxism and Cantonese talk about business"; There are many street slogans in Beijing and many street advertisements in Guangdong. Beijingers are full of the latest and most comprehensive political news and have unique political opinions in their chests. Some people even joked that if you pick a few people on the streets of Beijing, their political level will reach the level of a foreign county magistrate.

Therefore, it is much more important for him to make friends with Beijingers and talk about politics, because every Beijinger has his own set of views and opinions on politics, and maybe you can learn something from it. Beijingers love to talk, and they are also good at talking. At this time, you must hold your horses, even if you feel bored, you can't show it on your face. It should be noted that satisfying Beijing people's desire to speak is the key to opening the door to friendship.

The interpersonal relationship of Beijingers is the most "human", and they have followed China's traditional ideas of "courtesy, justice, honesty and shame, harmony is the most precious" and "the golden mean" from generation to generation, so as to maintain the harmony between people and finally achieve social harmony. In the former quadrangle, several unrelated families lived in the same space, taking care of each other and sharing weal and woe, forming a very friendly and harmonious interpersonal relationship. This way of life is the easiest way to create feelings, which will be passed down from generation to generation, forming a stable cultural psychology. Although high-rise buildings have now replaced the ancient quadrangles, this human culture has continued and added new content. In the daily life of modern Beijingers, they still maintain good interpersonal relationships. People respect each other and give in to each other, regardless of you and me.

Beijing people attach great importance to friendship and interpersonal relationships. Whether they associate with you or you associate with them, they are very human. They believe that the mutual infiltration and communication of friendship is the best way to maintain good business relations. For example, on the issue of eating, when several people go to a restaurant to eat together, everyone will always struggle to pay, and it will often happen that they want to give each other money. If we go out together, we always try to take care of everyone's food. In their view, if we divide each other's interests too clearly, especially haggle over every ounce, it is stingy and selfish, and more importantly, it will destroy the harmony of interpersonal relationships because we care about personal interests.

Beijingers are honest, disdainful, treacherous, dishonest and gentlemanly. When they are in contact with friends, they would rather suffer than hurt each other, and they have a feeling that a friend in need is a friend indeed. They abide by an adage: "Cheat a friend once, but hurt yourself for life." Therefore, they are warm-hearted, helpful, considerate of others everywhere, caring for their friends in every possible way, and often don't want to return.

The frankness, boldness and hospitality of Beijingers are outstanding in the whole country. However, they are unwilling to accept the kindness of others unilaterally, and even their best friends attach great importance to the way of "reciprocity". Because gratitude is not returned to a gentleman, ungrateful people have always been despised by Beijingers. Therefore, when dealing with Beijingers, we must pay attention to their human relations and pay attention to human feelings in everything.