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Many places have been included in the national experimental area of marriage custom reform. Why should we reform the marriage customs?

Marriage customs should be reformed mainly because some marriage customs endanger people's lives. Every place may have its own local wedding customs. For example, in some places, the bride price is too high and there are too many bridal chambers, so that the feelings between husband and wife are affected after marriage. For all kinds of marriage customs, some places have begun to carry out reform and rectification, and the purpose of the reform is to create more benign families.

1. What places does the experimental area of marriage custom reform include?

There are many cities listed in the experimental area of marriage custom reform, such as Guangzhou in Guangdong, hejian city in Henan, Shenyang in Liaoning and Lixian in Hunan. In order to create a good social atmosphere, some forced marriage customs may violate the law in the future.

Second, what is my wedding custom here?

The city where I live is Jiangxi Province, and every village has its own wedding customs. In my hometown, it takes a man to carry a woman for a while to get married. If the man has better conditions, he must pick up the bride by car. In addition, the bride price in my hometown is relatively high. I believe many people have heard the saying that Jiangxi has the highest bride price. In my village, men have to pay 200 thousand bride price, not including the house and car owned by men themselves. After two people watch it, the families of both sides will talk about the bride price. When a wedding is held, the whole village is invited to eat at home, and few people will go to the hotel for a wedding reception.

In addition, the beds in the new house must be brand-new, the sheets should be red, covered with some red ribbons, and sprinkled with peanuts and plums. In the local area, it is called getting married and having a baby early.

3. What do I think of the high bride price?

Although it is now stipulated that the bride price should not be too high, I think the woman can not marry unless the man comes up with the corresponding bride price. After a girl marries a boy, she has to give birth to a boy and leave her parents. After marriage, property belongs to both husband and wife. If she wants to give it to her family, she has to discuss it with her husband. The unfairness of all kinds of girls makes me feel that there is nothing wrong with a higher bride price. Marriage customs should be reformed mainly because some marriage customs endanger people's lives. Every place may have its own local wedding customs. For example, in some places, the bride price is too high and there are too many bridal chambers, so that the feelings between husband and wife are affected after marriage. For all kinds of marriage customs, some places have begun to carry out reform and rectification, and the purpose of the reform is to create more benign families.