The first half of my life

Many soft articles I have seen recently are about the topic of stay-at-home wives VS working women, and most of them are about Luo Zijun’s transformation. What I want to talk about here is Tang Jing, a woman called a goddess by Luo Luo, a white-bone spirit in the workplace.

Tang Jing VS He Han, what can be done to save the past 10 years?

He Han said that it was time to get married, and he was afraid that after going around in circles for so long, they would eventually get separated. Tang Jing, who originally agreed, ended up not going to the engagement party because of Vivian's words. It seemed that Vivian was irritated, but it was not the case. Tang Jing was still unable to open her heart.

Women’s obsession with love and fear of marriage exactly require the sense of security provided by men. However, in love, being too rational is cruel. He Han's preachy and rational workplace thinking habitually gave Tang Jing ample time to think and prepare, but ignored the true meaning of love and the passion that love requires.

He Han loves Tang Jing. Tang Jing was about to be transferred to Hong Kong. He Han got drunk and did not attend the farewell party. He confessed to Chen Junsheng that he loved Tang Jing deeply and considered Tang Jing to be his most proud work, so he could not bear to get married and delay Tang Jing's development in a better direction. On the other hand, to He Han, Tang Jing was like a work of art. He was afraid of destroying the image of a perfect woman that he had carefully crafted for many years. One He Han PKs another He Han. This may be an interesting, love-making, and bloody affair.

Ten years, her ten years, are also his ten years. How many decades can life last? Even if one party is willing to put down his pride and save the other party. Maybe Tang Jing is too stubborn, maybe He Han is too rational? They are lovers, masters and disciples, and competitors, but neither of them puts love first.

I have always felt that two people who are too similar are not suitable for being together. Maybe it is because they have been in love for a long time and unconsciously lost the original passion. Gradually, the relationship faded away and external factors seemed to increase. As we walked, They dispersed as they walked.

There is no everlasting love in this world. It requires the running-in of both parties, and at least a certain degree of compromise by one party to achieve harmony. In today's commercialized world, emotions are no longer as pure as in the old society. Even in the ancient palaces and gardens, there were some intrigues, not to mention the temptations like today.

Cherishing the people in front of you may be the best thing.

Tang Jing VS Luo Zijun, China’s best friends

Tang Jing and Luo Zijun in the play are simply models of besties. There is a huge contrast between the two people whose outlook on life is so inconsistent. They are good friends but closer than sisters.

"Tang Jing and I are completely different women. She is convinced that love is fleeting and marriage is fragile, so she pursues material and spiritual independence day and night. She says I am a frog in the well, and I say she is asking for trouble. Eat. "--Luo Zijun

It is not difficult to see that the two people's views are not consistent, but their friendship in their youth is lifelong. After Luo Zijun's marriage changed, Tang Jing stood up immediately and not only took care of her daily life, but also gave her guidance in the direction of life.

This is nothing more than having a close friend in life.

Tang Jing VS Lao Zhuo

Lao Zhuo, the boss of Japanese food. Tang Jing often talks to Lao Zhuo (the protagonists in the play seem to often go to Lao Zhuo for a drink). Lao Zhuo's sometimes careless words are humorous and bring a sense of clarity.

Tang Jing VS Tang Jing, the smart and capable workplace devil

Yishu’s Tang Jing is beautiful, capable, independent and proud. She has been working hard to pursue her career. Paying forward, overcoming obstacles all the way, constantly surpassing yourself, it is tiring and cruel, but also beautiful and cool.

Everyone will grow. As the plot develops, it is said on the Internet that Tang Jing is gradually being blackened. It is difficult to distinguish between true and false, but growth and change are inevitable.

Tang Jing, on the surface, is a strong woman, resolute and resolute, but the most easily overlooked "fragility" in the character is wrapped in a strong sense of professionalism, which may often be ignored by others.

On the surface, she is very domineering and powerful, able to control all her life, but at the same time, there is a lonely little shadow in the corner of her heart.

Her inner thoughts are not much different from those of ordinary women when dealing with relationships. She will be jealous, she will be angry, while she is dealing with her relationship with He Han, she also longs for attention and love, and is always struggling with contradictions. However, in the end, she and He Han parted ways because of their professionalism and other constraints.

Confident women are the most beautiful. From the beginning, it can be seen that Tang Jing will always be that energetic and proud woman. She lives her life clearly.

So is it worth the effort? Nothing is absolute, there are relative gains and losses, good and bad. It mainly depends on whether it can reflect its value and whether it can satisfy the sense of personal accomplishment.

Regarding Tang Jing’s ending in the novel, it is said that she married Mo Jiaqian far away from home, and the days when they depended on each other can only remain in memories and become an eternal concern. So in the end, Tang Jing, a woman who was said to never get married, ended up getting married as a wife. The TV ending is yet to be determined.

Women, it is important to manage yourself. Stay dynamic, keep up with social trends, and work hard to manage yourself well, and you will be able to live as confidently and beautifully as Tang Jing. If you can live so free and easy, why bother with your own love and your own life.

"No one will be the safe haven you think you have in this life. Only you are your last refuge." A brilliant life is in your own hands.