The basic steps of picking up girls

Self-confidence is the basic condition for doing anything, and chasing girls is no exception. You need absolute self-confidence if you want to succeed in chasing girls. You must stick to the belief that you must succeed and never be lonely again.

Lesson 2 A man who confuses women

Most women do not like men who are too honest. How boring! In fact, their most popular men are young, cheerful and lively, unable to refuse others, unable to keep secrets, without the opposite sex, easy to compromise, a little overconfident and a little lazy.

Big lover mode [gentle, happy, manly, caring, intelligent, reliable, funny, athletic, physically strong, honest, healthy, upright, cheerful, responsible, lovely, tolerant, strong, financially capable and good-looking] In fact, as long as you have any of the above points, you can say that you have the conditions to attract women, but the more you have the above points,

But even so, even if you have the above conditions, there is no guarantee that you will please any woman, because you can't have some shortcomings that the other party can't accept or tolerate at the same time, such as:

Lesson 3 Encounters

You should always remind yourself that the word eye margin is almost the most puzzling concept on the road of love, enough to make two people fall in love, fall in love quickly, and even walk into church.

Therefore, when you meet the woman you have been waiting for for a long time and hit it off at any place and any occasion: bus, subway, street, restaurant, banquet, workplace, etc. Don't hesitate, the opportunity may never come back.

But there is no doubt that this requires great courage and caution. Besides, if you make a mistake, you can keep your stomach in the future. Therefore, in daily life, we must always study and be able to cope when it is useful.

Below, try to give some opening remarks for your reference:

1. Look at her with attracted or involuntary eyes and don't look back from time to time. This trick, even if the other person is not attracted to you at all, will find him very attractive and complacent, and can't help but look back at you. )

2. A smile. They will believe that their appearance must be pleasing and make others feel good, and then they may smile back. )

Ask her the time in the most natural way, but there must be no watch, but you can slow down or speed up first. She can't find any reason to refuse to answer you. )

Lesson 4 Creating Opportunities

If you want to pursue a girl, you should have an opening speech anyway. No matter what image and effect you use, the most important thing is that she responds. As long as she responds to you, everything will be much easier

So, how should we create opportunities? It's difficult to generalize because of the different situations, venues, people and atmosphere, but there are always some principles to follow:

Make an appointment in the shortest possible time. In this way, she had no time to refuse, but acquiesced. ※. )

Choose some popular places. She will feel safe, so she might as well have a try. ※. )

Take her to a place she knows. She will not be at a loss, she will feel natural. ※. )

Talk it over with her, and then you can make a decision. Women like the respect of others and the tyranny of others. ※. )

Make proper arrangements for her, such as the way and time to go home. She will think you are a considerate, mature, considerate and gentle person. ※. )

With this arrangement, she will readily agree to your date, and at the same time, she will be happy to spend a romantic and unexpected night with someone like you. However, women are definitely animals manipulated by emotions. Even when you think you have completely mastered her psychological state, she may actually be impacted by another kind of outside world at the same time. Therefore, when you get along with them, you must always be careful and not careless.

Lesson 5 the first date

Meeting and talking can be said to be the most important step, because it is the beginning of everything, but there is no guarantee that there will be a second step and a third step in the future. Therefore, after the first step, it still takes a lot of time, and you must never relax.

Because, if you are tight, it will make her happier.

Lesson 6 the second date

Why emphasize the second date? Because the first meeting may be the first contact, we don't know each other at all, and we are not serious. They rely entirely on intuition and eyes to judge whether the other party can continue to overlap. The first date means that I really want to know each other. We might as well give each other a chance to start over. Therefore, strictly speaking, the first single date is the first time to consciously and hopefully date each other and get in touch with each other for the first time.

However, the second single date is more important because it is a sincere confirmation of each other. The first date can be said to be pure temptation. If you feel that they are not suitable for each other, you can definitely stop here and don't have to continue. Of course, seeing more is not necessarily a pledge of eternal love, but there is a bigger difference-greater sincerity.

No matter how the first date is, you have to admit that as long as you date each other again, it means that the last date is unforgettable, and you also hope to see each other again and get along well with her. Therefore, your attitude must be more sincere.

At the very least, you should let her know that you are mentally prepared, that you and she will become lovers at any time, and that you have begun to regard her as your girlfriend-someone you are completely interested in further exchanges.

Lesson 7 Physical Contact

Maybe you and she have been dating alone many times, or maybe you regard each other as boyfriend and girlfriend, talking and laughing together, but you still feel that there is a gap between us. In fact, after we get along for a while, she will allow some physical contact, but that doesn't mean you can do whatever you want. You need to be careful, or all your previous efforts will be in vain. If you put your hand on her shoulder too hard and exaggerate your movements, it will definitely arouse disgust and think you are too laissez-faire.