The first time I went to see my parents at my boyfriend's house in a different place as a girlfriend, should I stay in a hotel or him?

This issue involves culture and personal preferences. I suggest that you communicate more on this issue and reach a consensus.

In some ways, staying in a hotel may be more suitable. First of all, it can show your independence and self-esteem. At your boyfriend's home, you may be influenced by his family environment, which may have an impact on your psychology and emotions. Secondly, staying in a hotel can keep a certain etiquette and distance, which is very important when you go to your boyfriend's house for the first time. Finally, if you have any discomfort or doubts about your boyfriend's family environment, staying in a hotel can make you express and communicate more freely.

However, this does not mean that you need to stick to your own ideas on the choice of accommodation for your boyfriend. You can also communicate with your boyfriend, try to stay at his home and get to know his family environment and atmosphere. In this case, you can express your worries and work out a solution with your boyfriend.

Generally speaking, this decision should be made by you and your boyfriend, taking into account each other's feelings, culture and personal preferences. No matter which way you choose, you should respect and understand each other's decision and maintain good communication and understanding.