What am I fighting for? What is my goal in life?

To tell you the truth, I haven't thought about it before. My motivation to move forward comes almost entirely from the old adage "There is a golden house in the book, and there is Yan Ruyu in the book". Now I have somehow fallen into the "goal dilemma" and feel that my life has lost its direction, leaving only a body without soul and motivation wandering around the campus. ...

In this movie, the person I despise most is the first protagonist Lu Tao, who is selfish, conceited, stingy, jealous, playboy and willful. He has no sense of responsibility and tolerance. I can't figure out what charm he has, so that so many beautiful women can jump into his narrow-minded arms with thick chest muscles like moths ... After watching the first and second episodes, I really thought, no, that's it.

Lu Tao's lack of responsibility is mainly reflected in: on the one hand, he is at arm's length with Millay, on the other hand, he is ambiguous with Charlene Marilynn Dangelo;

On the one hand, Xu Zhisen boasted of his ideal of building energy-saving houses. On the other hand, when Xu Zhisen bought an idyllic real estate at all risks and let Lu Tao continue to run the project to realize his ideal, he quit without considering the consequences of others' possible bankruptcy, as if everything had nothing to do with him.

On the one hand, when Xu Zhisen was dying, he knew that Xu Zhisen might not live. On the other hand, he still wants to go to France to have a romance with his girlfriend Charlene Marilynn Dangelo. Is this what he calls struggle? ...

In this film, only Lu Tao's biological father, Xu Zhisen, has attracted me to watch this film all the time, because I found how similar our backgrounds, ways of thinking, attitudes and concepts are (some people say that I look like Xu Zhisen, but I seem to be more obscene, hehe). So next I will mainly talk about some things I learned from Xu Zhisen. This kind of review is a bit unusual, but I am such a person who doesn't like to take the ordinary road. ...

1, I like the way Lao Xu teaches those simple but enlightening life philosophies. He integrated them into specific events, making people feel spontaneous, instead of just talking like Lu Yaxun.

For example, by teaching Garjier to drive an Audi, he was taught to "remember to step on the brakes at any time to avoid losing control";

By playing golf on the golf course, he taught that "a person walks into a dead end because he is too concerned about himself and forgets that there are other ways";

Through his experience with Lu Tao's mother, he taught that "a person will forget many good things he did in his life, but when he is old, what he really remembers is the bad things he did";

2. About interpersonal relationships.

Almost all the commercial activities in this film have certain human relations to some extent, such as all the projects (mainly from Xu Zhisen and General Manager Mi), the advertising projects (mainly from Xu Zhisen), the projects obtained by Milaijia Decoration Company in advance (mainly from the relationship with Xu Zhisen), the purchase of houses (mainly from Xu Zhisen), and the first large order of decoration shops exceeding 300,000 (mainly from).

3. About inequality.

The other is inequality. Garjier has a good father, which is the key to his success. Xu Zhisen has said many times that "no one really believes you except me". Millay also has a good father, which is the key to her becoming a general manager and spending money like water. This era is so unfair that it is useless to be handsome, beautiful and talented. Better have a good father. For example, around Lu Tao, Hanako is a capable and handsome person, and Charlene Marilynn Dangelo is also a capable and beautiful person. But why did Lu Tao not succeed in the end, or the speed of success was not as fast as that of Garjier, because they lacked an important driving force-a good father.

Before I went to graduate school, I used to be like Lu Tao. According to Xu Zhisen, I would rather be employed than be a boss. I never make full use of my existing better conditions. I always hope to develop from the bottom by my own ability and stand on the same starting line with others to get a kind of comfort.

But after graduate school, I gradually realized what Xu Zhisen often said: "People are born unfair. Don't resist the benefits that the world gives you, but go forward bravely. " I'm glad I realized this sentence earlier. At this point, Lao Xu and I still wholeheartedly.

4. About emotions.

Xu Zhisen once said, "The emotional world is a world without cost performance and return on investment. It's not a square meter of land, it's a cloud, I can't control it, I can't calculate it, and my heart can't be practical. " Therefore, when evaluating Xu Zhisen's life, his "lover" son said that he "struggled all his life, but the front was empty", "worked hard all his life, never slacked off, and lived alone in a hotel suite, just like a tramp, even if he had a house, he was still alone" and "a homeless person".

If I don't come to Wuhan for graduate study, I can live a good life, or I can find a beautiful girl in the local area for blind date, complete the life event of getting married and having children, and live a stable life; During graduate school, I can also associate with her rashly because of loneliness to fill the temporary emptiness and satisfy the temporary vanity.

But I know I won't do this, because a love without feelings may make me lose the motivation to move forward forever ... then it will inevitably hurt myself and others ... This may be the only difference between Xu Zhisen and me.

How many people fall in love because of loneliness, and how many people are lonely all their lives because of the wrong love? The coming will come naturally, so I will continue to wait patiently for the arrival of fate, and find someone who loves me and I love to accompany me for the rest of my life ... I don't want to be Xu Zhisen who is rich but not loved by women, and Xu Zhisen who is rich but not warm ... Xu Zhisen didn't realize until he was old that "it is easy to get married, but it is difficult to have a high-quality home. If you want to fight for this family wholeheartedly,

Once again, I am glad that I can understand this before I get old.

Although my name is Deheng, my biggest weakness is my lack of perseverance. I don't know if I can keep this state, wait for the arrival of fate and do my best, hehe. ...

Alas, I wish I had such passion and literary talent when writing my thesis. I wrote more than 3000 words in an afternoon, which is almost the same as the number of words in national papers. ...

I am so talented that I wrote a film review of a romantic movie like Marxist philosophy. If you feel uncomfortable, you can use the most commonly used sentence in the film, "get out!" To express their dissatisfaction with me.