How much do you know about the specific precautions of engagement party?

Engagement refers to the ceremony that both men and women who want to get married choose an auspicious day, exchange gifts, exchange wedding stickers and conclude an engagement before marriage. Modern engagement ceremonies are mostly held in hotels, where both parties and guests get together to witness the engagement of the couple. A perfect engagement party needs to pay attention to many details and must be considered comprehensively, otherwise any small problem may leave defects for the engaged party.

1. Who should attend the engagement party:

Who needs to attend the engagement party depends entirely on personal wishes, and more friends and relatives can be invited. But on the whole, in most areas, engagement parties will invite close people, such as family, parents, elders and so on. And some people will invite some very close friends. In addition, some friends are invited from outside, that is to say, they are invited at the engagement party, so they can also invite each other when they are engaged. Generally, the number of people invited to an engagement party is even, which is also good luck and a lucky draw.

2. Should we pay attention to whether pregnant women can attend the engagement party?

According to traditional customs, pregnant women are not recommended to attend the engagement party, especially those who are less than three months old. It is said that it is not good to attend the engagement wedding ceremony. However, modern people are more open-minded and no longer believe those superstitious statements. As long as they are safe, they can attend the engagement party. In the late pregnancy, pregnant women are inconvenient to move. For safety reasons, it is best not to attend the engagement party. Because engagement parties are usually crowded and held in hotels, it is inconvenient for pregnant women to take a car or walk. If the weather is bad, it will increase the risk of illness, which is not good for the fetus.

3. What are the precautions for attending an engagement party?

To attend someone else's engagement party, first of all, you need to pay attention to your clothes and look decent. Men mainly wear suits. Ladies get dressed. If someone close to you is engaged, you can choose some festive red clothes. Try not to wear black. Secondly, when the couple toasts, they should pay attention to stand up, and must not drag the couple to talk endlessly. You know, when engaged, the couple should take care of all the guests, and have something to say in private after the engagement.

Pay attention to language, say more nice words and polite words, and people who are not particularly familiar with it should try to make fewer jokes. Don't speak too loudly, and use civilized language in public. There is one more thing to pay special attention to. When some friends take their children to get engaged, they will loudly scold their children for being naughty and crying at the banquet, which is very inappropriate. If you take your children to the engagement ceremony, tell them to be polite in advance. If you encounter crying and other behaviors, try to pull it to a quiet place to discourage it. You can't beat and scold children on the spot.

4. Details of matters needing attention in engagement party:

Although all the people invited at the engagement party are relatives or very good friends, we should also be careful not to ignore every guest and take care of everyone's emotions. When arranging seats, you can arrange familiar people to sit at a table to avoid embarrassment when speaking. Everything you need at the engagement ceremony should be prepared in advance, and it is best to check it again before you start, so as not to miss anything. Valuables can be kept by trusted people in case they are lost.