How to ask a girl out skillfully

(1) The purpose of the reservation is clear. People are afraid of meeting each other, but trees are afraid of uncovering their skins. Many times, the girl is cold and pushing around on the phone, but if you cheat her out, she will have a good time. The purpose of the invitation is to meet. As long as we can meet, we can say anything. All the demands of girls can be compromised, such as girls saying, "I can't come back too late." "I don't like singing." "I'm not feeling well. I can't climb the mountain." How to answer these excuses, the following (7) specifically talked about it. (2) Overcome the fear of dating. Looking at the eight-point number in the mobile phone, she is so beautiful and rich. Can I catch up with her? Do you want to call her or not? Otaku seems to have endless fears in his heart. I'm afraid to talk to girls and ask them out. You can read how to overcome fear before chatting up. I remember how I asked the girl I like out, picked up the phone and put it down, thinking about whether this time is appropriate, what should I say, whether the place where I asked her out is appropriate, whether she will come out, what should we do when we meet ... The first question is, do you want to contact me if you have a phone number? The answer is always "to contact! "At most, the other party doesn't answer the phone or send text messages back. The loss is just a little phone bill. When will you contact? The sooner the better! Especially in big cities. In a small town, it is possible that after a month, you will contact again. The girl still remembers the scene where you accosted that day. But in big cities, girls don't remember who you are the next day. My habit is to send text messages or call girls on the spot. Generally, I will say, "I am the cheeky Ah Yue just now. Your eyes are really good at talking. "Let's go out for a cold drink another day." (3) the text is short. Invitation is not chatting, and the skill of chatting with women is not rambling, without head or tail. Express the invitation simply and clearly, but in special circumstances, the invitation can be used as a means to keep in touch, and the invitation is the topic of communication. For example, if you regularly invite her out to play or eat, even if the other party refuses, you can call to harass her in this way; Every time the other party refuses, it will form a refusal debt and finally come out. (4) reduce expectations. As soon as he came up, he said, "Let's get a room!" No girl can promise. You said, "Let's go shopping and get something to eat!" Many girls won't refuse. Don't make too many demands at first, use the strategy of camel entering the tent and make demands on the girl bit by bit. Although the first thing I said was to go out for dinner and chat, I had a good time chatting. Sure, I can go to the park again. (5) stimulate interest. Curiosity kills the cat! Girls are naturally curious. If you invite a girl to dinner, there are two ways. The first way is to tell her that there is a restaurant with western-style decoration and steak pie, and the atmosphere is very romantic. The second way is to tell her that there is a romantic restaurant. She asks you what you look like, and you will know when you go. You will never be disappointed. Obviously, the second way is more exciting and attractive! (6) stick to it. Stick to the end, in other words, have a strong desire to satisfy. For the rejection of girls, insist on at least three times! I dated a girl, spent a month, texted, called and invited many times, and finally came out. At the end of this article, I will attach a post I found online, which is the voice of a girl. Everyone should be inspired to read it. (7) Pay attention to tone and intonation. In fact, this is more important than all the dating topics and dating skills mentioned above. Girls come out to see you not because of what you said, but because they are attracted by your magnetic voice, infected by your enthusiasm and conquered by your strength and confidence. If it really doesn't work, practice in front of the mirror, look at your expression and smile, record your voice and listen to it yourself. I have a deep understanding of dating. I just said in a casual and anxious tone, "Are you free tonight?" I want to talk to you about something. Let's meet at the gate of Jin Guanghua Square! "The other party came out without much thought. But it's still an old saying, in fact, it doesn't matter what you say, what matters is how you say it! (8) handle objections skillfully. Here is a dating technique called "biting the end of a conversation". This skill is very useful. After you learn it, you will also use it when you bargain in shopping. That is, no matter how the girl objects, you will push the hand of Tai Chi on the basis of what she said, unload your strength and fight back with your strength. The specific step is to express understanding-re-demand. For example, you: "Come out to play at night! Girl: I work overtime at night. You: It's so hard. Your boss is so inhuman. I'm going to the industrial and commercial bureau to report him! (Show understanding, stand in the same position-unload) Working overtime all day, life can't be like this, you have to take a vacation for yourself. (Her excuse became the reason for your invitation-borrowing money) I know a place to eat midnight snack, which is cheap and delicious! When do you get off work? How to ask a girl out skillfully? Before you talk to her for the first time, think about whether she is interested in you. Did she make eye contact with you? When talking to you, did she laugh and enjoy it? If so, congratulations-she may like you a little. But if she looks at you just because you keep staring at her, it's not a good sign. This will put pressure on girls, so don't show your feelings for her too clearly. See if she touched you. If she always wants to touch your hand or find an excuse to touch you, then she may be interested in you. But if she doesn't have physical contact with you, it doesn't prove that she doesn't like you. Similarly, if she doesn't have physical contact with you first, don't take the initiative to do so, which may scare the girls away. If she doesn't even look at you, then you need to stay calm and find an excuse to talk to her. Pay attention to the way she looks at you. If a girl likes you, she may look at you for a few seconds, but she may look away at once. But if you look at a girl and she stares at you unfriendly, it means that she doesn't like you. But maybe, if she looks away soon, then she may also be interested in you. If she looks at you with disdain, it may be that you have something on your teeth. If she looks away soon, it may mean that she likes you, but she is a little nervous. Remember, girls will habitually look at your face when they talk to you. Don't think this means that she likes you. If you have never talked to a girl, your chances of asking her out are almost zero. Because friendship can be upgraded to love, even without friendship, love is out of the question. Communicate and try to stare at her. When talking to her, please stare at her face, especially her eyes. Of course, you should also listen to her carefully, so that when she asks you something or stops, you can continue to answer the phone. Be careful not to stare at her body (especially her breasts! ) Few girls like this behavior. If she doesn't even look at you, or simply ignores you, then leave her alone. Some girls may not like this. Read her body language. Give her some help. Offer to help her carry heavy objects, bring her lunch or do some ordinary things for her. If she refuses, wait for the right moment, such as when she really needs your help or when she is depressed and needs comfort. If she walks away, don't ask her why, just stay with her silently. The problem is to keep the clothes tidy. Although you don't need to wear a suit and tie to date girls seriously, you must make sure your clothes are clean and tidy. Brush your teeth before the date and use a little perfume if necessary. Never wear the same clothes for two consecutive days. If you wear a red T-shirt on Monday, don't wear it on Tuesday! Approach the girl you like actively. You don't need to go too far, just say "hi" or "hello". As the conversation goes on, you can try to praise her or ask her some questions. Stay natural and humorous. Don't make the atmosphere too serious when you speak. You can also try to flirt with her, make a joke, and try to make some small contact. Ask her out at the right time. Ask her to go to the movies or do something you are both interested in. You can also invite her to your favorite bar for a drink, just let nature take its course. You can say, "I've heard of this movie xxx. What do you think? " If she says she feels good, ask her if she wants to go with you. If she asks you, is this a date? Then tell her, yes. Because girls like confident boys. In addition, you can say, "I want to see this art exhibition on Saturday night." Do you want to go with me? " It would be interesting if we went together. "Be confident. If she asks you if this is a date, tell her it is. Confident men are always more popular. Be prepared to be rejected. If she refuses you, smile at her and tell her easily, "No problem, next time!" " "And try to change the subject. If you don't want to stay, you can choose to leave. You should act as if you don't care, which will interest girls. But if a girl makes an expression of disgust and shouts, "You? No! " This proves that this girl hates you. You should give up on her and start asking other girls out. But don't feel too self-esteem, it will make you look listless. Just because a girl doesn't like you doesn't mean that girls all over the world don't like you. Tip In order to enhance the possibility of her agreeing with you, you need to try to show some qualities that you can attract him. If you have caught her attention before asking her out, it won't be difficult to ask her out. Ask her out when you're alone. If there are other people around, she may feel stressed and don't know if she should say yes. You want to know her true feelings, don't you? Learn to relax and be confident when you speak. It's normal to have a pause in conversation, so don't be nervous. She may be nervous, too. Please remember that every girl is different. These tricks are not applicable to all girls. So when using these skills, don't forget your own judgment. Please ask her out yourself. If you ask a girl out through social networks such as email or intranet, it will be insincere. Most girls like confident boys, but confidence doesn't mean arrogance. Some girls get nervous when they are pursued. If she bites her lip, or looks at the other side, blushes, or shows other shyness, then give her some time to think. After two or three weeks, ask her out as casually as possible, and maybe they will agree. When you start talking to a girl, try to start by saying "Hi! Can I talk to you? " Or "Can I ask you a question?" This is a good way for girls to relax and make the conversation in your as natural as possible. If you date many girls at the same time, some girls will think you are a playboy and refuse you. Girls like boys who are single-minded and responsible. The worst thing for a girl is to be dumped soon. Don't be afraid of rejection. Many girls may let you down. Some girls agree to date you, but it may be just out of politeness. Just because she agrees to date you doesn't mean she likes it enough to be your girlfriend. Maybe she just doesn't want to hurt you. How to ask a girl out skillfully? It is actually easier to ask a familiar girl and a familiar woman. After all, there is a strong sense of security between you. This needs to be divided into different situations. If this girl likes you, she only needs a word from you, and she will quickly agree; If your sister doesn't like you, you are just ordinary friends. You can't just give your sister a reasonable reason. There is a popular saying that people have to do things for a reason, and it is the same for you to invite girls. For example: 1, long time no see, come out to catch up, XXX these people have come, come out and sit together; 2. Opened a hotpot restaurant. I hear it's very good. Let's try it together. I haven't been to the new Wanda here, so I went with some friends. The most important reason for this is based on the fact that you invited your sister. What kind of person is she? She attaches importance to feelings, so she uses the first reason; Love to eat is the second reason; Love to play is the third reason; Everyone should understand! Is to seize her needs. Don't worry when my sister refuses your first invitation. When you are free, continue to make an appointment next time. Because you know each other after all, my sister will be embarrassed to refuse, and the success rate of later invitations will be much higher. For this familiar girl, as long as your first impression is ok, you can basically ask her out according to the above method. If you are not familiar with the girl you like, that is, you have met once or twice, but you have friends, you can ask them out together, so the success rate will be much higher. Don't mistake this brother for looking for a friend, instead of keeping you from picking up girls, because at this time you are a stranger and need to establish a sense of security; And we should have confidence in the brothers who learn from dating science. Other men can't get rid of your sister. Because we are not familiar with each other, this is just a strategy to make friends with * * *, which has many benefits. First of all, more girls tend to have a sense of trust and will not refuse to date alone. Secondly, if you want to get rid of a girl, if you can get rid of people around you first, it will be beneficial for you and the girl's next progress. They will be your better wingman to help you and win the beauty in the end. In fact, there are many such things. For example, you have a crush on a goddess, but she doesn't know you. Then, the first thing we have to do is to get to know her first. Feasible method: inquire about the walking route of the goddess, and make an "ambush" in the place where it often appears until it appears in front of the goddess. When you have a brush, you must dress smartly, handsomely or gently. Remember to be sloppy and wear slippers, which is absolutely not possible. This is the first impression I often say. After brushing your face several times, you can say hello to your sister: "Hello, I see you almost every day, which is quite predestined." Introduce yourself again, and so is your statue of the goddess. I often meet you these days, and what women can't resist most is the word "fate".