Deng Wendi, who "braving the wind and waves": Why can a woman who breaks through the upper limit climb to the top of the world?

Recently, a variety show "Sister Riding the Wind and Waves" exploded, and thirty "elderly" sisters competed on the stage, which made us watch with relish. With the broadcast of the program, the early deeds of several female stars were once again pulled out to eat melons.

Looking at 52-year-old Yi Nengjing's extraordinary efforts, I suddenly remembered another 52-year-old woman, Wendi Deng, a legendary woman in China. Her life can only be described in two words.

"In this era of regularization, Wendi Deng is a person who breaks the rules. Some people ridiculed Deng Wendi for doing whatever it takes, but at the same time they fantasized that they could be the second her. There is a saying in Deng Wendi's Weibo: Don't ask what the meaning of life is, define it yourself. In this result-oriented society, no one can deny that Deng Wendi is successful. "

Wendi Deng, a name that has been popular for so many years, has finally become synonymous with "China woman" in Europe and America on the other side of the ocean.

She broke into the global upper class and became one of the most powerful women in the world. The experience of a world-class celebrity was regarded as "textbook coquettish operation" by many utilitarian women. Every day, countless women are eager to replicate Deng Wendi's success, even though they may face numerous spurning on the way to success, such as Zhang Dayi, an online celebrity (the cheating object of Tmall President Fan Jiang), and Zhang Yuting, the Greenland Group incident some time ago.

Some people even said that in the case of Liu's alleged sexual assault, Liu once asked the girl: "Do you want to be that kind of woman?"

52-year-old Wendi Deng, what is her life like, which makes her unparalleled so far?

1968, Wendi Deng was born in Jinan, Shandong Province, and her original name was "Deng", which was full of information of the times. Shortly after birth, she moved to Xuzhou, Jiangsu with her parents. Xuzhou has always been famous for its heavy industry. Her father Deng Dehui is the director of Xuzhou Construction Machinery Factory. At that time, the identity and status of the director of its state-owned enterprises were no less than that of today's department-level cadres, so Deng Wendi's family environment was second to none at that time.

Unfortunately, as can be seen from the name "Deng", Deng Dehui's father's thought is a bit "stubborn". In an interview, Wendi Deng once said that her parents wanted boys, so her birth disappointed them. Moreover, Deng Wendi's parents really raised her as a boy, so the teenage Deng Wendi is wilder and taller than the average girl, so she can be the main setter of Xuzhou volleyball team in high school.

Deng Wendi in her girlhood

Her primary school classmates once recalled that when she was a child, Wendi Deng was very clever and careless, but she had to do everything she decided and play with her companions. She dares to try things that others dare not or can't do well.

As far as her teenage life is concerned, her parents have really arranged well for her. But when she was young, after understanding what "son preference" was, she always wanted to escape from her family.

Later, Deng Wendi's father was transferred to Guangzhou Noodle Factory, and Deng Wendi came to Guangzhou with her family. At this time, she 16 years old. According to her parents' arrangement, she was admitted to Guangzhou Medical College, which also highlighted the essence of her learning hegemony. No matter how powerful her family is, it is not easy to get into a good school at that time when she is eager for education.

Wendi Deng of the volleyball team

However, unlike other students who are immersed in their studies, others cherish the opportunity to study in universities and middle schools, but she has set her eyes on the other side of the gorgeous ocean she saw on TV.

During her three years in school, what she learned most was English and ballroom dancing. Her skirt swayed and her steps were brisk, and she soon became a famous figure in her class. Also attracted to her is her English teacher, Cherie from America.

Cherie and his wife Joyce work in a Sino-American joint venture factory. In their spare time, they teach English to medical students. Wendi Deng, 19, is generous and enthusiastic, and has an American enthusiasm, which makes them like it very much. Soon, Joyce returned to live in the United States for a period of time because she missed her daughter in the United States. Now, Wendi Deng finally has a chance, even though Cherie is 50 years old.

Soon, Wendi Deng used her young body to make Cherie fall in love with herself. The place where they met changed from a classroom to a hotel, but Joyce didn't know that the girl student she liked very much was secretly engaged to her husband. So, when Cherie and his wife returned to America, Wendi Deng proposed to study in America. Encouraged by her husband, Cherie and his wife vouched for her, which enabled her to obtain a student visa and enter a community college of California State University.

American university

Because Deng Wendi didn't get much support from her family, Joyce even agreed to let her live in their house, share a bed with her five-year-old daughter, and pay for Deng Wendi's study in the United States. The kind Joyce also agreed to Cherie's request.

Walking by the river often can keep your shoes wet. Now that you have come to the United States and lived in Cherie's home, there are more and more little moves between them, and Joyce gradually feels more and more wrong, until one day, she found a private photo of Wendi Deng hidden by her husband at home, and her husband took her in various customs.

1990, enough papers were punctured, and divorce came naturally. Couples who have been together for decades are not as youthful as female students. Wendi Deng jumped from sponsor to mistress of the house, and poor Joyce was swept out of the house.

In terms of age, Cherie may be the father of Wendi Deng. In terms of asset business, Cherie Sr is an ordinary American. At this time, Deng Wendi is in her prime. How can she really entrust herself to an ordinary old man who is over half a year old? Shortly after marriage, Wendi Deng said frankly to Cherie, "I only regard you as my father. I have a boyfriend at school and we get along very well. "

Old Cherie was shocked and sad, but Deng Wendi's health really made it difficult for him to give up. Therefore, when Wendi Deng said that he hoped to get a divorce after two years in order to get an American green card, Cherie agreed. 1992, after two years and seven months of marriage, Wendi Deng and Cherie broke up peacefully, and Wendi Deng finally got a green card from the United States. Since then, her dream-chasing journey to the United States has begun with great vigour.

Of course, during this period, Wendi Deng never broke up with her little American boyfriend. 1996, Wendi Deng obtained an MBA (Master of Business Administration) from Yale University in the United States, and the high tuition fees of Yale University have always been borne by her boyfriend. If she were just an ordinary girl, she might find true love at this time, but Deng Wendi's ideal didn't stop there. When she had access to by going up one flight of stairs and the capital to stand anywhere, she chose to break up and pursue a broader grassland.

Buffett once said: "The best investment in the world is to invest in yourself." After graduation, Wendi Deng knew that her advantage was that she was a China woman with an American green card. At this time, Hong Kong, which was supposed to return to the mainland, developed rapidly. She feels that Hong Kong can maximize her personal value.

So Deng Wendi spent nearly a year's living expenses to buy a first-class ticket for an international flight to Hong Kong. This operation was called "a stroke of genius" by later generations. The enterprising Wendi Deng succeeded. She used an expensive first-class ticket to meet another first-class passenger at that time, Bruce, who was about to become the vice president of Star Media in Hong Kong. As a result, Wendi Deng knew he was in a mess before she got off the plane.

It is no exaggeration to describe Wendi Deng with Wan Li, who has soared to the ninth grade. Only one year after coming to Hong Kong, Deng Wendi changed from an intern of Star Media to a female manager and entered the middle and high level.

/kloc-one day in 0/998, Wendi Deng was called to the office as an interpreter for a thin and plain old man. This old man is rupert murdoch, the founder of News Group, the parent company of Star Media, which is known as the "king of media".

Murdoch

Murdoch is a world-class business tycoon. He and his News Corporation control more than half of the world's public opinion trends. Because of this, many British prime ministers have to get on well with him. Thatcher, Blair, Cameron and so on are all his friends.

Wendi Deng is keenly aware that this old man can change her life.

If a woman wants to spread her charm to a man, especially when this man is also a romantic figure, everything will become very easy. Murdoch was soon fascinated by Deng Wendi's special oriental charm. Later, when describing her first impression of Wendi Deng, Murdoch said, "She is fresh, fearless and full of charming self-confidence."

When she found that Murdoch had fallen in love with her pomegranate skirt, Wendi Deng began to be cautious everywhere. She hinted that Murdoch said, "I finally have a stable job, and I won't go with you." Later, she often kept her distance from Murdoch. This "refusing to welcome" trick is a pediatrician in the East, but at that time, when men experienced it, Murdoch was already in high spirits, not only promised to arrange a good position for Deng Wendi, but also promised to marry Deng Wendi. Wendi Deng and Murdoch went to America easily.

1On June 25th, 999, a grand wedding was held on a luxury private yacht on the Hudson River in new york, USA. The groom is 68-year-old Murdoch and the bride is China woman Wendi Deng. Not many guests came to the wedding, but they were all rich or expensive. Murdoch is indifferent to this, because he just divorced his last wife Anna 17 days ago, and Wendi Deng didn't care. What she cares about is that as long as she gets married, Murdoch and his tens of billions of wealth are related to Deng Wendi.

In fact, Anna is also a vicious person. She was married to Murdoch for 32 years and was strongly intervened by a woman she didn't know, which made her very angry. So when she signed the divorce agreement, she signed a treaty with Murdoch: "If Wendi Deng didn't give birth to a child, then she wouldn't inherit anything." This is a plan to make Wendi Deng innocent after Murdoch's death, because Anna knows how difficult it is for Murdoch, 68, to have another child.

Unfortunately, the mountain is higher than the mountain. It is impossible for a woman like Wendi Deng to make her give up the dollar she said. Therefore, after Murdoch was diagnosed with prostate cancer after marriage, Wendi Deng risked her life to use the in vitro fertilization technology that was not advanced at that time, and gave birth to two daughters by using Murdoch sperm that had been frozen before. There is an irreplaceable guarantee between her and Murdoch and his property.

After Deng Wendi gave birth to Murdoch's second daughter, Murdoch even said happily: "My life is to work for Deng Wendi."

But what everyone didn't expect was that Deng Wendi was welcomed by the western public in an alternative way.

20 1 19 On the afternoon of July 19, Murdoch, accompanied by Wendi Deng, attended the public hearing of the telephone eavesdropping scandal in the News of the World. As the defendant at the hearing, Murdoch was embarrassed and at a loss. He told the media that this was the "most humble day" in his life.

At the beginning of the hearing, when Murdoch was in pain and embarrassment, a world-class farce happened, probably because he was dissatisfied with the practice of Murdoch Group or because Murdoch himself responded at the hearing. Just when the British Parliament asked Murdoch about the relevant issues, a man suddenly jumped out of the audience and threw a plate with shaving cream at Murdoch.

Everyone was still confused, but Wendi Deng quickly stood up and fought back. She immediately raised her hand and slapped the attacker from top to bottom. This slap is very similar to a dunk in volleyball. It seems that the basic skills of volleyball that I trained for many years as a child are still there. It is precisely because of Deng Wendi's husband's reaction in Murdoch's critical moment that westerners instantly feel that this oriental woman is really full of infinite charm. A gorgeous slap in the face, the stock price of Murdoch News Group, which was actually fanned, jumped out of the abyss and rose repeatedly after falling into a scandal. This is the most valuable slap in the face.

However, on the other hand, we can also see what a strong woman Deng Wendi is. She and Murdoch have been married for 14 years. Murdoch is getting old, but Wendi Deng has a bad temper that a woman in her forties may have. A person who used to work for Wendi Deng once described in an interview, "Everyone who works for her is afraid and hates her. Deng Wendi often flies into a rage about a little thing, and she often gets angry with her husband. "

At first, Wen Xiang Yu Wen's little wife was gone, and Murdoch felt exhausted. There are even rumors that Wendi Deng abused him. Finally, the two divorced in the agreement of 2013165438+1October 20th. After the court pronounced the sentence, Wendi Deng kissed Murdoch on the forehead and said, "Thank you." Then, very natural and unrestrained walked out of the court.

The marriage experience with Murdoch, in addition to bringing her rich divorce property, the most important thing is that Wendi Deng has made a leap in social class, and she has become a world-class aristocratic celebrity. Let's take stock of her "spoils" together.

Before, Wendi Deng asked Merck to buy a set of luxury quadrangles worth hundreds of millions for her, which naturally became her bag. In recent years, Deng Wendi invited top stars from China such as Zhang Ziyi and Li Bingbing to visit this quadrangle. On Fifth Avenue in Manhattan, Wendi Deng also got a $44 million three-story penthouse.

In addition, Murdoch has five children. According to western law, Deng Wendi's two daughters born to Murdoch have two-fifths of Murdoch's property inheritance rights. The year before last, Murdoch News Group distributed more than $20 billion in assets (dividends from selling Fox) to Deng Wendi's daughter. Because the children are underage, all these assets are managed by Wendi Deng. If Wendi Deng relies on her two daughters after Murdoch's death, she may get nearly $60 billion!

In addition to digital assets, Wendi Deng has also expanded her social circle perfectly with the help of Murdoch.

Ivanka, the daughter of US President Donald Trump, is Deng Wendi's best friend, and ivanka's husband was helped by Deng Wendi. Because Wendi Deng and ivanka were too close, the National Security Agency suggested to Trump: Be careful, your daughter's best friend is from China.

Ivanka and Wendi Deng

Former British Prime Minister Blair is Deng Wendi's first social trophy. Before Deng Wendi and Murdoch divorced, some media reported that Blair had spent the night at Murdoch's home. However, Murdoch is not at home, only Wendi Deng is there.

Blair and Wendi Deng

What is even more incredible is that in 20 16, Deng Wendi also took her daughter to the private yacht of Russian President Vladimir Putin and went to sea for a holiday with Putin. ...

Foreign media reported that Deng Wendi was suspected of having a special relationship with Putin.

These have been exposed by the media, and the love affairs announced by Deng Wendi herself are countless. At the Paris Fashion Show on 20 16, Deng Wendi made a close appearance with the rich second generation violinist Charlie Siem, who was 17 years younger than him. At the beginning of 17, a photo of a romantic walk on the beach with a Hungarian male model was exposed, and Deng Wendi, who was nearly half a century old, showed off her figure.

After the divorce, Wendi Deng's behavior became more and more high-pitched. Of course, she also has this capital. Now, she has become the original Murdoch, and many small meats are trying to get close to her, but this woman is always the top hunter. At the age of 52, Deng Wendi's female career has exceeded the upper limit.

Although countless people want to copy Deng Wendi's success, it is more criticism. China's traditional values make many people unable to accept her unscrupulous way of success, but Deng Wendi said: "Of course I know how extraordinary my life is, but I know very well that if I care about other people's eyes, I will be bored to death every day. So I chose to ignore her. "

The day before yesterday, Wendi Deng entered the live studio and appeared in public with Meyer Musk. Meyer Musk, whose son is Elon Musk, is the president of Tesla and a frequent private rocket launcher. These two women are legends, and their dancing in the same frame also amazed the world. As expected, women are still old.

52-year-old Wendi Deng is still riding the wind and waves.

Wendi Deng and Meyer Musk