Is it normal to get married without ceremony?

Wedding, as one of the most important ceremonies in a person's life, most people think that it should be taken seriously and held ceremoniously.

In China, weddings usually begin with the groom leaving in the morning to pick up the bride, then walking down the red carpet, saying vows, throwing bouquets and entertaining guests ... until late at night.

Weddings are also expensive, which is a big expense for ordinary families.

In recent years, with the change of people's concepts, concepts such as "naked marriage" and "simple marriage" have gradually become popular among young people.

These people think that the wedding is too complicated and extravagant, but it is not necessary. It is better to travel with the money from marriage and buy a home, which is more economical and cost-effective.

This concept conflicts with the traditional concept, which has caused a lot of discussion.

Recently, a netizen posted in Weibo that her boyfriend wanted to get a license and didn't want to have a wedding (not because of money, but simply because of ideas), but she couldn't accept it herself, so she wanted to ask everyone's opinion.

This submission triggered a discussion among tens of thousands of netizens, and the two most praised comments supported not having a wedding. Their reasons are as follows:

"The current wedding mode is very embarrassing, like playing with a monkey."

"It is more cost-effective to use the money for marriage."

Many netizens think that holding a wedding in a hotel is a "nightmare":

If you think about it, most weddings held in hotels are the same routine now. The host is sensational on the stage and eats and drinks under the stage. Sometimes the link set by the host is a bit too "melodramatic", which makes the bride and groom a bit embarrassed.

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However, there are also many netizens who oppose not having a wedding.

Opponents believe that the wedding is a very important ceremony and should be done emotionally and intellectually.

Others think that not having a wedding is like not having a formal confirmation, and they always feel uneasy.

And there is no wedding, how can I get my money back?

This is a good point. It's hard to refute ...

Nearly 6.5438+0.2 million people participated in the voting, and the results showed that the unacceptable number was close to the acceptable number ... a small number of people could do it.

It seems that the social concept is really changing now, and everyone is more careful.