The difference between ambiguity and infidelity?

There is a difference between ignorance and infidelity.

Ambiguous refers to the ambiguous and ambiguous relationship between men and women. It is a very special relationship between men and women, which exists between friendship and transcends friendship. There are ambiguity of the same sex and ambiguity of the opposite sex. We have feelings for each other, however, this feeling is not enough for you to develop a formal relationship. This feeling is: it seems that he can't live without her, and she can't live without him, but in fact, each has its own sunshine, air and moisture. ...

Ambiguous is that she is not your lover, but she seems to care and understand you more than your lover. When you can't solve the problem, find a girlfriend, or ask a girlfriend, you will think of her first. As a result of ambiguity, it may develop into lovers, spouses, or homosexuals.

Cheating means that men and women pursue men and women in marriage, or a partner. Although the emotional relationship outside marriage is emotionally reasonable, it is also divorced from and contrary to people's normal moral track. It is called infidelity, which can be divided into physical infidelity and emotional infidelity.

For example, Xiao Li likes his female colleagues very much, but both of them have families, so they can only help at work, often chat and have a very good relationship. They feel that the other person is an important part of their lives, but they have never made it clear, but this feeling has always been in their hearts. At this time, their behavior, communication and words are ambiguous. If after a period of ambiguity, the degree continues to deepen, there is physical contact, or mental dependence can not extricate themselves, this becomes derailment.

Second, the spiritual needs of ignorance (psychological motivation)

1? Active ambiguity and passive ambiguity

Everyone who takes the initiative to be ambiguous especially likes to play ambiguous with people around him, and there are more than one ambiguous object. Like and be close to people you like or have a good impression on. People who are passive and ambiguous are unwilling to take the initiative, others will find it themselves, and they will not refuse to express their views. For them, this is a kind of enjoyment, a kind of show-off, and even a kind of self-satisfaction. They are often complacent and loved.

2 vanity

Some men are frustrated or frustrated in their feelings, which will produce the imagination and expectation of good feelings. When they meet a woman who makes them feel better or attracts them, they will take the initiative to please and satisfy their subconscious desires. While proving your charm.

3 psychological compensation

Because of their emotional disharmony, such as long-term separation, pregnant wife, busy work, physical defects, or sexual mismatch, they seek other ways and means of satisfaction.

4 greed psychology

Some people's ambiguity is completely emotional deception, in order to cheat money or gain sympathy. Of course, some women, such as young female college students or girls who have just entered the workplace, will be ambiguous with mature men and seek their own interests in a targeted manner.

5 hedonic psychology

Some people think that people should try different things when they are alive, and eat, drink and be merry in time, including emotional, physical and spiritual aspects.

6 Mutual benefit psychology

Mutual benefit means that we all have needs, emotional needs, attention needs, work assistance needs and so on. And we will go out and consider the needs, be ambiguous with each other and achieve our respective goals.

Third, ambiguous behavior performance

1 Men and women are often together, often have emotional communication and help in life.

Although men and women are not husband and wife, they are often angry. Both men and women are angry and ignore each other.

One side takes the initiative, the other side takes the heart.

Always want to know each other's information, always want to chat with each other, find opportunities to chat, exchange, and have an intersection.

4. Time interval of fuzzy period

Through the above analysis and brief description, we will find that it is also ambiguous, different stories will happen to different people, and the same time period is also inconsistent.

1 open

Some ambiguity can last until the afternoon, with no progress or breakthrough, and no retreat or escape. In the distance and relationship that each other thinks is right, they maintain a moderately rational ambiguity. Respect each other, don't disturb each other's lives, and meet each other's emotional needs.

Further become lovers.

Some of them are ambiguous. After slowly developing their feelings, if they are all single, they will develop into lovers. Then this ambiguous period depends on the degree and time of your early running-in.

3 further become lovers

If both parties have families, or one party has a family, and the ambiguous relationship wants to go further, it will become a lover relationship or a "third party" in the later stage. After becoming a third party, we should also look at each other's relationship. If the family is unshakable, just curious, early adopters, exciting, or lonely, then the time will be short and it will collapse. If it is deep emotional support and demand, it will go through the stage of love and killing each other, but the final result is still a stranger.

To say the least, it is to be familiar with people.

Some people say that it is often irrelevant to take a step back and take an emotional step back. Some ambiguities go through a fever period and then fade away. Later, they will cool down and become friends or classmates.

5 rumors about three months and four months

There is no definite time interval in the ambiguous period. People are emotional animals, and the emotional components are very complicated. Different people, different situations, different environments, different life experiences and different emotional experiences will affect feelings. But most of the ambiguity ended in three or four months, and they were basically curious, or lonely and empty, coming quickly and retreating quickly. Nowadays, with the development of society, there are many ambiguous relationships and many influencing factors, and even some ambiguous relationships have a good emotional foundation and a lot of room for mutual benefit, which leads to high stability of ambiguity.