How long will you get married and go back to your parents' house?

On the third day after marriage, the bride and groom go home to visit relatives with gifts, which is called three-day return. So you can usually go back to your mother's house on the third day after marriage. This custom has been passed down to this day.

First, you can go back to your mother's house a few days after you get married.

Couples who have just entered marriage have a question. They don't know how many days it will be before they can go back to their parents' home after marriage. Bian Xiao's answer is the third day. Because there is a marriage custom in China, that is, going back to the bride's family, and the date stipulated in most areas is the third day after marriage, at this time, the woman and the man can go back to the bride's family.

Second, pay attention to going back to your mother's house three days after marriage.

1, prepare gifts in advance

Cigarette, wine, milk, fruit, biscuit gift box, noodles, sugar, etc. These are local customs in Hubei, and newcomers must prepare these gifts for their parents-in-law in advance. Also pay attention to the quantity, which must be an even number, which means yes-man. At the same time, the gift package should be red, which means that the marriage life is thriving. China people pay more attention to etiquette and etiquette, so these basic etiquette should be done.

2. From head to toe.

A new look from head to toe means that both parties need to wear new clothes and shoes. During the wedding preparation, the bride and groom will buy some clothes and shoes and put them on when they return to their parents' home three days later. On the one hand, it is respect for the relatives and parents of the woman; On the other hand, it shows that this is a new beginning, ending single life and running a happy little family.

3. Leave around 9 a.m.

Usually, we pack our bags and leave for our parents' home around 9: 00 in the morning, but some brides are far from home and have a long journey, so we can prepare in advance so as not to delay the auspicious time. Elders often say that it is unlucky to give gifts to relatives in the morning and afternoon, so it is suggested that the couple must go to the woman's house before noon.

Don't rush home after the party.

When the newlyweds came home, their relatives warmly treated them, and the new son-in-law sat on the table and drank together to celebrate. It's called a return banquet. After the banquet, the groom should not rush home. He should chat and communicate with the woman's parents, draw closer to each other and let the other person know more about himself. At the same time, invite the other parents to visit their home when they are free, and finally thank them for coming home.

In fact, it is not a custom in some places to go back to your mother's house on the third day after marriage. In some areas, it even takes her a month to meet her parents and relatives, but in most places it is time.