Would you marry someone who has no money to buy you a house or a car?

Marriage

If I could do it all over again, I would definitely say to that man: Get out of here as far as you can!

1.

The first time I met Sheng Jie was at the college’s orientation party. He was the freshman representative. He was wearing a handsome suit and his face showed the look of a high school student. Although he is young and immature, he talks about his great ambitions and ambitions, as if he has to shoulder the great responsibility of building socialism.

The second time I met Sheng Jie was in the school library. I squatted for a long time and finally caught the man who moved my books on the desk every day. When I was picking up his collar and preparing to beat him, He looked at me with innocent eyes, and my heart softened inexplicably.

Later on, he often used various reasons to play with me. As we went back and forth, we gradually became friends. Rumors started circulating in the grade department that we were together. The strange thing is that I am not unhappy at all, and even a little happy. I often secretly wonder if he likes me and what he likes about me.

When I was a junior in college, one night, Shengjie took me to the playground and circled the track around and around, until I was out of breath. At this time, I was a little anxious and was about to leave. He grabbed me, put his mouth next to my ear, and whispered, Cheng Jingjing, please be my girlfriend.

When I heard this sentence, I was very excited and happy. It seemed that the little thought I had secretly poked came true, and I was immersed in the happiness of my own fantasy. It was so sweet that I couldn't extricate myself.

Later, when I thought of this paragraph, I couldn’t help but secretly despise myself:

He didn’t even chase me, so you just followed him. No wonder it didn’t end well.

2.

After about 3 months of being sweet, Sheng Jie started to treat me as if he was away from me, euphemistically saying: distance brings beauty.

Once, when I was on my menstrual period, I took leave and went to the cafeteria early for dinner. I happened to see him and a girl entering from another door, dancing and chatting happily. I took a few steps back, hid in the doorway, and dialed his number. He took out his cell phone, paused, then put it back into his pocket and continued talking to the girl.

I returned to the dormitory without eating, lay down on the bed and continued to sleep, but I couldn't fall asleep for a long time. When he was about to fall asleep, Sheng Jie called and said that he was in the library, his phone was on silent, and he had just come back.

That night, I completely suffered from insomnia. It was the first time in my life that I had insomnia.

I was upset and full of anger, so I started playing with the drift bottle. I said in the drift bottle, how to tie up your boyfriend? A stranger sent me a message: False pregnancy, please keep it for safekeeping.

That Christmas was also my birthday, so I asked Sheng Jie to come out and play. After eating, we went to the riverside and while walking, it suddenly started raining. Our clothes were soaked by the drizzle. I pretended to be cold and said in a trembling voice: Let's find a place to take shelter from the rain. . So, we took a taxi to the hotel, took a hot shower, dried our clothes, and then, naturally, gave him our first time.

To be on the safe side, I put on a condom while he was taking a shower. Who knew that Sheng Jie was not willing to take him with him at all? At that time, I was still thinking that God would help me, but now that I think about it, he is really a scumbag.

Three months later, I had a baby. When I got the test form from the hospital, Sheng Jie’s face changed several times and he looked at the paper over and over again. In the end, I decided to abort the child. Although I secretly understood the dangers of abortion, I still had no hesitation. At that time, my IQ really dropped to zero.

After coming out of the operating room, he arranged for me to stay in a budget hotel and took good care of me. I'm still secretly glad that I made the right move.

3.

When Sheng Jie was in his third year of college, I had already done an internship, found a good employer, and rented a house near the company with my colleagues. On weekends, he often comes and stays overnight before leaving. As time went by, I felt like I was his free sex partner, and he didn’t have to invest any emotion or property.

After graduation, he was looking for a job and I became pregnant again. He was unwilling to wear a condom every time, so I secretly took medicine to prevent pregnancy, but this time, I forgot.

I hesitated for a long time and told him the news on a stormy night. He was wiping his hair, paused for a moment, and said: Why are you so careless? At that moment, my heart went cold and I couldn't sleep all night.

I went to the hospital myself. After the operation, I took a look at the child in the tray. I saw that the child was not yet formed, and was a very small lump. When I came out of the operating room, I heard the nurses discussing the newly opened clothing store and the doctor planning where to go for the weekend. At that moment, I couldn't help myself with sadness, as if I was the only one in the whole world who was suffering silently.

When he returned to the rental house, he seemed to have woken up. He said he was sorry to me, that he had made me tired and suffered. ...

Maybe it was because I really loved him and couldn't let him go. Maybe it was because seeing him kneeling on the ground and begging so pitifully inspired my sympathy that I forgave him.

4.

Two years later, he proposed to me. When he proposed, he knelt on the ground very unsteadily, holding the ring in his right hand and wiping sweat from time to time with his left hand. I took the ring and put it on my ring finger. I looked at the man in front of me, the man who accompanied me through college, accompanied me when I first entered society, and accompanied me to live in this strange city. So, promise him Bar.

We didn’t have a wedding. When we received the certificate, Shengjie said that when we have money in the future, we will have a glorious feast together with the birth of the child.

After receiving the certificate, Sheng Jie started his own business. At first he had no funds, so he used his home as a mortgage. I tried to persuade him several times, but he refused to listen. Later, after he heard me talk too much, he said something to me:

Women have long hair and short knowledge, so just leave men’s affairs alone.

Two months later, he asked me to resign and work in his company. He needed someone like me. In order to help him, I resigned from my job. I was so busy with all the big and small things in the company every day that I felt dizzy.

However, just when we were trying to make the company a success, I became pregnant again. However, I am still very happy that my long-awaited dream has finally come true. I held the thin piece of paper over and over again, for fear of reading a wrong word.

I told Sheng Jie the news and asked him to organize a replacement wedding banquet for us. His expression was complicated, and immediately became heavy after a little surprise. After about a few minutes, Sheng Jie said that it was more difficult now, so let’s just do it casually, just as a formality.

Our wedding was very simple. It was held in a small restaurant, with various marquees hanging on the middle stage. They were as tacky as the village girls wearing floral cotton-padded jackets at a township enterprise meeting.

The wedding dress was rented, and it didn’t fit well. The waist was a lot fatter, and the back was sewn up with needlework. It looked decent. Only I knew how embarrassing it was behind this glamour.

5.

After the wedding, I began to decorate the children's room and put all my feelings in this ten square meters. I imagined that when the child was born, I heard her first cry. I imagined that she could not sleep at night, and I gently rocked the cradle.

Sheng Jie is very busy, busy talking about business, busy on business trips, and busy sleeping in the office.

As time went by, my belly got bigger and bigger, so I quit my job and raised my baby at home. Sheng Jie hired an assistant, who was young, pretty, and very capable.

In order to take care of me, my mother-in-law moved in with her chickens and a suitcase of luggage.

However, she always took care of me according to her own ideas. She bought whatever she wanted to eat. At first, I reluctantly accepted it because I couldn't live up to the old man's kindness. After a month, I couldn't stand it anymore, so I secretly threw away the tonics she cooked for me.

When my mother-in-law found out, she called Sheng Jie. Sheng Jie hurried back, pointed at my nose and said I didn’t know what to do, and then comforted her mother-in-law and sent her home. Before leaving, I vaguely heard him saying don't get so angry over this kind of daughter-in-law.

I sat on the ground and cried loudly, and then fell asleep with choked sobs. When I woke up with a stomachache, my whole leg was covered in blood. I called Sheng Jie, who turned off the phone and called an ambulance himself. When we got to the hospital, the baby was not saved.

The doctor said I might never have another child.

At that moment, my heart felt like death.

Sheng Jie cried and said sorry in front of my bed. I didn’t want to see him at all, let alone forgive him. It was this man who deprived me of the right to become a mother three times.

I became sensitive, silent, and moody. During that time, we often quarreled, and each time it ended with the three children gone away.

Later, Sheng Jie began not to eat at home again and often did not come home.

On December 7, my birthday, the weather was very cold. He sent me a cake and a piece of paper. When I saw the cake, I was very happy. When I saw the paper, I cried. It was a divorce agreement.

He put the divorce agreement on the table, then turned and left. I opened the window and suddenly saw a woman who looked very much like Sheng Jie's assistant. Her belly was slightly swollen. She slowly walked out of the passenger seat and thoughtfully helped him take off his scarf. Then, Sheng Jie put his arms around the woman's waist, lowered his head, and kissed her cheeks and lips.

I secretly asked about everything about that woman, and it turned out that she had already been involved in my family. I hate my hindsight, but I am powerless. He collapsed on the seat, feeling so decadent that he seemed to have aged ten years in an instant.

Looking back over the past few years, I have never been so desperate, and I have never hated him so much!