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Canadian men's views on marriage

In fact, Canadians are very cautious about getting married. They may make many friends of the opposite sex in their life, but they will never get married easily. They often live together for many years and even have children, because once divorced, it is very troublesome to find a lawyer to go to court, and at least half of the property will be included. Most people don't think about getting married until they are in their thirties and forties. Many people never get married.

Making friends also means spending our own money. For example, a French friend of mine is unmarried at the age of 5/kloc-0. Six brothers and sisters, only one sister was married once and divorced after giving birth to two children. Later, he talked about a boyfriend. When they lived together, they bought a house with a loan, but something happened halfway and they broke up again. However, it will take them many years to pay off their home loans. The other five brothers and sisters only live together and don't get married. My younger brother has two children and is still unmarried. They don't take their cohabiting friends with them when they divide the inheritance, because the money belongs only to them. Moreover, they don't buy houses, they just rent houses. If there is any change in the middle, they will break up amicably without going to court to ask a lawyer for help. Very convenient. Everyone doesn't feel that they are suffering, because it is consensual. Their ideas and practices are very representative in Canada. Most of the Canadian friends we know live together, and even if they get married, they eventually get divorced. Canadians don't pay attention to growing old together, and they don't want to make do together when they have no feelings. Marriage is very common. Canadians used to get married for seven years, but now it has dropped to five years. They pay attention to the quality of life. They feel that life is too short to live better than every day.

Canadian women are generally independent in thought and economy, and men don't like that women are totally dependent on him. Of course, some people like a good wife and mother, and they can arrange their homes well. In a word, I don't want to live too tired. Canadians have the right to make their own decisions when they reach the age of 18. Unmarried cohabitation is very common, and schools only repeatedly emphasize the need to pay attention to contraception in order to complete their studies. But Christianity does not advocate unmarried cohabitation, and young people don't want to be bound, so not many people go to church. The government provides support to cohabitants: cohabitants and married couples are included in the same tax reduction plan. Whether cohabiting or getting married, the mother receives government subsidies every month from the beginning of pregnancy until the child reaches the age of 18 (the milk fund will be cancelled if she can afford it). Canadians generally don't keep mistresses (but rich people are still reluctant to divorce after they have a new love, for fear of getting half of their property). If they don't like it, they will say goodbye. If they want to love, they will really love and never hide it. Whether in the subway or other public places, lovers can be seen everywhere in kisses and hugs. They think it is natural to love each other.

How do Canadians make friends: quite a few people make friends online. Everyone hung up their basic information, and some even hung up photos. If someone is interested in someone, they will put a sign next to it, and then chat online and arrange a meeting time. By making friends online, we can also see that people in different countries have different ways to make friends. The enthusiasm of South Americans is beyond words, and they will hold you when they meet for the first time. French romance will send you a rose and endless praise at the first meeting; People in the Middle East are very demanding; Indians like singleness; Older westerners pay more attention to it, while China people like to show it to their families when they meet for the first time, and then decide whether to talk about it or not? But it will scare them. They like to meet in the coffee shop for no more than half an hour. They can make an appointment if they want, but young people don't care. They wanted to talk for hours when they first met. Some people make friends more directly. When they meet outside, they will take the initiative to say a few words to each other and then hand you a phone number. Call him if you are interested in him, or forget it. Others invite each other to the movies when they meet for the first time, but they won't spare you at all. Of course, it has also been introduced.

Canada encourages childbearing, with a land area of nearly 6.5438+million square kilometers and a population of only 32 million, with an average of 654.38+0.5 children per family. 42% of families have no children, and there are three or four families who like children. There are fewer and fewer white children, more and more black children and more black people have low incomes. If you have more children, you can pay less taxes. The more government subsidies, the better your life. Most people in China choose two children for each couple, thinking that in a foreign country, one child is too lonely and has no energy.

China has the tradition and national conditions of China. For example, the separation of children is supported by the government in Canada and covers all sick people. But as a developing country, it is impossible for us to do this. How can a child's parents not do their duty? Besides, the mother of the child does not need the support of her spouse in Canada, but in China, what can the husband do if the woman has no job and has to take care of the child? Therefore, we should not blindly follow the example of the West. Moreover, quite a few westerners admire China's traditional culture and yearn for a China as a spouse!