Just fell in love 1 month. My girlfriend and I are both in pain. They are all first love. What shall we do? High score award! !

First of all, you have just entered the journey of love, and you definitely lack direction when dealing with such delicate feelings. You might as well follow your feelings. Don't be too close at ordinary times and don't deliberately do anything. Have more common exchanges and do the same things together to enrich your experience. Once we have experienced more things together, we can't live without each other. Don't think about unnecessary and useless things, do more substantive things.

Second, as long as you are lovers, there will always be some small differences here and there, unless your personalities are complementary. At this time, as a man, as long as it is not a major disagreement in principle, you should make more concessions and consider more for her. We should communicate these ways of getting along well when we are usually very happy, so as to avoid the naivety of both sides.

Third, if you really like each other and love each other, please don't use the word pain, which shows that you don't value this relationship. Nothing makes people feel better than first love. Don't let both sides feel anxious because of some trivial things that have nothing to do with the overall situation. We should encourage and support each other. Do things well together in the latest stage, step by step, and many things will be easy in the future. Don't think about getting married at that time, think about whether you will develop in a city at that time, and so on. Those are still far away. Grasp the present and work together.

Fourthly, this is because I don't understand why you describe yourself in your first love with pain, which is a bad thought. That is to say, if we come together on a whim because of one or both reasons, it is impossible to have the kind of love that developed later, and we don't know how to go on, so we should carefully consider the following aspects: Is it possible for your's personality to get along for a long time? Will there be a big gap between your ambition and your pursuit of life? Can most of your daily ways of doing things be tolerated and accepted by each other? After these days of love, when you are chasing her, is her image still so fascinating to you? Or in other words, will you bother her now and have no feelings for her? If the answers to the above questions all point to the negative side, it means that your expectations of each other are a little different from the reality, so make a decision quickly, otherwise the damage to both sides will be further increased. But if it is because of some external factors, such as economy, family, or workplace differences, you should use your love power to overcome them one by one. Anxiety is useless.

I wonder if the above points have hit the nail on the head. I have had some incredible love experiences. These are personal experiences. I hope I can help you. Anyway, have fun!