Those who abandon the new and return to the old will eventually die.

Thank you Wukong for inviting me to answer. Love the new and hate the old can be said to be a gender word. Broadly speaking, a person who pursues a career should love the new and hate the old, abandon the old, accept the new, break an old world and build a new one. In personal life, liking the new and hating the old is another matter.

Here, from the perspective of my personal life, I tell a story of liking the new and hating the old to share with my friends.

Women are afraid of glamour, men are afraid of money.

Let's take a look at Maslow, an American psychologist, who wrote The Hierarchy of Human Needs. There are two different needs in the human value system. One is the instinct or impulse that gradually weakens along the rising direction of biological pedigree, which is called low-level demand and physiological demand. One kind is the potential or need that appears gradually with the evolution of organisms, which is called advanced need. This is human desire. Once it expands, it is a bottomless pit.

People at the bottom will change their minds when they are poor, and they will try their best to realize and satisfy their personal desires and even take risks.

Zhang March was born in the 1960s. He is the third of seven sisters in his family. Dropped out of junior high school and worked in the collective production team without graduation. He earned less than six points a day, so he fished for three days and caught three nets for two days. Seeing that he is still a child in the team, I don't care. He has an old bike at home. After the repair, he made his own small wooden box, began to wholesale popsicles in the town's freezer factory, and rode his bike to the nearby countryside to buy popsicles. A popsicle can't earn a penny, but it can sell 100 popsicles a day. Except for the melted popsicles, you can generally earn 35 yuan in one day. In the late 1970s, the salary for a whole Labor Day was 8 cents. He tasted the sweetness, bought freezers every day and made money. He gives the production team a few cents a day to buy work points (he can get an average ration at the end of the year). After working for several years, Zhang became rich in March, opened an ice cream factory himself and slowly began to make money. He found an object named Shu Hua. They fell in love at first sight, got married and had a daughter. His ice cream factory employs a little girl named Yu Mei, and they work together every day. Zhang March has money on her. She gives some money to Yu Mei from time to time. The two have been flirting for a long time and often carry the ghost of her daughter-in-law Shuhua together. Yu Meihua is pregnant, and her belly is getting bigger every day.

Zhang March said to his daughter-in-law, Shuhua, "You can't have a son for me either. We are divorced and half of our family property. " My daughter-in-law, Shuhua, knew for a long time that he was heartless all day, so she said, "Go, this ice cream factory belongs to me, and you will bear the daughter's support 200 yuan every month." Zhang divorced in March, married Yu Mei and became a new family.

Zhang usually wholesales ice cream in March and secretly saves some private money. He discussed with Yu Mei and asked Yu Mei to take out some money to invest in the brick factory in the village. In those years, it was a good time to catch up with the reform and opening up, and the town was engaged in construction. He is in short supply of red bricks. Brick factory earned several hundred thousand yuan, and Yu Mei gave birth to a girl. Yu Mei of the brick factory is in charge of finance, and all the large sums of money are in the account. Zhang, who usually does retail, took a part and saved it in March.

Men are afraid of money. Rich Zhang March goes to the restaurant to eat and drink every day. Yu Mei said that making money is not soluble in saving money. Zhang Sanyue said: "When doing business, you must contact customers and ask them to deepen their feelings every once in a while." Yu Mei didn't say a word. Every time Zhang went to a restaurant to eat and drink in March, he stayed in a small hotel at night and didn't go home. Yu Mei followed him several times and found him fooling around with a lady in the hotel. If a woman is determined to do something, she hates it more than a man. If Yu Mei wants you to fool around in the hotel secretly, I will give you a green hat.

Zhang March and Yu Mei are nominally husband and wife, no matter who they are. Yu Mei got mixed up with the housekeeper of the special performance. Soon, Yu Mei became pregnant and gave birth to a boy. Zhang March was very happy and obeyed Yu Mei. Yu Mei said, "I have to pay the retail red brick every day." This year, the red brick business was very good, with 400,000 retail accounts and many accounts in the early 1980s.

The waiter hooked up at the hotel in March was pregnant, which puzzled Zhang March. Yu Mei offered to elope with the housekeeper for all the money saved by the brick factory. Zhang March was blindsided, and people went to the money. What can we do? He reported the case and will take it to court in Yumei. The court sentenced the two to divorce, with half of the family property. Yu Mei said that her son belongs to Zhang March, and this half of the money belongs to his son. Zhang had to agree in March. Zhang found the hotel waiter in March and said that he would get married and start a family. The waiter said, if you give me100000, you will get married. If I don't do this, I will abort the baby. He couldn't afford100000, and the waiter left him.

He turned around and found that Yu Mei had remarried. He begged Yu Mei for mercy and said, "Marry again for your son's sake." Yu Mei said, "Where is your son? You are shameless, get out! " The housekeeper of the brick factory grabbed Zhang Sanyue by the collar and said, "Yu Mei is my wife and my son is mine. Please pester me again and spare your life! " Kick him out of the house.

Zhang March was penniless, the brick factory owed coal money to the coal boss100000, and the coal boss sent thugs to collect debts. Zhang March was beaten black and blue, dressed in a tattered coat, wandering in the streets of the town for three or nine days, and it was snowing all over the sky. Zhang March put his hands in his sleeves and came to the door of the hotel he once knew with thick snowflakes. Trembling with cold, he stood outside the hotel and poked around. Why did you suddenly become Hong Qigong? I haven't seen you grow taller for days. For the sake of taking care of my business and sending me money, I'll give you an attractive bottle of warmth. "Zhang March condescended to take a bottle of wine, and the manager said," Get out! "

Zhang March came to the bridge with a bottle of tempting fate, drank it in one breath, and his eyes were full of tears of happiness, regret or sadness. He fell on the snow. ...