Customs on the wedding day in Shenyang

1. On the wedding day, the groom will set out with the boys and girls to marry the bride. When the car got married, the number of people was odd, and when it came back, it was even.

2、? When the groom arrives at the bride's house, he will knock on the door, then bow to the bride's parents and put on a corsage.

3. Then knock on the bride's door, marry the bride, confess to the bride and offer flowers. After that, the two wore corsages to each other.

4. Newcomers should eat happy noodles at the bride's house, and then take photos with relatives and friends of the bride's house.

Newcomers return to their new houses and set off firecrackers after getting off the bus.

6. The bride bows to the man's parents and wears a corsage.

7. After entering the new house, the bride and groom should drink brown sugar water, which means that life after marriage is sweet and the bride should be happy. However, pregnant people are not allowed to enter the wedding room.

8. After that, we will go to the hotel. Newcomers should present flowers to relatives and friends. The bride's family should leave the hotel before 12. When leaving, the groom's parents will send four bride price gifts.

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Ancient women were often "born in a boudoir, and no one knows whether they are beautiful or not." After the blind date, the man often asks to have a look. This activity is called "meeting relatives", and the man goes to the woman's house for the first time under the matchmaker's non-staple food. It was dubbed "blind date".

The date of the blind date is set by the matchmaker in advance and notified to both men and women, so both sides should be prepared. The man should prepare a little gift according to the hobby of the woman's parents; Women should clean the courtyard and get ready for guests. As parties, both men and women should try to dress elegantly and resplendent, so as to leave a good "first impression" on each other.

Seeing relatives is the key to the success of marriage, especially the man, so be careful. Although gifts are nothing more than alcohol, tobacco and snacks, regardless of the quantity and value, you must give them what you like and not violate the taboos of the other parents; Dressing should be generous and fashionable; Be modest and polite in your words and deeds.

In ancient times, when men visited relatives, they could only rely on the matchmaker to create opportunities to secretly see girls. Modern times are different. Men and women can talk directly. Both sides have the opportunity to have a preliminary understanding of each other. China is a "state of propriety and righteousness", and it pays attention to implication. The results of visiting relatives are often not directly expressed, but expressed through various hints.

In many places, after the man enters the door, the woman's parents first pour the young man a cup of hot tea. Seeing that the girl was amused, the young man drank this cup of tea in one gulp. Then the girl's parents discuss with the girl. If they agree to get married, they will leave the man for dinner with the matchmaker. If they don't agree, they will let the man leave and go home. Some parents even asked the matchmaker to take away the gifts brought by the man.

In some areas, besides visiting relatives, there is also the custom of "observing others". In fact, "visiting others" is also to visit relatives. The man was led by the matchmaker to the woman's home where he had seen the girl, and the woman's parents temporarily refused to express their views on the marriage, and then the matchmaker took him back to the man's home. Qiyang area is called "Kandang".

Look at that time, the man's parents should offer a cup of fragrant tea first, and then talk to the woman's parents. The wife's parents visited the man's house and talked with the man's parents. If they agree to the marriage, they will drink all the fragrant tea. The man's parents immediately regarded him as "in-laws" and warmly entertained the guests. Otherwise, the woman's parents should get up and leave, and the man should not stay.

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