Is the engagement at the man's house or the woman's house? Is the engagement better for the man or the woman?

1. Engagement is usually held at the woman's home. When engaged, the man needs to propose to the woman with a dowry. The woman's family prepares a banquet for the man's guests, and the banquet also needs to be accompanied by people close to the woman's family. After the engagement party is completed, both parties can formally get married.

2. It is a tradition handed down for many years to engage in a woman's house, but there is no stipulation that it must be held at the woman's house at present. It is the custom in some areas that the engagement party should be held at the man's home. It is best to decide whether to prepare the engagement party at the man's house or the woman's house according to local customs.

In order to show a neutral attitude, some young people usually prepare an engagement party in the hotel, which is more convenient and does not have to follow the rules. In order to witness the formation of marriage, both parents need to attend the engagement party and discuss the specific wedding date.