Accommodation students are often bullied by their roommates at school. How should they help children defend their rights?

1. I believe that justice is on your side. Don't feel fear, inferiority or depression because of violence. It's not your fault to be subjected to violence, it's the other person's fault. The shameful person is the one who bullied you, not you.

Look around and tell you seriously who often bullies you, why and under what circumstances. Make full preparations or talk to him with the help of parents. You can't tolerate his bullying, and you don't have to fight, fight or threaten. You just have to take him (her) seriously. As classmates, you should respect each other.

3. Ask your parents for help. People who have suffered violence, especially those who often suffer violence, must let their parents know your situation and humiliation. Make your bullying public. You know, all violence or harassment is further developed in a secret environment. If you don't say it, you will always be bullied. Speaking out is to protect yourself and others. As guardians, parents have the responsibility to help you and discuss ways to solve this problem with you.

4. Ask friends for help. Tell your friends about your situation and feelings and get their understanding. When you are likely to suffer new violence, please stay with your friends as much as possible or ask your parents to escort you.

I want to solve this problem in class. For example, with the help of teachers, we can openly discuss this problem through theme classes, tell our experiences and express our opinions with all the bullied students, thus forming a public opinion condemning violence in the class.

6. When you are belittled, insulted or booed, please try not to show your distress or anger. People who bully you especially want to see you angry. You try to ignore them. Don't swear. Usually, insults with great differences in strength can be the entertainment of the other party. Think about your future goals, friends, loving parents, and all the beautiful and important things in your life, and you can minimize the impact of this harassment. But later, you have to solve it.

7. If there are counselors in your school, please tell them your fears and worries and teach them how to deal with violence.

8. Try to avoid being alone in a place where violence may occur.

9. Walk confidently when you are afraid.

If you tell your parents that you are being bullied, if your parents ignore you, please read the following "Advice to Parents".

1. Please pay attention to everything the child says to you. From his words, we can capture information that seriously affects his physical and mental health.

2. Encourage children to talk about the situation and feelings of violence against themselves or their friends. Whether it is a friend or yourself, being subjected to violence will affect the physical and mental health of children.

Children should actively understand their life in school and help them solve problems in time. Don't just focus on children's grades. Please remember this true story. 10-year-old children are always bullied by senior children, threatening not to let their parents know. He has been afraid to say, and older children give money if they want it, and steal money from their parents if they have no money. Too much pressure will eventually affect academic performance, and parents will also find problems. 4. When a child asks you for help, he or she may have the courage to speak out or be seriously threatened. Please remember to hug and comfort the child in time and listen to the child carefully. Let children feel that home is a safe place, which is helpful to their physical and mental recovery.

Violence between children is not a trivial matter for children. Not a normal phenomenon. Don't think it's interesting for girls to kiss boys. As long as you don't want to force it, it is a violation of the child's personal rights. Don't think that this is an inevitable process of children's growth. It will seriously affect children's physical and mental health and character cultivation. Attention should be paid to helping children who are subjected to violence.

6. Don't accuse your child of being a "nest" or a "debt". In other words, don't blame the victim. Children who are subjected to violence need comfort and encouragement, not blame. Blame will cause "secondary harm".

7. In most cases, if you don't need self-defense or "justifiable defense" when you are subjected to violence, don't teach your child to retaliate. Solving problems with revenge is the mode of film and television. In real life, revenge usually leads to more violence.

8. Teach children to maintain their dignity and self-protection. For example, don't stay where a person may be attacked, and don't walk along the wall in an alley. Tell children not to be afraid of hitting people, and people can't lose their dignity because of weakness. Tell your children that you will always protect them, pick them up when necessary, or provide them with instant messaging.

9. Don't think that children's affairs should be handled by yourself. Violence is a problem that seriously affects children's physical and mental health. Violence often happens to children with great strength. For example, senior children bully junior children, and children are almost incapable of solving this problem by themselves. Parents have to "interfere". Parents should take it as a natural responsibility to protect their children from violence.

10. After the child is subjected to violence, parents should carefully understand the situation, including who often bullies the child, what harassment and how to bully him. Record the child's words, and then you can take the child or chat with the child who bullies the child to find out the situation and confirm it. Don't bully your children's children with the threat of the enemy. This is atrocity. It is necessary to seriously say that everything that children suffer is harmful to them. As a parent, you can't tolerate any form of violence against your children. This problem must be solved. Students should respect each other. You will be happy to see them respect each other and help each other.

1 1. If necessary, you can negotiate with the parents of the bullied person to solve the problem. Tell the other parents the process and result calmly but seriously, explain your attitude, and get the understanding and support of the other parents.

12. If children are subjected to violence at school, the school is also responsible. Parents can also negotiate with teachers to solve problems. If the teacher doesn't understand or pay much attention to it, he can first collect similar experiences of other children, write a report explaining the seriousness and universality of the problem, and then formally submit it to the school or the responsible teacher. (Article 5 of the Law of People's Republic of China (PRC) on the Protection of Minors stipulates:) The state protects the person, property and other lawful rights and interests of minors from infringement.