How to understand the ending of the first kiss?

Only represents personal thoughts, not all women.

"The First Kiss" was the first film made by Sophie Marceau 14 years old, which made her famous overnight and her star path was bright.

The title of the film is First Kiss, and the other Chinese translation is First Contact. Many film and television reviews are analyzed from the beginning and the first time. I believe that from the film title, this is a story about a girl's first love and a story about the seeds of love.

But this is only a domestic translation.

Formerly known as "La Boum", it means dance or party in French. The English translation is Party or Ready to Love.

Judging from the title of the film, this is just a story about a party, or a story about preparing for love, not a story about falling in love. Seeing the whole film, this idea is more determined.

The ending is just a result, which leads to the whole process, that is, Wei He has never been in love.

In the film, the bright surface is interspersed with two emotional lines, one is the close contact between Wei and Wei, and the other is the entanglement between Wei's parents in marriage and love. These two lines z can be compared and distinguished.

The relationship between Ma Fei and Wei is more like a secret love. Just like a spark is polished, the moment of lighting can make the night lose its mystery, on the contrary, it will soon go out.

At the party where they first met, Wei didn't pay much attention to Murphy at first. She became interested in Mafei because Mafei put headphones on her head and touched her heart.

But is this love?

No, Ma Fei just took some interest in Wei and sent a song by himself. I admit that this is a very useful skill to pick up girls, but it has nothing to do with love.

Children in youth have unlimited energy and time to toss. Ma Fei and Wei are always at arm's length. For example, Wei expected Ma Fei to talk to her, and Ma Fei only said hello. For example, they go to the movies together and kiss at the cinema, but Ma flies out to play with other girls.

Do you feel anything? There must be.

Care? I have to care.

Otherwise Wei wouldn't cry all over his face in the middle of the night. If she had torn up the photos and changed the curtains, Ma Fei would not have had a conflict with Wei's father.

But caring is really not love.

The difference between unrequited love and true love, I personally think, the former loves the imaginary other person, while the latter loves the other person himself. Secondly, the former considers itself first, while the latter considers each other first.

For the first point, in Wei's imagination, she ran to the seaside to look for it, but she should be deeply moved by this and love her more. Then they will wander in the arms of love in a quiet place in the middle of the night, and even continue to develop until they have the ocean of love.

But the reality is that when Murphy heard that Wei Ran was going to the beach "alone" on the phone, his expression was really not surprised, but shocked.

So the reality is naturally different from Wei's imagination.

Murphy was not deeply moved, but could not accompany her, and even felt wronged (after all, I didn't call you here).

At this time, this crushing force has begun to decline.

In contrast, what is the real appearance of the other party? When Wei's mother left the airport and passed by the restaurant, I saw Wei's father eating noodles thoughtfully, and the tenderness in his eyes flashed on my knee. What she loves is not his ferocity, achievements and "sexiness", but his clumsiness when he is afraid of thunder in the middle of the night and is injured. This is the love I understand.

For the second point, Wei Ran went to see Ma Fei, without considering whether Ma Fei would explain to his family, and turned a deaf ear to the fact that Ma Fei was going to work at six o'clock the next morning.

Is it as important to her that you go to work as it is to me? It's only six tomorrow morning, and it's only three in the morning. You said you wouldn't accompany me, but I came to see you specially.

I don't want to explain this. ...

So the next day, when Ma Fei saw Wei in the hotel room wearing a uniform and carrying a plate, the disappointment in her eyes was hard to look straight at.

In contrast, what is consideration for each other. Wei's father can't celebrate Wei's mother's father's birthday. Wei's mother didn't question whether his work is more important or my father's work is more important. After putting her feet on Wei's feet, she specially modified the bed so that Wei's father could lie in bed and have breakfast.

Isn't it troublesome to modify it? Aren't you tired of making breakfast and taking it to bed? But all this is not for yourself, but for each other. As long as the other person's life can be more convenient, it's worth it for yourself. The tenderness here also makes Father Wei say "I love you" involuntarily, and I believe he is sincere.

Back to Wei He, this secret love between them began with a party and ended with a party.

In some small twists and turns, for example, they went to the movies, went out with other girls and sent Wei a whistle. However, none of these stories made me feel that this unrequited love showed any signs of weakening, even if people were worried when crying, it didn't weaken at all.

Because Wei had not got Ma Fei at that time.

By "getting" here, I don't mean physically, but mentally, a feeling that "he is under my control". (Sorry, this metaphor is quite good for Table 2 ...)

From the beginning, Wei was in a passive state, and his heart was always wavering. Every day, she thinks, "Will he greet me?" "Will he go to the party with me?" "What will happen to me and him?".

At this time, the development of peacekeeping and Ma Fei depends on Ma Fei's attitude, not peacekeeping.

The real secret love began to weaken, starting with the beach incident. At this time, Wei began to realize that there was a gap between Ma Fei and his imagination.

And this ending ended when Ma Fei came to attend her birthday party. It shouldn't be too difficult to understand. She lied to Murphy about the beach incident. She didn't go alone, but Murphy went to her party anyway. This result not only makes her feel at ease, but also has a feeling of "so much".

To put it bluntly, her sense of accomplishment in Mafei has been reached, and there is no longer a question of who is active and who is passive between them. Now that it has developed to this point, it seems that there is no need to go further, because after all, two people are really different from each other's imagination.

It was at this time that a "brand-new blood" appeared, which looked excellent in all aspects. Why not?

After all, children in youth have unlimited energy and time to toss.