Notes on blind date of mature women who want to live in the city

Narration: Notes on Dating of Urban Mature Women

Spring: The Great Adventure of Matchmaking Agency

At first, it was just filling out forms. However, this is not a form, and it is almost the same to say "audit". "Height, weight, glasses, income, registered permanent residence, native place", there is no privacy, and there must be no privacy. Then the receptionist politely asked, "For women over 30, we have to ask, do you care if the other person is divorced and has children?"

"I'm not 30 yet." Although I say this, my tone is not firm.

"Our membership is valid for one year, and you will be 30 next year." Damn it! You can't even turn around when you talk.

"I still hope that the other party is unmarried." I answered categorically, and the receptionist gave me a look, then lowered her head and continued to look at the form.

"It is impossible to fill it here like this." She pointed to the column "Requirements for choosing a spouse". There, I simply wrote "Just close your eyes and feel good". "It is too vague to say that the guests who are looking for by feeling are actually the most demanding. If you like each other's wealth, just say money. If you like education, you will say that you have education. If the conditions are clear, we can help you find it. "

As a result, in the column of "mate selection requirements", I even made a clear stipulation on the cm of the other person's height, so that I paid the money and went home to wait for the call of love. Wish yourself good luck!

Summer: depressed relatives

The matchmaking agency called again and said that there was a young man in his thirties, over 1.7 meters tall, with a bachelor's degree from a key university. Now he is the manager of a big company, with a stable job and a bright future. He is honest and honest, and his facial features are good. Mother was so happy that she told me to catch this "big fat fish".

At 7: 30 in the evening, I arrived as promised. But I was narrow-minded and wandered around five minutes early, hoping to see him go to the appointment first. However, couples go in and out of the coffee shop in pairs. Didn't he say on the phone that he would arrive early? Strange.

I'll dial someone, and the bell will be around? A man jumped out and grinned at me excitedly. My legs went soft at once. Isn't this an old uncle who has met several times by the side? A shiny big head, three well-defined wrinkles on his forehead, and two teeth exposed by laughing are still gone, right?

"Hey, I have seen it for a long time, but I dare not admit it!" He's a little from ear to ear. "Me too." I thought to myself.

Cut the crap and go to the store for tea. I felt a little sad when I walked down the aisle, but thinking of the ardent expectations of my elders, I could only take a deep breath and comfort myself: it doesn't matter if I have no hair, I can put some hair tonic on my hair and eyebrows 10 1. Although there are deep wrinkles, you can't iron them out, but you can keep a child's hair in the future. It's easier without two teeth. There are so many dental clinics in Shanghai now that you can change the whole mouth. These two teeth are definitely small CASE.

I found a seat and sat down. With the light of the small spotlight that happened to hit him on the head, I carefully looked at the corner of his eye, and there were no fine lines. Maybe he is only in his thirties.

He was a little embarrassed and introduced himself with a straight face. A little wordy, but sincere. I avoided the glare, stared at his bald garlic nose and ears, and imagined what he would look like with a flower head. I can't help smiling.

Perhaps it is rare for a young girl to keep smiling for such a long time in the process of dating him, and he suddenly became excited. As soon as the waiter left, he couldn't wait to tell me the origin of his name, the love of his parents, the romantic story of his grandparents, and even the drinks sent by the waiter didn't pay attention to reappearance. When I speak too fast, I just have a lisp.

I took a sip of my drink and smiled, but listened with some confusion. He probably felt something, too, took out his cigarette and smoked violently between a few vague and quick sentences. Soon, the air was filled with white smoke, and I couldn't see his face clearly.

Through the white fog, I vaguely stared at the reflective "big light bulb", and his voice in the dark coffee shop became more and more unreal in the crowd with a slight buzz. I frowned and tried to lean forward and listen to my watch. He has some misunderstandings, and his trembling hand wants to reach out and grab me. Sit up straight at once, I don't want to hear you clearly.

He was a little depressed and smoked harder, as if he had bitten not only cigarette butts, but also me. Before he painfully finished smoking four cigarettes and was ready to light the fifth, I rushed out the door.

Autumn: A Fuzzy Substitute

Recently, many people say that my blind date seems to be much better. There is an endless stream of well-dressed so-called excellent men. There is always laughter in the afternoon tea of "blind date", and everything looks so beautiful in a pleasant atmosphere. However, seemingly providence, no more than three times, it must be the end of the breakup. I want to cry without tears. As we all know, men with better secular conditions are "tight goods". Those men with decent appearance, elegant humor, houses and cars are taking advantage of the good situation to deceive others too much. This is the last blow.

A gentleman, a small factory owner, has a glib tongue and talks with Kan Kan. We had a good chat, but there was no news. After n weeks, I suddenly rushed to the company to invite me to dinner. After n weeks, I disappeared. An acquaintance told me that he actually had a girlfriend and was too "busy". It is normal for bench players to sit on the bench.

Mr. B, a civil servant, is handsome and charming. The first time I saw you, I was honest: I only like young and beautiful girls born after 1980s, but there are no suitable girls recently. If you don't mind, you can talk for a while. Of course you won't take the initiative, refuse or be irresponsible.

Jun C, started his own company. Mature, steady and masculine. As soon as we meet, we must make it clear that we have wives in our hometown. Although divorced, she still helps me take care of my parents, and I will take care of her all my life. Looking for another city beauty is to take it out in business. I hope I can enjoy other people's happiness.

D Jun, a self-operated company, was proud of the spring breeze when he was young. When we first met, there were four or five girls lying outside the door peeping. I quickly put my cards on the table: I think your personality is very easy-going and generous, which is the best for me to be a wife. But there are all my confidantes outside the door, and I believe you can understand and accept it.

Many people advised me not to care too much about other people's past. But the problem is that I can't face their present, let alone imagine the future with them. Shouldn't people be honest with each other? While trying to step on several boats, has anyone considered the feelings of the trampled people?

If your gentle purpose is only to need me to fill the temporary emptiness in your life, then I'm sorry, I despise hypocritical people and refuse to be that kind of ambiguous substitute.