What's it like to see strangers or friends again?

The world is so big and the population is so large that we can meet a stranger instead of passing by in a hurry. This is destiny. Therefore, even if you can't make intimate friends, you should be polite and leave these valuable first impressions, with a decent smile and educated connotation.

Because, you never know, you may meet again next time. If we meet again, the first impression will give you too many points.

Once, I attended an informal exchange meeting of the industry. I went alone, and I didn't know anyone. I feel a little overwhelmed. Just as I was looking around, I accidentally met someone and said sorry to each other, but I found that the other person was a little familiar. Just ask the other party, it turns out that the other party used to work in a client company of my former advertising company. We went to their company because of this proposal. He was there at that time, but we didn't talk directly, just nodded and smiled, showing high professionalism and completing the proposal work.

Now the other party has started his own business, and I am no longer in that advertising company, but as a second-time meeting person, I always feel more cordial than anyone in this huge room. We had a pleasant chat and got to know each other's current business situation, and then he introduced his famous colleague to me. This exchange meeting, because this stranger who met for the second time but dealt with for the first time, gained a lot of unexpected gains.

In the TV series "Chinese Relationship", the heroine and the hero are also on the plane for the first time, and they have a very unpleasant first encounter as passengers; Then in a taxi, the heroine's car broke down, and the hero helped her out of human nature and found out that it was actually the man who had just quarreled; That's not all. When both of them arrived at their respective destinations, they found that the other party was the "important person" they were vying to see. ......

Of course, things in the story deliberately create so many conflicts for the plot, but they will also exist in reality, so be kind to everyone who meets strangers, and maybe you will meet him again at the corner.

I'm Yan Yan, my close mother. I integrate The Analects of Confucius and San Zi Jing into parenting practice and pay attention to the official account of WeChat: two mothers.