My wife is going to have an abortion and divorce.

Only three years old, there will be no generation gap. It's just a different lifestyle before marriage. Now that we are married, neither of us can adapt to each other.

I suggest you talk it over with her. From what you said, it seems that you have lost confidence, but it is difficult to give up the baby in her womb. As for her, she may not be able to keep the child now. In this case, let's talk openly, but don't talk about divorce. You can start by saying that we haven't sat down and talked heart to heart for a long time. Then, talk about your thoughts, such as wanting children, why you want children, see how she answers, listen to her thoughts, and then answer reasonably. Ask her where she went out to play again and tell her that you are actually worried about her. No matter what her reason is, you can say, married, married, not a child. Remember to be grumpy and speak calmly. Even if she is angry, you should calm down and let the conversation continue. After all, she is younger than you, so be generous. If she doesn't promise to keep the baby, everything you do is in vain. Just give up, and then tell her parents what happened since they got married. Under the double pressure of divorce and parents, she may change her mind. When a woman has children, her personality will change and she will become family-oriented. And if she directly promised to give birth to you, or think about it, your efforts were not in vain, and it didn't take much effort. However, as long as she agrees to have children, no matter whether the reason is the former or the latter, you have one thing to decide here, and that is whether to find out what she really is. Even if I let you have a baby, I think she will still go out to play, especially at night. Do you want to see what happened after she told you a reason? And if she is not in the place mentioned, then you are the most difficult, much more difficult than your decision now, because it means that she cheated, and cheated after marriage. So are you looking forward to a change after childbirth for the sake of your child, or are you going to divorce directly after the child is born and let the child lose his mother?

Because of her infidelity, do you want to test DNA to determine whether the child is yours?

These things are not alarmist, but some possible speculations made through your story, which you must consider.

It is difficult to get married, it is even harder to divorce, and it is even harder to divorce a pregnant woman.

Many friends have given you the answers. I hope you can think for yourself and don't be impulsive. Calmly analyze everything, and then make the choice you think is the most correct. But please don't regret.