When you leave your comfort zone, you will find that people are very adaptable.

Don't be afraid to leave the comfort zone, because people's adaptability is also quite strong. When you are in a strange new environment, don't give yourself pressure. Give yourself time and heart, and they will take you into another comfortable circle.

Some time ago, I finally made up my mind to leave my first company since graduation and worked for 1 year and 7 months. It is said that the average working time of the post-90s generation is 9 months, which makes me improve the average.

During my work in my old club, I had a very rich experience, and it was a story of ups and downs drifting north.

Because the company entered through school recruitment, the interns who entered in the same batch created the WeChat group early and became familiar with it. Rent a house with two other friends and occasionally cook dinner together after work. The internship salary is 3500, the rent is 1000 a month, and the remaining 2500 pocket money is much more than when I was at school. There is not much work in the company, and the working day is relaxed. It is also a pleasure to make an appointment to eat and go shopping together on weekends. I also bought a Huawei tablet through my first salary, and I feel that I can support myself.

On July 20 17, he became a regular employee, and his work was much more tense, and he often traveled. From July, 20 17 to June, 20 10, I basically stayed in Guangdong and went back to Beijing every two weeks, making the hotel my home. Strangely, I have adapted to such frequent business trips, which should be related to my childhood experience.

I have lived on campus since the third grade of primary school and go home once every two weeks. Every time I go home, I need to take the bus 1 hour. In three years, I have "cured" the problem of vomiting by car. Junior high school is in town, and you can go back once a week. High school is in the county, and it becomes once every two weeks. I go to college directly once every six months. One reason is that I want to spend money to play, and I really don't feel so homesick, so I won't go back. This has created me who likes wandering and never loves home.

During my business trip in Guangdong, I was even very excited, because this is a city that I have never been to and experienced.

However, after that, my life completely fell into a trough.

17 June, 1 1, the company had problems in its capital chain and began to default on wages. Also in the same month, a fire broke out in a self-built house in Beijing, which immediately alerted the government and began to investigate and deal with illegal buildings in an all-round way, so as to clear out the residents in the apartments with illegal buildings. Unfortunately, the self-built apartment I live in is an illegal building, and the landlord informed me to move out before the 29 th on the 25 th. To sum up, it's even worse when it rains all night.

Self-built apartments are managed by the Northeast couple, who also work for others and usually live in their own houses. So in this incident, they intend to leave Beijing and return to the northeast. In order to let us leave as soon as possible, he directly announced that he would move out early, leave the rent and deposit early, and lose the money if he moved late. In order to get the deposit as soon as possible, two other friends and I quickly contacted my colleagues who lived nearby and moved the goods to my male colleague's house, where we stayed for two days. Colleagues also live in their own houses, but they are built on the homestead of Beijingers. The government has no right to interfere, so it is safe for the time being. But the house is in the village, and in a deep alley, the indoor environment is too complicated to accept.

Two friends and I urgently checked the rental information on the major rental apps. Sure enough, the housing is tight and the rent has risen sharply. Just at this time, the company specially approved 2000 yuan for employees who haven't found a house to stay in the hotel temporarily. I thought a lot of people would sign up for the hotel, but it was just the three of us. We didn't mention it, so we took the company's 2000 yuan and found a home inn to live in. I stayed in a hotel for three days. During this period, a friend of mine decided to leave Beijing and go back to Xi for development. Another friend moved to my aunt's house, and it took two hours to drive, so I made up enough rent for the first month.

The house thing has finally been solved temporarily, but the salary thing is still far away.

During June 2007 1 1 to March 2008 18, the company paid wages for three months one after another before the Chinese New Year, and the cash flow in hand opened up a little, which seemed to see some light.

/kloc-in April of 0/8, the company promised to completely solve the funding problem on June 30th, and will also reward each employee with two months' salary as compensation. My colleagues and I started a long wait, during which the company paid our department a month's salary. I have been expecting the company to recover after a period of time as before. I never thought that this time, I completely walked into a dead end.

In a blink of an eye, on June 30, as expected, the company did not fulfill its promise, and then a wave of resignation began.

I recorded the departure time of everyone I know, and I also thought about the timing of my departure. I know the company's comfort zone is doomed to leave. It's just that I lack courage. I am worried about the unknown future.

I began to revise my resume in July to prepare for my resignation. But I have been reluctant to face the matter of leaving my familiar company to find a new job. I have been secretly expecting that the company can be acquired suddenly, the financing is successful suddenly, and the project suddenly has a lot of money.

During that time, I was extremely depressed every day and felt like a failure. I even doubt that I will get depression. You know, my college grades are at least above average, and now I can describe them as miserable.

And my little friend didn't react so much to the company's arrears. Because I concentrate on reviewing the postgraduate entrance examination, I took part in the postgraduate entrance examination on 20 18 and continued my studies. As long as the company can stick to the end of 18 and not close down, just wait for her to finish the exam. It happens that the company is also a good place for her to review.

But at the end of August, she suddenly told me that she was leaving her job. I'm stupid. Everything is so sudden.

It turns out that she has been interviewed by the company personnel, and the company thinks that she is not suitable for work at present. She readily agreed to leave her job and concentrate on preparing for the exam at home.

And my comfort zone collapsed because of her resignation. It turns out that the company is so ruthless and the workplace is so indifferent. This reminds me of the last straw that crushed the mule. This became the biggest factor for me to leave the company. Originally, I was greedy for the familiarity of my colleagues in the company. Now that this familiarity has been greatly threatened, I will simply destroy it myself.

I asked for leave to go home on August 29th and stayed at home for five days. During those five days, I completely relaxed my mind. No longer consider the rent, salary, unpaid wages, no longer have any worries, eat and sleep every day, go out by bike. The scenery in my hometown is really beautiful and the air is really good. More than once, I feel that if I work in my hometown, it would be perfect to have the salary in Beijing now. Well, think about it every time.

I left for Beijing on September 3rd. After returning, I began to submit resumes on major job-seeking platforms. Resigned on September 9, and officially went through the resignation formalities on September 10. Everything is so logical.

I lost my job in naked resignation, but I have no regrets. Because I deeply realize that the company has no working atmosphere. The day before I left my job, I walked around the company to observe everyone's work status. In the morning 10, most people are playing with their mobile phones leisurely, and some even sleep on their stomachs. Everyone is dead, just waiting for the company to improve, and then go back to work when the salary is fixed. I don't want to waste any more time like this. From 17, 1 1 to 18, September, I hesitated for too long.

Seriously looking for a job from September 10. I voted for nearly 100 companies, responded to more than a dozen, interviewed about five or six, and passed two. Finally, I chose my current company and went through the entry formalities on June 8, 10.

In fact, the real job search period is between September 10 and September 2 1. The real job search period is far more painful than imagined.

Because I wait for the interview notice and interview results at home every day, there is only one person in the whole family during the day, and the quiet environment and inner anxiety make the atmosphere extremely depressed. Three days ago, my whole situation reached its lowest point. How many resumes have been submitted, how many are silent. At that time, it was also the strongest time to leave Beijing and stay at home. The bad experience of my last company and the cruel reality of delivering many fruitless products have exhausted my spirit when I first came to Beijing.

Maybe on the fourth or fifth day. I can't remember. I received my first interview call and was very excited. I looked up the information of this company on the Internet. It's an outsourcing company. It's a blow. However, it was quickly adjusted, which was regarded as "practicing hands". From now on, no matter how depressed you were before, you should show your most polite, confident and Kan Kan dialect in front of the interviewer.

The whole interview process is less than 30 minutes. I've been talking and the interviewer is listening. The atmosphere is very harmonious, and I occasionally ask a few questions. Usually I am a relatively silent person, and the number of speeches in that interview is more than my speech in a week. It is no exaggeration. I felt much better when I left, as if I had crossed a very high certification threshold. It seems that I'm not that bad. Look, the interviewer is just led by my thoughts. "The interview results won't come out for two days, and there will be a notice then," said the personnel. In the end, I didn't wait for the notice.

There will be more interviews in the next few days. I think it may be that I am more active in major job search software, so my resume ranking will move forward quickly and more hr will see it.

When I went to the second interview, I obviously felt that my ability and position did not match during the communication process. Sure enough, it failed. An interview is to make a good deal and get what you want.

In the third house, a young girl received me. While waiting for the interviewer, we chatted. I told you about my salary arrears, and my salary has not been paid for four months. She wondered how there could be such a company. Didn't you go to arbitration? At this time ... in short, I soon feel completely free from the tension of the interview. Not long after, a very elegant girl came in to interview me and said that she was so beautiful and felt like a star. During the interview, she kept frowning and looking at my resume. I'm still muttering in my mind, is my resume poorly written? Or did I misbehave and she resent me? Finally, this company passed my interview and determined the entry time and salary.

The fourth possibility is my current company. Is a well-known enterprise, when I received the phone call, I was surprised that I could take the initiative to find a resume and call for an interview. I attach great importance to the interview in this company, which is reflected in revisiting the projects I participated in the night before the interview, washing my hair that night, falling asleep, and dressing up neatly the next day. This home has the longest interview time. The interview was conducted around a small round table. After sitting down, I saw many resumes of other interviewers on the desk. I try to be polite and smile. My work experience came very slowly, and the problem was discussed in Kan Kan. From 2: 30 pm to 4: 00 pm, for a whole hour and a half. Of course, for a long time, I was waiting for the final interview of the big leader to be finalized.

On September 2 1, I received a phone call from the personnel of the current company, saying that the interview had passed and I wanted to confirm the entry time. Because I wanted to wait until after the National Day holiday, I finally decided to join the company on June 8, 65438.

A big event in my heart finally settled, and for a while, I began to work hard.

I went to Yuanmingyuan on September 23rd. There were many tourists in the park that day.

On September 26th, a man climbed the Great Wall, but he was not a hero until he reached it. He walked all the way to the farthest "North 12 Floor" in the Great Wall Scenic Area.

On September 29th, my friends and I went to Changping Park for a picnic. I lay on the slope by the lake and basked in the sun all afternoon.

On September 30th, I took my boyfriend to visit IKEA. I was deeply surrounded, and the free shopping environment inside really attracted me. If there is IKEA in the city where I live in the future, I will definitely buy a lot of household items in it.

On October 3rd, 65438/KLOC-0, I went to the National Library to read some photography magazines that I liked very much when I was in college. The whole afternoon was quiet and comfortable. I haven't been so relaxed for a long time.

654381October 8, officially joined the new company. The last few weeks have been really hard, and I feel panic every day. Because I don't know the company's products, I don't know what the department is responsible for at present, and I don't know what I want to do and what I can do. Every day, I worry that I am not qualified for the job and may be fired. Every Monday is when I am most afraid. The night before, my mood will reach a low point. The next day, I will go to the company with a heavy heart like "going to the grave", accept the sudden arrival of the task, and then complete it as quickly as possible.

There may be another reason for my heavy heart. From July to 10, I haven't got my salary for four months, and my heart is full of extreme insecurity. I don't have much savings left in my hand A random accident will consume all my savings and I have to ask my parents for it.

The first month's salary is 1 1.5, and my mood has greatly improved. For the first time in four months, I have a stable income, and I will receive it on time in the future, and I will not default again. This is an unspeakable sense of security.

In the next period of time, I will work hard to improve my ability.

PS that I haven't touched for a long time should be proficient soon. Want to learn AI software, start searching for courses on the Internet in Tigers class. Watercolor painting should also continue to adhere to. After getting familiar with the route to work, I have leisure to listen to English on the way. It seems that the long-suppressed joy of life has slowly recovered.

Recall this experience, from retirement to borrowing money to renting a house, to the company not paying wages for half a year, and then to being unemployed in naked resignation. The comfort zone you don't want to leave becomes a cage that traps you. Every day is a vicious circle, developing in a worse direction.

I often wonder when I can leave this comfort zone and stop the loss to the greatest extent.

It should be 18 March, early this year. From June 17, June 1 1 to March 18, the problem of capital chain has not been solved for five months, and I feel hopeless waiting. And I hesitated again and again, coveting the familiarity of the company, coveting the familiar work content at present, and dare not take the first step of job-hopping, which led to the deeper and deeper in the end.

We are always afraid to take the first step, which will lead to a higher threshold for doing something. When you really take the first step, you will forget your hesitation and nervousness and adapt naturally.

Believe me, people are really adaptable.