Is there a wedding without quarreling?

Essentially, this is a conflict of your personal values! Your girlfriend is more vain and face-saving, and you are more practical. I have a house and a car. Before and after I got married, I spent more than 30 thousand. First, different regions have different consumption levels. In addition, our wedding is relatively simple and practical. Everyone says it's good. We both think it's ok. I really don't know how you spend this 200 thousand, hehe I'm afraid it's hard to reach an agreement on values at once. This requires a process. As for your marriage, since there is a big contradiction now, you can't just say how much this money should cost. Let's discuss it between two people. If she is happy, it is best that you can accept it. It is also appropriate to spend so much money for her to take out some. Marriage is a personal matter. For most people, it is everyone's wish that both men and women or their parents get married. I'm afraid she won't pay a penny, and it's a bit unreasonable to want you to engage in such extravagance. People who love each other need to compromise each other when contradictions arise, not unilaterally accommodate them! Your girlfriend is either from a good family and used to playing big-name scenery since childhood, or you are used to it. This habit must be changed slowly, otherwise it will be your long-term trouble and headache! You should influence and guide her with your own practical actions. Downstairs, I said your girlfriend is a good-looking vanity. In the end, didn't she just sum it up to prove her happiness to the whole world and show it off to others when she was old? Hehe, it's really broken! Your own happiness can only be realized by yourself. Is it difficult to show it to others? Girls will have many beautiful wishes, but wishes are wishes after all. A certain degree of satisfaction will make people feel happy, but isn't it overloaded for young people to do everything to hold a luxurious wedding? If you have 6.5438+0 million in your hand and your girlfriend's standard is raised to 6.5438+0 million, will you agree? Just to make her ideal shine into your reality? Hehe, that would be too extravagant. What man doesn't love his woman? But how many men will give everything for a flashy wedding? ! After getting married, many people have both mortgage and car loan, but also have to take care of their daily lives, support four old people and plan their next generation. There are too many places to spend money. For most people, the speed of making money is far less than the speed of spending money. If you don't make unreasonable plans, you will live very tired. Financial management!