A proverb to live in harmony with others.

Good brothers run into a wall, but good relatives stay away from home.

The meaning of this sentence is to remind us that if we want to have a good relationship with our brothers and have fewer contradictions, it is best not to live together. Even if the houses are next to each other, it is best to have a wall. And really close relatives live far away. Some people may not understand. If they live far away, how can they care? That's because distance produces beauty. When you are far away from home, the contact between relatives will not be so frequent, so there will be basically no barriers and contradictions. The ancients said that distance produces beauty, just like what we say today, that is, the smell near and the fragrance far away. In fact, when you get along with relatives and friends, you should learn to keep a proper distance. Distance produces beauty, familiarity produces contempt.

Have you heard five common sayings about how to get along in the countryside? Is there any profound truth in them?

Don't stand behind mules and horses and don't worry about married girls.

Mules and horses used to be good helpers for farmers, and many people kept them at home. But in general, you can't stand behind their ass, because these animals may lick at any time. Whether you are happy or unhappy, you may be given a kick. It is also reasonable for a daughter not to interfere in her affairs after marriage. Because the married daughter is the spilled water, she is already someone else's daughter-in-law, and the more she cares, the more she will only attract her daughter's jealousy. After all, every family has its own problems. But even so, her family has always been her daughter's strongest backing.

Have you heard five common sayings about how to get along in the countryside? Is there any profound truth in them?

Poverty does not string relatives, and wealth does not string neighbors.

The meaning of this sentence is more obvious, saying that when a person has no money, try not to visit relatives' homes, because others may think that you are here to borrow money and will give you a bad look. When a person becomes rich, don't just drop by the neighbor's house, so they will think you are showing off. I have to say, it's really hard to be a man. No money will be disliked by others, and money will be envied by others. This old saying also tells us that the world is cold and people are helpless.

One person makes money, and the whole village is greedy. One person gets rich, and the whole village gets in the way!

I believe many people have experienced this sentence personally, so everyone should understand if the farmer doesn't explain it. In fact, this phenomenon is not only found in rural areas, but also common in cities. Many people just can't hide that others are better than themselves.

Have you heard five common sayings about how to get along in the countryside? Is there any profound truth in them?

When your parents were alive, you knew where you came from; But when your parents are gone, the only way left in your life leads to death.

The meaning of this sentence is that the family is still there when the parents are here, and when the parents leave, the brothers and sisters become relatives, and the communication is less, and the feelings are gradually unfamiliar. For example, some people now buy a house in the city, but they will go back to the countryside after the holiday, but once their parents are gone, they will basically not go back.