This is the workplace state of young people who have graduated from college for one year.

This is the workplace state of young people who have graduated from college for one year.

Most of these young people are only children, and their family environment is superior. Some people vividly compare them to "strawberries"-they look colorful on the outside, but their hearts are pale and soft. With a little pressure, they become a mass of mud with a rugged surface and quite a personality.

According to the figures provided by China Youth Daily, only about 15% people don't want or can't change jobs due to various factors, and the proportion considering changing jobs is as high as 85%; There are still some people who consider resuming their studies because they find that their majors are not ideal in practice.

On the one hand, it is difficult for college graduates to find jobs, on the other hand, there are frequent problems with college graduates who are employed. Some experts believe that the first year of work is often a hurdle, during which graduates are prone to psychological problems such as anxiety and depression. Therefore, the adaptation to society should start from the university campus in advance, and schools, families and society need to work together.

Realistic article

"At first, when others alienated me, I didn't feel anything. But I am often alone after work, and I feel how lonely I am. "

Looking back, there was no one around.

Character: Swallow (Assistant to the General Manager of a Star Hotel)

In June 2006, she graduated from Swallow University. She stood out among many applicants and became the assistant to the general manager of a four-star hotel.

With decent jobs and high income, swallows have been surrounded by too much love and worship. Slowly, she began to look down on the people around her. When people talk to her and say hello, she always lets her temper go. Although there is no doubt about her achievements and abilities, she obviously feels that people around her are beginning to alienate her. Because of the relationship between superiors and subordinates, employees are obedient to her, but she can feel indifference.

Her ability and business are excellent, and she is a good helper of the boss, but her prestige among her colleagues is not high, so it is inevitable that she will stumble in some work. The swallow said, "Sometimes, I want to get along well with everyone, but I can't control myself."

"Although I haven't really found a suitable job, I have clearly realized that I am not suitable for any job. This is also the harvest of my work. "

I started to jump ship as soon as I graduated.

People: Xiao Lei (reporter and editor of an urban magazine)

When he graduated from college in June 2006, Xiao Lei could find a well-paid and stable job with family ties, but he just wanted to make himself different. He traveled all over major cities, trying to find a position that really suits him.

Xiao Lei majored in journalism. He always wants to "apply what he has learned" and find a job related to his major. He works in a TV station, but his salary is not high and he is very tired. A few days later, he was never found in the station. After leaving the TV station, he went to several advertising companies in succession, and the treatment given when applying for the job was quite generous. But when he got his salary, he realized that he couldn't promise himself so much, and even if he could, he couldn't give it on time. This situation lasted for several months. But he has to work overtime until late at night every day, and he has a serious lack of sleep. Finally, like the first result, Xiao Lei left without saying goodbye.

Now this magazine only comes out once a month, so Xiao Lei has enough free space. Although the salary is not high, it can be paid on time every month. The job relieved him temporarily, but he didn't want to stay forever. He said that maybe in the end, everything will return to the original point. If it can't be done, it is up to parents to clean up the "mess" for him.

"When I graduated, I was ambitious and looked forward to a bright future. However, my ideal is incompatible with reality, and I can only live a comfortable and plain life at work. This kind of work is not what I want. "

Don't want a stable job

Person: Yun Tao (employee of public institution)

In August 2006, when many college students were confused about their jobs and future, Yun Tao was lucky enough to enter a public institution.

Yuntao's growth can be described as smooth sailing, with a good family as the backing, and almost no setbacks in life and study. A few days after he officially went to work, Corey temporarily decided to let Yuntao send a planning plan to Ningbo. The plane ticket has been bought and Ningbo has made arrangements. When preparing to go to the airport, Yun Tao sent a text message to ask the section chief, "Is there a car to take me to the airport?" The section chief replied, "The cars are all out for the time being. Go by yourself." Yun Tao's words almost didn't make the section chief faint: "I won't go without a car to send me." Finally, Yun Tao's father found a car to take him to the airport.

The plane arrived in Hangzhou smoothly. Before leaving, the section chief told Yun Tao that the bus to Ningbo would take more than ten minutes. Yun Tao waited for a long time and finally learned that it was every 30 minutes. Yun Tao sat angrily in the car and sent a short message to the section chief: "The bus to Ningbo obviously runs every 30 minutes. Why do you lie to me every ten minutes? " Seeing the message, the section chief was really in distress situation this time.

Employer: Work requires a sense of responsibility.

Shao Yan (pseudonym) is responsible for planning and recruiting new people in a well-known company in Taiyuan all the year round. He told such a thing:

In the summer of 2006, the company recruited a group of newly graduated college students to do planning work. Unexpectedly, three days after going to work, a girl "disappeared". The company didn't get any news, plus the girl is a foreigner, and the leader has been very worried.

For three days, Shao Yan called the other party's mobile phone more than ten times a day, but no one answered. On the fourth day, when the leader of "Call the police if you don't answer the phone" made such a decision, the mobile phone finally got through.

When Shao Yan asked what happened, the girl who left without saying goodbye casually said, "Oh, I think the work is too hard, so I don't want to go!" "

Shao Yan said to her politely, "You can call and say that you can quit, so that the company will not be so worried about your safety!" But the other side's reaction is very strange. She said, "I think you should know what I mean if you don't go to work for a few days!" Why are you poor and nervous? " Hold the receiver, Shao Yan can't help but leng!

Shao Yan believes that girls who leave their jobs without permission will still do so even if they are admitted to another company! "What work is not hard? Even if she can stay in a company, this lack of responsibility will make her quickly eliminated! Let her realize this slowly in reality. " Shao Yan said.

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