National marriage custom

Every moment, couples walk into the happy church to welcome the new future. So, do you know the wedding customs around the world? According to Guangzhou Wedding Planning Company, the wedding customs of countries all over the world emerge in an endless stream. The following are the customary blessings of weddings in various countries.

Early African-Americans: Jumping Broom In the era of slavery in the United States, black men and women were not allowed to formally marry and live together. In order to announce their love and engagement to the world, a pair of black men and women jumped over a broom to the beat of drums. Broom has long been of great significance to all kinds of Africans, because it means the beginning of newlyweds forming families. In southern Africa, the bride will help other women in her husband's family clean the yard on the first day of marriage to show that she is willing to help her husband's family do housework dutifully before moving into a new home. To this day, some African-Americans still hold this symbolic ceremony at their weddings. Belgium: The bride can embroider her name on the handkerchief and bring it on the wedding day. After the wedding, put the handkerchief in a photo frame and keep it at home until another girl gets married. Egypt: In Egypt, the groom's family, not the groom himself, proposes to the bride. Many marriages are still the fate of parents and the words of matchmakers. England: Traditionally, rural brides and people attending weddings always go to church together. A little girl walks at the head of the queue, throwing flowers all the way, which indicates that the bride's life will be full of flowers and happy forever. Finland: The bride wears a golden crown. After the wedding, unmarried women danced around the blindfolded bride, waiting for the bride to put the corolla on someone's head. The person crowned by the bride is considered to be the next person to get married. The bride and groom sat in the VIP table at the wedding reception. The bride is holding a sieve covered with a silk scarf. When a guest puts money into a sieve, the best man will announce the name of the guest and the number of gifts to the guests present. Greece: usually the godfather of the groom, he is the guest at the wedding, and the guest is often the best man. His duty is to help the bride and groom put on the corolla (the corolla is white and gold, which is made of flowers that bloom all year round, or woven from branches and vines, wrapped in gold or silver paper as a symbol of love). After wearing the corolla, the new people turned around the altar three times. Other people attending the wedding read the Bible, hold candles and put the corolla in a special box after the wedding. In order to ensure the sweetness of married life, Greek brides can put a piece of candy in their gloves on their wedding day. Korea: Ducks will be included in the wedding procession, because ducks are accompanied by life. In the past, the groom rode a small white horse to the bride's house, bringing a pair of gray goose and male goose as a symbol of loyalty. 1. wedding planning

(1) Decide the date, place, ceremony and wedding reception method of the wedding.

(2) determine the wedding budget

(3) draw up the guest list

(4) Call a good friend to discuss the wedding plan.

(5) Determine the best man, bridesmaid and flower girl.

(6) Determine the host and witnesses.

(7) set up a wedding preparation team.

(1) held a kick-off meeting of the project.

② Make a wedding project plan.

③ Clarify the division of labor of the preparatory group.

Preparation before the wedding

(1) Communicate with all project stakeholders of the wedding.

① Communicate with parents about wedding planning and progress.

Send invitations to friends and relatives.

(3) Call relatives and friends in other places.

④ Publish personals online.

⑤ Re-confirm the client and witness.

⑥ Feedback the invitation information of relatives and friends in time.

⑦ Re-confirm important relatives and friends.

(2) Buy wedding supplies

(1) new furniture

② Household appliances and furniture

③ Bedclothes

④ Colored balloons

⑤ Lantern (cold light)

⑥ yarn

7 candles

8 adhesive tape

Pet-name ruby distribution frame

Attending other preparations:

1. Wedding supplies order

Bride and groom bridal veil formal dress

wedding ring

Bride cosmetics, ampoules, etc.

Wedding invitations, red envelopes, happy words, happy boxes

Fireworks (or salutes ordered by the wedding company), ribbons, flowers and sprays.

Tobacco, wine, drinks

Sugar, peanuts, melon seeds, tea

Videotapes, movies

Book flowers

Book a cake

fruit

candle

2. Image preparation of bride and groom

The bride began to skin care.

The groom cuts his hair.

Take wedding photos

Xuancai wedding photographic studio

Appointment shooting date

take a picture

Film selection

Printing or inkjet printing

Decorate a new house

Please ask the cleaning company to clean the new house thoroughly.

Decorate a new house

Determine the wedding host

Communicate with them the plans and ideas for the wedding day.

6. Wedding reservation

Estimated number of tourists

Estimated number of banquets

Choose a wedding venue

Confirm the banquet menu and price.

Confirm the sound effects of the wedding reception.

Coordinate with the hotel on wedding arrangements and other details.

Book a banquet

7. Wedding makeup appointment

Choose a place to make up

Communicate with hair stylists and makeup artists

Confirm the shape of the wedding day

Make an appointment to make up

8. Wedding car reservation

Determine the number of wedding cars

Choose the driver of the wedding car

Make an appointment to tie the float.

Determine the driving route and required time of the wedding car on the wedding day.

Make an appointment for a wedding car

9. Wedding camera reservation

Determine the number of cameras taken by the photography club.

Choose a photographer for the wedding day.

Arrange the division of labor between photography and video recording.

Prepare photographic equipment and film.

Appointment photography

10. Others

Change brand-new banknotes

Make sure the children roll in bed.

Prepare guest rooms for distant relatives and friends.

Prepare the day before the wedding

1. Communicate with all project stakeholders of the wedding.

Communicate with parents about the completion of wedding preparations.

Final communication with the preparatory team on the preparation and division of labor on the wedding day.

According to the preparation, communicate with the host on the wedding day about the progress of the ceremony.

Communicate with the best man and bridesmaid again

Finally, confirm the relatives and friends who help.

Finally, confirm the details of the wedding banquet, vehicles, photos, makeup and so on.

2. Confirm the preparation of the speaker on the wedding day.

Prepare the speech of the main witness

Preparation of parent representative's speech

Preparation of guest representatives' speeches

The bride asked questions when robbing the bride.

Problems that the bride and groom may encounter in the wedding or bridal chamber.

3. Finally confirm the preparation of all items on the wedding day.

Finally try on all the skirts.

Put all the clothes to be worn on the wedding day in your pockets.

Prepare two bottles of fake wine

Prepare fast food for the bride and groom on the wedding day.

Finally, check all items and hand them over to a special person for safekeeping:

The bride's new shoes

marriage certificate

ring

Red envelopes; Red paper containing money as gifts, bribes or kickbacks; red envelope; red paper containing money as a gift, bribe or kickback;?red packet

Wear jewelry

Bride cosmetic box

Sugar, cigarettes, wine, tea, drinks

Fireworks props

Candlesticks, wedding candles

The bride and groom are specially prepared.

The bride and groom are familiar with the wedding procedure again and again.

Rehearse the bride's movements

Rehearse the wedding catwalk

Rehearse a toast

Relax and encourage each other.

Pay attention to sleep and go to bed early.

Prepare alarm clock:

Confirm the working alarm clock; Set the alarm clock to 5: 30.

4. Wedding Day Process

Makeup:

Get up at five thirty

At seven o'clock, after the groom's hairstyle is done, he arrives at the new south gate and waits near the bride's house.

At 7: 45, the bride will notify the groom when she finishes making up.

Red envelopes for makeup artists and hairdressers.

Wedding car:

The float will be tied at 6: 30.

At 7 o'clock, the groom will be taken to the new south gate by car.

The float is finished at 7: 30.

Take the bride back to the new south gate at 7: 45 (arrive before 8: 30)

At nine o'clock, all the wedding cars arrive at the new south gate.

Drivers' red envelopes and gift packages (sugar, melon seeds, cigarettes)

Catch the bride:

At 8 o'clock, the best man prepares flowers and red envelopes.

At half past eight, the bride returned to her family and hid her new shoes.

At 8: 40, the groom led his brothers to rob people.

Knocking at the door at 8: 45, questioning, stuffing red envelopes, and squeezing the door.

At 8: 55, the groom looked for new shoes and promised the woman's house.

At 9 o'clock, the ribbon maker is in position and the balloon is in position.

At 9: 05, the groom went out with his bride on his back, put on a ribbon and stepped on a balloon.

The motorcade leaves at 9: 0010.

Welcome the bride:

/kloc-0: 00 The motorcade arrived at the man's house in Chenghua Community.

10: 05 The groom walked in with the bride, put on the ribbon and stepped on the balloon.

The children go to bed.

10: 15 bridesmaids prepare tea.

The bride offered tea to the man's parents.

The bride and groom go to the hotel.

Hotel preparation:

/kloc-bring sugar, cigarettes, wine, tea and drinks to the hotel at 0: 00.

10: 10 View the banquet arrangement, sound system, check-in desk and other details.

10: 30 Prepare cigarettes, matches and candy for the bride and groom.

10: 45 Ribbon master at the entrance of the hotel.

Welcome to the hotel:

The bride and groom arrived at the hotel with ribbons.

1 1: 00 Check-in desk personnel are in place.

1 1: 00 Guide people to the door.

1 1: 00 The bride and groom greet the guests at the bridesmaid's door.

Wedding:

12: 15 Host preparation

Sound, background music and lighting preparation

12: 15 Prepare marriage certificate and ring.

Balloons and ribbons in place

12: 20 Play music, newcomers enter, ribbons, balloons.

Host introduction

Speech by the officiating person

The witness read the marriage certificate.

The couple's parents took the stage.

The bride and groom exchanged rings and bowed three times.

The couple offered tea to their parents.

Parents' representatives from both sides spoke.

Both parents resigned.

Newcomers open champagne, cut cakes, drink toast and light candles.

match

13: 00 The wedding reception officially begins.

13: 00: The bride and groom leave, eat fast food, and the bride changes her dress.

The bride and groom toasted table by table.

14: 00, after the banquet, the guests took photos with the couple.

Afternoon break:

14: 00 guests leave or go to the chess room for entertainment.

The bride and groom eat and rest.

14: 30 Count the remaining cigarettes, wine, sugar, etc.

14: 30 to count the number of people eating.

Dinner:

17: 00 inform the hotel of the number of dinners prepared.

/kloc-invite guests to dinner at 0/8: 00

Check everything at 20: 00 and leave the hotel.

Build a new house:

2 1 point, the new house began to make trouble.

The woman hides the marriage certificate

The groom looks for a marriage certificate

Other programs are broadcast for free.

The guests leave at 22: 30.

Camera photography:

Camera a starts shooting from the bride's makeup.

Camera b starts shooting the groom from the bride snatch.

Camera c shoots the whole process of the wedding

Photography timely shooting

Photographer's red envelope

5. The wedding project is over:

At 23: 00, the groomsman and bridesmaid rate preparation team found another place to summarize the project. At almost every wedding, the bride and groom will frequently change guests to take photos and take turns toasting like statues. Every couple should stand, walk and sit in front of the public. Do you feel nervous when you think about their behavior? Here are some basic etiquette to ensure their use.

1, sitting posture: the posture of the upper body is the most important.

When taking photos with relatives, the posture of the upper body is the most critical. If you have "ah! The idea of "finally sitting down" will make people's waist tilt up like a deflated ball in an instant, which will be ugly and not careless. So always be nervous, especially if the bride is wearing a low-cut dress, sitting in the middle of the chair and twisting her waist, which makes her shoulders wide and slim. Wearing a slender dress and hanging your legs diagonally can make your legs look slender; If the groom sits listlessly, his trouser legs will automatically tilt up, revealing his socks, which is unsightly. Pay special attention. Be sure to mention the knees of your pants before you sit down.

2. Standing posture: naturally straighten your back and consciously spell each other into a figure of eight.

The groom bent his right arm slightly and asked the bride to put her hand on his elbow. It should be noted that the bride should not pull the groom's clothes, which will make people feel timid. In addition, in order to straighten his back, the groom should not protrude too much from his abdomen, hold the bride tightly, so as not to step on the skirt and stay too far away. The bride should not hold the groom's arm tightly, as if afraid that he would run away.

3. Walking: an eye-catching entrance ceremony

Because some brides are not used to wearing wedding dresses and high heels, they may accidentally step on the skirt, so the skirt should not be too long. The correct way to walk is to gently kick the skirt with your toes, wipe the ground with your feet and move forward slowly. Strictly speaking, the bride's eyes should always look straight ahead, and try to put the line of sight in front of 10 meter, which is conducive to taking pictures, but for the sake of safety, the bride's line of sight can be slightly downward, but not too low to avoid affecting the image.

4, kissing: natural and generous, shy, but it feels very strange.

The kiss at the ceremony is of sacred significance, and the two should be natural and generous. When swearing at a wedding, it's disgusting to kiss inexplicably shyly, sheepishly or affectedly, and it's unnatural to take pictures or videos. The correct posture is as follows: the groom gently grabs the bride's arm and puts his other hand around her waist as a hint. The bride raised her face slightly, which made the onlookers feel that she was approaching in a natural posture, mysterious and beautiful. The timing of kissing should be decided by two people first, so that there will be no mistakes. The bride should gently wipe off the lipstick with a napkin in advance to avoid leaving a clear lip print on the groom's face. Remember, it's more natural to hold your arm lightly and lift your face slightly, unlike stamping your feet.

5. Read the letter: Be sure to show sincere feelings.

At the wedding, the bride and groom must be very serious when reading thank-you letters to family, relatives and friends, because this is a very serious scene at the wedding and sincere feelings are very important. After writing the letter, I must practice in advance in person to avoid deviation in formal reading. The content should be true, let the guests sing, and try to create a scene full of affection.

6. Turn around: Gently grab the skirt of the dress and turn around quickly.

Dresses are different from ordinary clothes, and it is impossible to change the direction only a little. The trick of exaggerating and turning without dragging the skirt is to gently grasp the skirt and skirt support with the hand opposite to the rotation direction and lift it slightly. When wearing a long skirt and veil, hang it on your wrist and turn around quickly in an instant.

7. Smile: A happy smile.

Corners of the mouth rise and smile gently. Happy smiles on couples' faces are the guests' favorite. Many people's smiling faces are deliberately piled up when taking pictures. When they finished, there was no smile on their faces. This kind of smile is fake. The practice method of smiling face is: there is a chopstick in your mouth, and the corners of your mouth are upturned, which looks like a smile. Keep your mouth shape unchanged, take out your chopsticks, and you'll have a smiling face, and then practice it repeatedly until you laugh until you don't show your teeth.

8. Bow: slightly bend the upper body, smile and nod.

The essentials of frequent bowing at weddings are: first, the back should be straight, and the body above the waist should lean forward; Second, when you bow, you should be full of emotion, and the range of bending is about 15 degrees. Two people should cooperate, not "one after another". You can keep a pause for one second, and don't forget that when you bow to the host in music, you must face him with your whole body. Be careful not to stick out your chin. It is impolite to nod and bow too much. Be careful not to look up at people when bowing.

9, change the ring: to achieve the most romantic scene

I'm too nervous to wear a ring. People who have this embarrassing experience may wish to practice several times in advance. When the bride helps the groom put on the ring, the groom bends his elbow and reaches his hand to the height of natural bending. The bride holds the groom's hand in her left hand, and the thumb, forefinger and middle finger of her right hand hold the ring and put it on the groom's ring finger. Usually, when she can't put it on, the bride will unconsciously exaggerate, hold his hand tightly, put it under her nose and carefully put the ring on his ring finger. In fact, this posture is very rude and the photos taken are not good-looking.

10, cutting the cake: an excellent photo opportunity.

The most photographed scene at the wedding reception is when a couple cut the cake. Therefore, close-up shooting and subtle movements of fingertips will make the bride and groom feel nervous. The correct posture of cutting the cake is that the bride's right hand holds a knife, the groom's left hand covers the bride's right hand, the groom's right hand is wrapped around the bride's waist, and the bride's left hand assists the right hand in cutting the cake. This is the most beautiful posture, and the intimate figure of eight is still maintained in the standing posture. And two people's eyes are the same, which is conducive to taking more perfect photos. Don't just turn your face away when you look back. Turn your whole body away.

1 1, lighting candles: picturesque, lighting wedding candles.

Straight back is the key. People often fail at this point, because the bride and groom hold lighted matches and light them far away from the candles. This posture will make their chins protrude, their mouths open, they look ridiculous, and their arms are different in length. If the groom extends his arms completely, the bride will lean forward.

Therefore, the groom should consider the length of the bride's arm to decide the position. This is called "groom-led". The groom put his other hand on the bride's waist, and like dancing, he adjusted the distance through finger hints and led the bride half a step away from the table. The bride should be careful not to forget to put the bouquet out.

12. unveiling: slow and steady, cooperate with each other.

The bride should straighten her back and squat slightly to match each other. The serious atmosphere of the wedding should not be destroyed by the irregular and unsightly action of the groom lifting the veil. In order to make it easier for the groom to lift the veil, it is necessary to lower the height. The bride should take her habitual foot as the main support point, and the other foot should step back a little, straighten her waist and slightly bend her knees. It will be difficult to bend her waist and hips.