When people are poor, they even look down on their relatives. What do you think?

When people are poor, they even look down on their relatives. Anyone who takes it seriously will lose completely. Everyone does their own work, everyone eats their own food, and spends the money they earn, so that they can live their own lives with peace of mind.

I wasn’t doing very well back then. When I got married, all my aunts paid me 200 as a gift. I didn’t think it was anything. When my cousins ??got married, they all gave me 500. Later, when I got better, my aunts told me that they didn’t have to pay you a lot of money at that time, which meant they were very grateful. apology.

My feelings towards relatives are no different from those of passers-by. Because when our family was in the most difficult time, no one helped me. When I couldn't find a job after graduation, they didn't give me any help other than laughing at me. So I took care of the indifference of human and family ties. My cousin called me and asked me to go back and play. He also told me that he had no relatives, but he still valued the relationship between his old cousins.

Human beings, that’s it. If you don’t have money, you hope to be respected by others, but if you have money, you look down on others. The world is like this, there is no need to complain, and there is no need to care. The only thing you can do is to work hard on your own. When you are poor, no one will ask for trouble. When you are rich, you have distant relatives in the mountains. The old man summed it up so thoroughly, so I think it is very common for people to be looked down upon by their relatives when they are poor.

This society has reached the point where people can do anything if they have money. Once they are rich, they don’t need help from relatives. Nowadays, there are really more relatives than before. It has become normal for relatives not to interact with each other. Only when you are strong enough can you be truly strong. As for relatives, they will not provide you with help when you need it, but will only add icing on the cake.

It’s normal; when you are poor, your brothers and sisters will look down on you. When I was a child, my family was poor and the environment was not good. My father, 6 brothers and sisters, mother, 4 brothers and sisters, my uncle, aunt and several younger sisters-in-law all looked down on our family. After all, they The environment is very rich, and my mother's relatives and two uncles used to never come to our house every year during the Chinese New Year. My grandparents also looked down on my family. But after all, my mother is also the daughter of my grandparents. Where is my aunt... I remember this time unforgettable in my life. Clearly, one time when I was a child, around 5-6 years old, my grandmother took me and my uncle’s son, my cousin, to the street, and my aunt followed her to the street. At that time, my aunt took my cousin to buy clothes, and I just No, I cried at that time and asked why my cousin had new clothes. I didn’t have the mentality of my grandma. At that time, I was quite embarrassed and said, your aunt doesn’t have much money, so buy some clothes for your cousin first. It’s my turn next time. You, my aunt's attitude at that time said, you are different from my cousin, so I must buy it for my cousin first. Although I was only 5-6 years old at the time, I actually understood how my relatives treated me, and my uncle , my aunt and my sister-in-law didn’t come to my house every year during the Chinese New Year, and all the good things they had were given to my uncle’s family. I felt quite helpless in my childhood at that time. Among all my relatives, the one who always treated me the best was my great-aunt. Although It’s hard to move around as I get older. Every Spring Festival, my aunt’s son would drive my aunt to my house for a visit. At that time, my aunt would bring him some food and give me a 10-yuan red envelope. I think she could have given me 10 yuan in 1990. There were so many red envelopes at that time. Although my aunt only went back to her parents' home once a year because she was old, she would always come to our house for dinner when she returned. My parents were very happy to welcome us because my aunt knew that our family was poor at that time but she always encouraged us. My parents and my aunt were very popular in the village and my family because my aunt was so kind and she lived until 2012 at the age of 98.

Now the family environment is better than before. My former relatives and uncles My aunt and uncle come to my house every Spring Festival. The most outrageous thing is that every time she comes to my house, she treats my house like a hotel and stays there for two days. My uncle wanted to buy a car and came to my house to ask my parents for money. My uncle in the village They asked my mother to donate some money to build bridges and roads, etc., and my two uncles always wanted to add face. Sometimes I often said to my parents, my poor relatives used to be What's wrong with our family? Life is just getting better now, and our attitudes have changed. Every time my aunts, uncles, and uncles come up to me, something bad happens. Now I have no feelings for my seven aunts and eight aunts. Basically, I don't have that sense of family affection. The only thing I miss is my great-aunt who was the best to me. He was the only one who truly regarded us as relatives. My great-aunt always encouraged and hoped that my parents could change their living environment as soon as possible. After 2004, the family environment gradually improved. , Dad’s business began to stabilize gradually. At that time, my aunt was very happy to see the smile on her face when our family environment slowly began to change. Therefore, when you are poor, you really don’t have many relatives, but when you are poor and most difficult, you can be there for you. Those who are guests at home are the relatives who truly encourage you and do not dislike you.