Tenger: He was so addicted to alcohol that he lost all his family wealth and his wife ran away. Does he regret it as he has lost his daughter in old age?

Tengger once sold his blood for money just to drink.

"Exchange 500ml for 70 yuan, enjoy two kilograms of mutton and half a kilogram of white wine!"

Since he was young, he was often drunk, and was knocked unconscious by his classmates. Carry back to the dormitory.

Because of drinking, I did many wrong things, which I regretted throughout my life.

Every time he mentioned it in front of the camera, he, a grown man, couldn't help but shed tears.

But even so, Tengger couldn't help but stop drinking.

Now at the age of sixty, I still always eat seafood with white wine, 45% spirits, and drink it like water.

I just don’t know if Tengger will feel nervous when he mentions the little daughter who left him when she was 6 years old.

Many people also expressed doubts. After many years, has Tengger "repented"?

"Listening to Teacher Tengger's songs is like riding a carriage on the prairie, but the wheels of the carriage are square!"

For the music world, Tengger You are a national treasure.

But in those years, he didn't care at all about the pranks made on him by netizens, and sang popular songs such as "Calories", "The Sun Never Sets", and "Wild Wolf Disco" in his own way.

It seems absurd, but it is actually advanced.

When asked during the interview, he only said that he would be happy if he could make the fans happy.

However, this "old naughty boy" who seems to be crazy and funny on the stage has a heart-wrenching past in his life.

In 2000, 40-year-old Tengger’s life was in a mess.

The house was gone, the car was gone, and his wife divorced him. He said:

At that time, I only had 200,000 in my card, and I regretted it very much!

Although looking at Tengger now, he has a calm and peaceful temperament.

But in fact, he was born in the grasslands and was rebellious since he was a child. When he was 24 years old, he was whipped by his mother with a horse whip for doing something wrong.

When he was in junior high school, Tengger said some things that should not be said in that special era.

At such a young age, he did not realize the seriousness of the matter, but unexpectedly he was called to the principal's office and scolded.

Then he was asked to call his parents in the next day to wait for processing, which frightened Tengger.

When he thought of his mother's stern look, he didn't dare to say anything.

Having no choice but to write a "suicide note" and give it to the squad leader.

Then he rode his bicycle to a four-story theater, ready to jump off and finish it off.

Fortunately, the squad leader was sensible and rushed to Tengger with his brother to hug him.

His life was saved, but since then, he has completely lost interest in school. He either lives passively or finds various reasons to "skip class" every now and then.

At that time, Tengger had no pursuits in his heart. He thought that it would be good to live a life of leisurely life as a herdsman in the future.

In today’s terms, this kind of thinking is “disposed” and “lyed flat”.

But perhaps it was God’s blessing, and the eldest sister’s words made him pursue it:

“The Inner Mongolia Art School came to Otok to recruit students, and I heard that the requirements for cultural courses are not high. ”

Tengger’s parents are both local folk singers. He has also been interested in this aspect since he was a child. He is good at singing and playing the piano.

On the recommendation of his sister, Tengger took the exam.

But for Tengger, who has lived in an artistic atmosphere since he was a child, this was easily accomplished.

From here on, Tengger’s life trajectory was completely changed.

This year, he was only 15 years old.

At first, Tengger studied dance.

But this was purely a helpless move, because at that time dance was the best major to take, as long as the appearance was good.

Learning to dance is really torture for a rough guy who grew up on the grassland.

He got up at five o'clock every morning and practiced Lajin. Soon he got bored and changed to Sanxian.

After switching to sanxian, he found the right direction. It didn’t take long for him to become the top student in the class and become famous in school.

After graduation, he stayed in school as a teacher and conductor of the student band.

However, he did not like this job. In his own words: "I don't know what command is, I just make blind gestures."

He spent several years in confusion. , Tengger began to worry about life-long events.

By chance, he went to attend a large-scale literary party, where he met his ex-wife Hasgova.

Hasgova was the host of the party and a famous local beauty. Tengger fell in love with her at first sight.

In fact, according to their status gap at the time, the chance of being together was very small.

But fate is sometimes so wonderful. Two people have a similar friend, and with his introduction and matchmaking, the two fell in love smoothly.

Someone once asked Haskova why she fell in love with Tengger. She said:

"He is very talented. In fact, when we first met, he sang at the party. I had already noticed him when he sang "Mongols", and we got along very well, and we were a good match."

So at the beginning, even though Tengger was just a name. He was a little-known singer, and Haskova admired him very much.

After dating for less than a year, the two got married and lived a low-key and happy life.

They also had a period of love.

What she didn’t expect was that a few years later, Tengger’s career would develop rapidly, but their life would become increasingly miserable.

Once he was fortunate enough to be sent to the China Conservatory of Music for further study, which opened the door to a new world for Tengger and made up his mind to go to university.

In 1980, Tengger entered the composition department of Tianjin Conservatory of Music to study.

Although his music career has been promoted, he has delayed a lot of things because of his love of drinking and eating meat.

Tengger has been very fond of drinking since he was young. He would sell blood when he had no money, and even more frequently when he had money.

Sometimes when he helped his teacher buy roast chicken, he would also steal chicken legs and drink two ounces of chicken on the road, so he was often carried back to the dormitory by his classmates.

Even after getting married, he never got rid of this bad habit.

Since 1992, Tengger's career has gradually improved, and he even held a solo concert in Taiwan.

Although there were only 20,000 viewers at the time, such powerful and outstanding national music shocked everyone.

Soon, a wave of "Tenger fever" was set off in Taiwan, and even the media highly praised it: "A strong northwest wind has blown in the music scene."

< p> His masterpiece "Paradise" was written at this time. This song also won China's highest music award at the time - the third place in the first China "Golden Bell Award".

After becoming famous and rich, Tengger often met friends through singing. Whenever he met like-minded friends, he would get drunk.

Moreover, he was very face-conscious. Sometimes when he was happy with his drink, he would wave his hand: "Drink whatever you want today, I'll pay for it!"

It is said that Tengger's first pot of gold was It was a reward of one thousand yuan, and he did nothing with the one thousand yuan.

I spent the whole day drinking with the "Wolf Band" formed by my friends, and all the money was squandered in less than half a month.

Seeing that it was not possible for him to continue like this, his wife Hasgova thought of ways to suggest him to do some business, so that even if he could no longer sing, he could still have some income.

So at the suggestion of his wife, he opened four restaurants named "Tengjia Restaurant".

But he didn’t expect that his hotel would provide him with convenience for drinking.

He even established a "Beer Association" with several drinking buddies. He served as the chairman of the association and held several drinking competitions.

There are more and more friends. Although the restaurant is crowded, they all come to eat and drink for free. As time goes by, it becomes difficult to make ends meet.

There was even a time when Tengger gave away a white jade horse worth hundreds of thousands in the hotel during a wine bureau.

In just a few years, Tengger squandered five to six million, and several restaurants closed due to losses.

Hasgova saw this and felt anxious in her heart.

When they first got married, they still had a house allocated by their work unit, but now many people who are not as good as them have moved out, and they still live here.

There is no heating, running water, or toilet. In winter, the temperature inside and outside the house is the same.

Hasgova could no longer endure the long-term grievance and depression, nor did she want to endure it.

Every time I wanted to have a heart-to-heart talk with Tengger, he always looked drunk and didn't remember anything when he sobered up the next day.

In the end, Hasgova couldn't bear it anymore and decided to divorce.

Many years later, she once revealed that between herself and Tengger, they were not romantic when they needed romance, were not gentle when they needed tenderness, and did not communicate when they needed to communicate.

But Tengger did not realize that it was his own problem at the time:

Later, Tengger called Haskova six times to request a reconciliation, but was cruelly rejected each time.

After the divorce, Haskova returned to the entertainment industry.

He has participated in many hit dramas, and has performed well in film and television dramas such as "Under the Zhengyang Gate", "Perfect Relationship", and "The Hero Fearless".

A few years later, she bought a house and a car in Beijing, and her whole body became full of energy. She seemed to have found the meaning of life again.

Once when she was participating in a program, a reporter asked her if she felt regretful when she thought about her marriage to Tengger.

She said: "I don't regret it. It's all something I was destined to experience. It's good to have experienced it."

Looking back at the rest of Tengger's life, there was no It went so smoothly...

When he was nearly 40 years old, Tengger discovered that all the money he had earned had been squandered.

And with the emergence of new generations of singers, the style of the music scene has begun to change.

As pop music becomes more and more prosperous, the characteristics that he was once proud of have now become barriers that he cannot break through.

This left him silent for a long time.

However, as the saying goes, there is always a road ahead. In 2001, Tengger recorded the ending song "Big Man" for the TV series "Kangxi Dynasty".

Later, after the TV series was broadcast, it received very impressive ratings in mainland China, Hong Kong, and Taiwan, and Tengger also ushered in the second spring of his career.

Two years later, Tengger met his second wife, a song and dance troupe actor 18 years younger than him named Honger Zhula.

History is always strikingly similar. According to Tengger’s description, he was deeply attracted to Honger Zhula when he first met her:

And Honger Er Zhula also had the free and easy attitude of a young man. The two fell in love for a while and then got married.

After learning the lessons of his first failed marriage, Tengger took his second marriage very seriously and became much more mature. He was no longer the dissolute uncle who drank and had fun all day long.

So in the second year after marriage, 44-year-old Tengger had her first child.

In fact, he has always been looking forward to having a child, so he chose the name of the child ten years ago - Gajir, which means "earth" in Mongolian.

After his daughter was born, Tengger loved her even more and even wrote a song in her name.

However, just as Tengger was about to become a winner in life, bad news suddenly came, shattering all the middle-aged man's defenses.

In 2007, he and his wife’s son was born, but their 3-year-old daughter was diagnosed with a congenital disease, resulting in paralysis of both legs.

After learning the news, Tengger quit all performances and visited famous doctors, but to no avail.

After several years of treatment, Gajeel left this beautiful world in 2010 when he was only 6 years old.

Tengger never recovered from the fall.

He was heartbroken when he lost his daughter in old age. He often cried alone and had no interest in doing anything.

Some people say that it may be a congenital disease caused by Tengger's long-term alcoholism.

But we can only guess what the reason was. We only know that his daughter was the pain in his life, and it took many years to get out of the shadows.

In 2018, Tengger participated in a variety show and on a whim, he sang the Mongolian folk song "Song of Farewell" at the dinner table.

This is a song that the family will sing when a girl gets married.

Perhaps it was because he suddenly thought of his daughter that Tengger burst into tears and stopped singing with sobs.

In our opinion, he has always been a rough, bold, and generous tough guy, but when it comes to his daughter, he is always the gentlest father.

After experiencing the pain of losing his daughter, Tengger’s whole person changed.

He no longer drinks, except for occasional sips.

When he appeared in the public eye again, he had a completely new attitude.

By singing covers of various popular songs, he became famous again and became the "cute uncle" in the eyes of the audience.

Maybe the daughter of heaven will also feel happy for her father when she sees what he is like now.

Also influenced by his daughter, Tengger went back to his hometown to plant trees every Qingming Festival in order to repent.

His family has a 5,000-acre pasture, which is called "Tengerlin".

In addition, he also donated money to establish a skills competition for Mongolian middle school students in Ordos, including horse riding, archery, Mongolian chess, singing and dancing and other traditional Mongolian events.

Some people say that the death of his daughter paid for his dissolute behavior when he was young, but fortunately he could wake up in time.

Understand that a person’s true happiness is not about having friends all over the world, nor is it about having a brilliant career, but about a happy family, a healthy wife and children, that’s enough!