What did your ex do to make you give her up completely?

He didn't do anything wrong, but I gave him up if I did anything wrong.

Love makes people blind. At that time, I was blinded by love, thinking that as long as I had sincerity, I could change a person, forgive again and again, and be disappointed again and again.

Later, I was moved by his acting skills and told him with a tearful smile. Actually, I have noticed it. Still not breaking up, he confessed to me. We met during the summer vacation, and they slept together. He was just playing. A woman who is too easy to get is a man who will not refuse but will not take it seriously.

Girls always think they can go through fire and water for each other This is true love. So when he was an intern, I dropped out of high school just to be with him.

But it seems that not everything can be achieved. I mean, I dropped out of school successfully, and the place where I worked was not in the same city as his internship. Men who are new to society are full of curiosity about everything, and all kinds of temptations can't resist. The breakup was said by a childhood friend he knew since childhood, and then the phone was hacked and WeChat QQ was deleted. A good name can't bear to hurt me, and he will feel bad when I cry.

I just didn't understand at the time. He's running away. He doesn't love him but he won't tell me frankly.

Yes, you can't learn a long memory twice. He moved to the third city to work, which just played the card of my best feelings for him. I think the prodigal son has returned. He went to his city without hesitation.

We live together, which is much warmer than the newlyweds: he will make breakfast for me before going to work, and he will buy food and wash my hands to make bridal soup after work in the afternoon. I washed his clothes, cleaned up the house he rented, and held his hand and went shopping together on weekends. I just never met my colleagues who live downstairs and said that they were in the opposite class.

Until one day he saw the chat records that he couldn't delete, his brother asked him what to do at home during the New Year.

He replied that it was a big deal to take his "green plum" back and deal with it first. Anyway, he is confident that he will win her heart sooner or later.

The next day, when he went to work, I cleaned our "home" carefully, washed his clothes for the last time, and packed all my things as if I had never been here again.

In the end, I also became his "immoral" woman. I thought I could move him, but in the end I found that I couldn't even move myself.

Just broke up. He was my first love, and we have been together for five years.

I came to his city in order not to break up after graduation. At first, my salary was very low and I owed a lot of money. Later, it gradually paid off and his work improved. I always follow in his footsteps, and wherever he is, I work there.

My health is not very good. No serious illness, minor illness. A northerner and a southerner. There is a big difference in diet. I have been accommodating him, and he has tolerated me. He let me do what I like and gave me a sense of security.

Cholecystitis occurred frequently last month. Consult a doctor, only the gallbladder can be removed. In order to save money, I went home and had an operation. It was during this period that he added a girl's WeChat friend and started flirting. On July 5th, I couldn't reach him. I checked his Alipay consumption records. Seeing the consumption records of hotels and movies is like a bolt from the blue. Later, he broke up with me without explaining. I didn't want it to end like this, so I went to see him. He kept me, but he still wanted to have sex with that girl. It was not until the other day that we really finished completely.

Incredibly, that girl knew that he had a girlfriend from the beginning. Even the second stay was invited by her. (I also took their WeChat chat records and wanted to get back at them. Think about it or forget it, it doesn't matter, there is no need to waste time)

Five years of love, it's hard to let go. Mistakes in principle are unforgivable. Even if you love again, let go. What's more, from the moment he cheated on me, he stopped loving me, and he was no longer worthy of my love.

Half of the bride price money was given to my parents. I don't want anything from his house, not even an RV. After the marriage, I knew very well that his mother wanted to wait for the bride price to help his son do business, but I gave him half and the other half divorced my parents. That's what he meant. Now the child is dragging me and asking me to help him raise it. Well, I can't bear to give the child to his family. I'm still breastfeeding. Don't give it to his family It is really hard for me to live. At first, he didn't want to give alimony. Then he was afraid that I would give it to him every month. After half a year, he gave it twice. I know in my heart that he is dragging me. It has been mental violence and cold violence for half a year, and mastitis is killing me. I really can't stand it. Sometimes I just want to send my children. I can't bear to look at this child. He started quarreling when he was seven months pregnant, saying that my parents were not good every day. I quarreled in the hospital while enduring prenatal examination, the next month, and the next month when my child was hospitalized with pneumonia. Whenever my family can't do it, he said. Less than a month after he returned to his parents-in-law's house, he and his mother confirmed that the couple had been kicked out because my father borrowed our money. His mother is not good for me and the baby. She bought two Chinese bras for 25 yuan, but she was reluctant to spend the rest. It doesn't matter, but don't control my mother's life. She's the one who fucking said east. You can't say western. You must do as she says. Food and fruit are still well divided. Good fruit is hidden under the refrigerator. If you buy too much meat, you will scold the old man. And always alienate me from my husband. Open your fucking mouth and shut up. Never leave the word money. Ask you all day which relatives in your family give money for having children. I still can't see that my husband is good to me. Mother-in-law holds the child, and her husband wants to hold it. Her mother-in-law doesn't let her husband hold it, which shows that she is considerate of my husband and says those considerate words, as if I don't care about my husband. If I let my husband hug me, my husband will be angry. I don't think I understand him. I think it is thoughtless for him to wash the children's clothes instead of washing them. But who knows that I look after the children day and night, and I am very tired. I didn't do well in confinement and got sick. As a new mother, I also need to be considerate. Who can understand me?

I think I will live, too. I don't smoke and drink like my mother-in-law, and I don't cuckold my husband. I never gave him a conflict. The husband's family joked that this marriage was not allowed, but the husband listened to his mother. Should such a family really give their children to him? I have no financial resources.

It's not what he did wrong, it's what I did wrong. He said I was stupid, I couldn't give him what he wanted, and I wouldn't have any charm without working. In fact, he stays up with me in different places every night, complaining about his boss and his work. I quit my job and joined him. He said he wanted me to have a child, but he told me he had nothing. Although I gave him a small amount of pocket money, one thousand at a time, two at a time. I washed his clothes and brushed his shoes like his mother. I bought a house in my hometown under my own name, and I have to pay back a mortgage of 2000 yuan every month. Finally, he thought I was in a bad state and asked me out to play. I didn't want to go out alone, but he became more and more perfunctory. Finally, I really couldn't stand the gap, so I asked my former colleagues to introduce me to work, packed my luggage and left. Before I left, he said that if I didn't resign, I would always be Bai Yueguang in his heart. There is nothing to say. Not long after I left, I was told to go back. If I didn't come back ... I stormed back to find a job for him. He thinks I am a children's art teacher, and he despises me. He resigned. He asked me to go back and forth from where and bought a ticket to Nanjing. Now apply to settle in Nanjing, waiting for the audit results. ...

My ex-wife actually called my mother-in-law when I entered the operating room with a heart attack and said, "Whose son pays for the doctor himself and has no money to borrow. It has nothing to do with her anyway. " At that time, we didn't quarrel or have anything unhappy! At that time, my sister-in-law and brother just heard that their hearts were broken! I kicked her out less than a week after she left the hospital. I just bought a house the year before last with a loan of 680,000 yuan. I borrowed money from my brother to see a doctor! How can there be such a woman in the world? I didn't expect this sentence to come out of her mouth! I swear I'll make her restless for life! Unforgiven! I'd rather be in debt than spend a day with such a woman. The first paragraph like this used to only happen on TV! After five fucking years together, it's on the dog.

He said I was material.

That buddy has always been a clever spokesman in my mind, but he has no pursuit. He is thinking about relying on family money and connections.

I have liked him since the fourth grade of primary school, and I have established a relationship since I graduated from junior high school, but I broke up for personal reasons (I met a pervert halfway, and I was disgusted with men's physical contact for a while, and I felt sick when he pulled my hand).

They are not high school classmates, but he has a new girlfriend in another school. I haven't been in love for three years in high school, so I can't let him go.

Sophomore reunion met again and made up. Later, they learned that I acted as a third party. He broke up with his girlfriend to start over with me.

Gradually, I found that he didn't pursue it and never thought about what he was trying to do. He just wants to rely on his family, including his house and job! Even if he failed in the exam, he asked his relatives to help him in private.

Let me have no confidence, and I am disappointed in him from now on!

Maybe he is too realistic and I am too naive. Later, he said I was materialistic, and I was sure to get angry (I gave him a big caterpillar doll when I fell in love and broke up, and it didn't cost me anything), so I asked him to find something immaterial.

He really went to find a new one, saying that he was looking for comfort. In the end, he got married before me (not the one looking for comfort).

No one is right or wrong, just say it's fate. Sometimes I think, maybe I shouldn't start over with him when I was a sophomore. This is what happens to me as a third party.

I broke up with my ex because her feelings for us were wavering. She always thought I was too good and would dump her. This is called insecurity. But this is not the key issue, because any insecurity can be solved through communication. But then she accepted the introduction of others to go on a blind date, and I resolutely broke up.

I used to be the kind of person who thought I would marry my first love and love each other for life. So I am also very cautious about love, afraid that I will take a detour because I am not mature enough. I haven't promised many girls' confession before. So my first love was very late, and my junior year started. My girlfriend is a junior high school classmate and she doesn't study well. She didn't go to college after graduating from high school. But it's beautiful. It can be said that the skin is white and beautiful.

I married her directly, without second thoughts. Therefore, I can say that I gave her my heart and soul, and pinned my beautiful imagination of love for more than 20 years on her. How good is it to her? Compared with all the Qiong Yao dramas, Korean dramas and the sweetest and warmest male images you have ever seen, it is not inferior. Even her brother in high school, I spare energy to give key guidance in my study.

Later, a group of annoying aunts appeared around her, telling her all day that your boyfriend is so excellent and has such a high degree of education that it is easy to find someone better than you. There's nothing I can do to get rid of you in the future At first, she didn't waver. Later, after listening to more, she gradually wavered and confided to me. But whatever I say and do can reassure her.

She broke up with me, too. I was scared and I tried to make it right. She passed it on through a friend without answering the phone. Several emotional crises have been solved. However, at the most critical and tense time of my postgraduate entrance examination, she broke up again. Different from before, this time she went to see a blind date introduced by others.

At that time, I felt that this relationship, like a domino, had begun to collapse. I once believed that "if a person likes me, I also like her, as long as she is treated wholeheartedly, she will not leave me", and I also understood from that day on that it was wrong.

Sad, that's for sure. Men don't flick their tears just because they haven't reached the sad place yet. My tears are dripping on my own problem set of calculus, linear algebra and probability theory. The collapse of love made me sad for a long time, and it took several months to recover.

There is only one reason why I give up loving someone, that is, this person overdraws my trust in him and makes me lose confidence in the feelings of the two people in the future.

A person's poverty is not terrible, his illness is not terrible, and he has no ability. The terrible thing is that his heart is not here at all. If he doesn't have you in his heart, no matter how much you pay, he won't see you; If he doesn't have you in his heart, no matter what happens to you, he won't give you more pity and care than passers-by. With such a man, you can't see the future, and there is no future worth looking forward to.

I used to think that a good woman would be happy if she married anyone. In fact, this idea is wrong. The better a woman is, the easier it is to meet and cultivate love rat. Because men have bad habits, he is always testing your bottom line, just as men become bad when they have money. Your unconditional and bottomless tolerance and connivance can only let him do whatever he wants.

Any experienced woman will understand that it doesn't matter whether a married man has rights or wealth, but whether he has conscience is the most important thing. A man with a conscience will appreciate your kindness to him, and he will feel uneasy when he does something wrong. A person without conscience doesn't care about hurting others, and he won't repent when he is wrong.

Women should never think that they are the creator and can transform men. A person with bad habits, a person without conscience, will not change because you are good to him. If the man you meet is cheating, domestic violence, gambling addiction, no matter how deep your feelings are, you must leave decisively. Loving the wrong person is not terrible. The terrible thing is that there is no stop loss in time!

There's nothing wrong with it. It's good.

Until that day, she was inseparable from another boy.

I really have no reason not to let go.

In a relationship, if one party gives up the other party, it should be what everyone calls chilling!

No matter whether the other party is cheating, whether it's mistress or Wang or attitude problems, my heart is cold, so I won't quarrel with you, and suddenly one day I will disappear into your world.

In fact, this disappearance will not be very sudden. I should have communicated with you many times before and given many opportunities, but your indifference slowly consumed his love for you.

I always find that the person I love deeply will be hurt all over in the end, and the person who is sincere will always meet the other half who ignores his sincerity. The person who is loved has always relied on him to love me, and he will not leave me and ignore each other's love.

Man, don't always doubt that the girl who gives you heart and soul has other plans for you. Many girls who really love you just because you gave her a warm heart feeling that other men can't give her!

You have money and status, which is just a bonus point. She doesn't love you, you are just a passer-by! What if you have money and status? What you are most proud of can't keep a woman who is dead set on you.

Woman, don't always think you are beautiful, and fool people who are sincere to you! Actually, there are many beautiful girls. It is shocking that the makeup technology is so powerful now. Your so-called beauty is just a cloud! When you are old, you are no longer young. Do you think if I just love you, that beautiful one will continue to accompany you? Stop fooling around with him who loves you.

Many people say: how do I know if he really loves me?

Friend, do you have a heart? Do you have eyes? Is it true?/You don't say. Can't you feel it? Can't you analyze it? Or do you feel his sincerity, but don't want to believe it because of your dark history?

You have eyes, but you like to see people who really love you with your ears. You would rather stay in that black history and suffer, than hand over your heart again. He deserved to leave you, and you shouldn't be loved anymore!

Maybe it's not the other person or you who is wrong, but the stupid old man who always pulls the wrong red line!

Really always meet with slag!

Or does Yue Lao want to let his heart move unintentionally?

Yue Lao is also really fond of joking. He forgot that what finally touched him was his sincere self!