Diary of My Parent-child Journey (5) Report II by Wu

Monday, July 2020 13? Parent-child Diary (2) 865

On July 1 1 day, 2020, Wu, an expert in family education and the founder of the National School-Education Alliance, was invited by the County Education and Sports Bureau and the Third Experimental Primary School to give parents in our county a wonderful offline family education course "Accompany children and get out of anxiety".

18 Arrive at Wanshajin Hotel at 7: 00 am. Director Liu Hui and Teacher Lu have arrived early. My task is to be responsible for parents signing in, sending and receiving mobile phones and distributing jerseys.

Less than 8 o'clock, parents entered the scene one after another, including many friends from the literary and art circles who had never met before. I greet you and guide you to sign in.

At 8: 30, the activity officially began. Teacher Lu gave a warm speech, introduced President Wu and welcomed him.

After the report began, President Wu also sat on the podium because everyone was sitting on the floor, and had a face-to-face convection with everyone, which fully showed his approachable side.

The whole report is divided into four parts:

1. label

President Wu first asked everyone to play an interactive game, and invited five parents to take the stage, so that everyone could score separately. I counted and summarized the scores and handed them to President Wu. Then, President Wu left two parents with the highest score and the lowest score. Finally, President Wu exchanged identities, which made their mood change like a roller coaster.

In fact, I don't have statistics on this score at all. Through this game, President Wu made everyone understand that parents should never label their children. Originally, the child was normal. You say what he is every day, and then he really becomes something.

2. Anxiety

Many parents have anxiety in educating their children, mainly manifested in poor academic performance, and children like to talk back and not listen to their parents. In my opinion, children's poor grades are due to their lack of good study habits. Children's rebellion is a normal phenomenon when they enter adolescence, and it is a performance when they grow up.

The team sent a form with more than 20 items for parents to fill in carefully. I summarize the scores in a unified way, and according to the scores, I can see the anxiety index of parents.

exchange; communicate

The parent-child relationship between parents and children is poor, largely because parents are busy making money and accompanying their children. And I'm not good at communicating with children, and I can't hear the implication of children's words. Being able to communicate is a sign of high emotional intelligence, which requires parents to keep learning.

revise

President Wu taught everyone a way to correct the way of speaking, changing "your language" into "my language" to make children willing to listen.

At the event, President Wu invited some children to speak freely on stage. Many parents shed tears when they heard their children complain about them. What moved everyone most was that at first, the little boy angrily accused his mother of her groundless accusations, but when her mother apologized, he immediately forgave her, wiping his tears and saying nothing.

Put yourself in others' shoes. Sometimes, we are really not as good as children. He can forgive us unconditionally and love us. And we are always eager for the perfection of our children and blindly compare with other children.

After the activity, we saw the parent-child diary shared by the mother, which shows that she has the courage to change. As long as it is not too late to change, there is always room for improvement. I believe that as long as this mother learns to reflect, sets a good example, keeps a parent-child diary and encourages and praises her children more, there will be gratifying changes.

I hope all parents will learn from that mother. Be good at change, bravely pick up paper and pen, record children's daily life, and feel the charm of parent-child growth.

President Wu's offline activities made the parents and children at the scene undergo a spiritual baptism. Finally, he told everyone a good news. In future offline activities, the T-shirt of "Let Love Spread" is the passport.