Why don't netizens encourage them to follow their husbands back to Zhou Zhou in West Africa?

With the deepening of international communication, "transnational love" has become a very common thing at present. Cross-border marriages that happen to young people also happen from time to time. Although the nationalities of couples are mostly Japan, South Korea, Europe and America, there are also many African nationals.

These two days, a blogger named "Zhou Zhou is in West Africa" posted on the social platform that "I want to go back to his hometown with my African husband". After the news was released, it attracted the attention of many friends, and some netizens tried their best to persuade her to stay in China.

A netizen left a message below: "You are as old as my daughter. She goes to college in America. I don't know why you chose to marry an uncle and have children at the age when you should be studying. " I respect your choice and pray that your life in Africa will be smooth. However, if life deceives you, you must stop in time. Life is a long way, not too late, girl, please remember. "

At the same time, out of concern for this woman, local (West African) Chinese also told her to keep in touch. However, on August 1 day, the message sent to the girl has not been answered, which has also aroused widespread concern. With the fermentation of things, the topic of "Zhou Zhou lost contact in West Africa" rushed to the hot search again. At present, the total page views of all platforms are nearly 654.38+0 billion.

This incident also attracted the attention of the relevant departments, but just as everyone was talking about it, the party concerned (Zhou Zhou) came out to speak. The girl said that she had a good time there, so that everyone didn't have to worry. The specific contents of the speech are as follows:

"Hello, I'm Zhou Zhou. First of all, thank you for your concern for me. I'm fine now, thanks! I just wanted to record my life, but I didn't expect to get so much attention from my friends. I'm a little overwhelmed. It's the third trimester, and my mood may be a little unstable, so many friends didn't reply in time, which may have caused misunderstanding. I'm sorry to worry you Here, I'd like to respond to several issues that you are more concerned about.

Some fans say that Zhou Zhou can only go to Africa for a physical examination alone. After settling down here, my husband began to look for a hospital and then accompanied me to check. I will do it tomorrow. This is the last check-up before delivery. It doesn't exist, as everyone said on the Internet. The hospital environment here is really not as good as that in China. You can send some hospital environments in the future.

Some fans said that Zhou Zhou was her husband's third wife and was pregnant before marriage. There are few such wives in my husband's family. We originally planned to get married at the end of 20021. However, due to some special reasons, it can only be postponed until the beginning of 2022, which may cause misunderstanding to us. Thank you very much for your caring friends. Thank you. "

Through her reply, it seems that everyone is "worried", so why do the friends unanimously discourage this girl from going back to West Africa? In my opinion, it is mainly the following three factors:

The first is that their lifestyles are different. People in West Africa don't pay much attention to hygiene. They can eat with their hands and don't care about flies flying around when cooking. They can go without bathing or changing clothes for several days and still feel normal, which many of us can't adapt to.

Secondly, the three views are different. Their male family values and love values are even weaker. A man can have more than one wife, and he is not so "family-oriented" as a man in China. It is also common to become lazy and violent after marriage. Because of the limited ability to accept knowledge, it is difficult to communicate well with reason in daily life.

The other is the "unhappiness" of married women, which is recorded in history. I wonder if my friends have heard the story of Rola Chen. Rola Chen chose love and went to Africa with her husband without hesitation, but later found that her husband already had a family. But it's too late. All her documents have been taken away by her husband, and there is no hope of returning to China. Even if Rola Chen's father went to see someone later, he couldn't go back to China because there was no necessary procedure. Zhou Zhou's situation is very similar to that of Rola Chen, which is one of the important reasons why everyone tries to dissuade him.

Although I don't know if there is any marketing component in this matter, if it is true, we can only wish her happiness and hope not to regret it in the future.