The man's family doesn't come to the door and goes directly to the hotel. Do you accept it?

There is nothing to accept or not to accept such a thing. It's mainly about you and your wife You have to discuss it!

You are a woman, so you are wrong. Learning everything from home, isn't this creating contradictions at home? After you know about it, decide for yourself whether to accept it or not. If you don't accept it, tell your boyfriend and let him try his best to persuade his family to come to your house. If you can accept it, you must try your best to convince your family, even if you describe his mother as almost immobile.

You can be a liar at both ends, but you can't be a liar at both ends. If this continues, it will only create contradictions between the two sides.

I suggest you find your boyfriend. Let him do ideological work at home. Because he said he had a heart attack, that's no reason. If you can't climb the sixth floor, it's basically the kind that doesn't go out! In addition, to say the least, paying attention to the daughter-in-law is also one of my own contributions! Even if I carry my daughter-in-law home in a big sedan chair, I feel I have face!

When you talk to your boyfriend, don't pay too much attention to the tone. Just talk about it. As I said above, paying attention to the woman's family is also saving face for yourself.

Besides, I can't go up to the sixth floor. Why don't you take me to the second floor, sit down and rest 10 minutes, and then go upstairs and rest 10 minutes ...?

In fact, you know the situation best, so you'd better make up your mind. But don't let these two periods conflict again, if you want to get married well. ...