Is it true that no one complains about Xu Qing?

This person has stopped growing psychologically.

I want to be taken care of, but I don’t know how to take care of others.

I enjoy the feeling of being pampered by a man, but I don’t know how to get along with others, especially not with women of the same sex.

In fact, she was not very happy in the first season.

However, there was Hua Chenyu with her in the first season. This man was also a young man who needed to be taken care of and could not get along with her.

Xu Qing naturally got closer to Hua Chenyu.

As for Hua Chenyu, he also knows few people, is not very sensitive to human feelings, and has no special likes or dislikes for women.

Others treat him as a child, Xu Qing treats him as a younger brother, and the two naturally get along well.

Xu Qing and Hua Chenyu get along well. It was also because in the team at that time, these two people were the weakest in self-care ability. Birds of a feather flock together, so the two naturally bonded together.

Zhang Han and Xu Qing don’t have much conflict.

Zhang Han is like an idol. He always carries himself. He always wants to make his own decisions and doesn't like to listen to others.

This kind of man is actually very easy to deal with. The more he pretends to be tall and serious, the more you talk to him in depth about personal matters, especially emotional matters, he will be like a little brother meeting a close sister.

Moreover, Zhang Han is a bit like Xu Qing, they just go their own way.

In this way, in the first season, Xu Qing’s relationship with Hua Chenyu and Zhang Han, two relatively simple boys, was okay. Therefore, she thought the first season was quite enjoyable.

However, whether it is the first season or the second season, she is not liked by women. This is the same thing.

Moreover, she doesn't care about this. What she desires most is to win the favor of a man.

She is actually very poor at taking care of herself. On the one hand, she needs a man to care for her, and on the other hand, she has made too many enemies among other women.

In the second season, things are different.

The change is not in the sisters in the group, but in the men.

Jing Boran is obviously more worldly and sophisticated than Zhang Han. A person can adjust the relationships between various people and ease conflicts. This kind of person actually has his own likes and dislikes, but he just won't show them. Jing Boran probably doesn't like Xu Qing, but he won't show it. Moreover, Jing Boran deliberately flirted with Zheng Shuang in the show. Even if he wanted to get closer to a certain girl, Jing Boran would choose Zheng Shuang instead of Xu Qing. In this way, Xu Qing and Jing Boran do not have a strong bond.

Yang Yang is younger. But he is not living in another world completely like Hua Chenyu in the first season. He definitely knows more about human relationships than Hua Chenyu, and he doesn't need others to take care of him that much. He is a boy who wants to take care of others. He may not think of himself as someone who can't take care of others. Comparing the two seasons, we can see that Yang Yang is a person who rarely causes trouble for others. Hua Chenyu, like Xu Qing, often causes trouble for others. Both of them live in their own world, but Hua Chenyu will cause trouble. After realizing it later, she would apologize, but Xu Qing did not think that she was wrong.

So, the relationship between the two men and Xu Qing in the second season of the show is not as close as that in the first season.

In this way, she felt that it was not as good as the first season.

My analysis should be tenable.

I think Xu Qing has a dependent personality, and she is dependent on men, and she is passively dependent.

She is unsophisticated and not good at dealing with interpersonal relationships.

This is not a big mistake.

In "Sisters Over Flowers", Lin Chiling did not get along so warmly with other members, and they always seemed to be separated by a layer of separation.

But sister Zhiling obviously has much higher emotional intelligence than Xu Qing. She can't get along with other people, but she knows not to cause trouble to others.

In one episode, sister Zhiling was scorched by chili peppers while eating, so she endured it by herself, but others saw it and she spoke out.

Xu Qing’s focus on interpersonal relationships lies in her relationship with men.

She is satisfied if she has a good relationship with a man. If she doesn't have a good relationship with a man, she won't be satisfied.

She ignored other women.

This is an interesting psychological problem.

Some men are very popular with women. In the eyes of women, they have many advantages, but men are disgusted with them.

The same goes for some women, especially beautiful women, who are naturally disgusted by other women, while men surround themselves with nice words and attentiveness all day long. Over time, she no longer cares what other women think, and feels that only men can discover her own glory. If you do this, you can give full play to your characteristics that can please the opposite sex.

I have actually seen a lot of these people. They are very popular with men, but not with women. They don't care what other women think. Anyway, there are a lot of men around them, and there are also high-quality men.

Whether it is the first or second season, there are no women who have a good relationship with her, only women who are polite to her.

Any woman who is older than her, or similar to her, has a more mature mentality, and does not like Xu Qing very much.

Xu Qing could have had a good relationship with the younger sisters in the group as a big sister.

It’s a pity that she doesn’t even know how to use such a low-level method.

I could have used Zhang Han to get closer to Zheng Shuang, but it ended up like this. I really can’t get along with him.

If Yang Yang was the same person as Hua Chenyu in this season, she might not have such big complaints.

She is used to women having a bad relationship with her. She felt uncomfortable when a man didn't even bring her to see her.

The above is not a criticism of Xu Qing.

Actually, I think Xu Qing is okay.

(Of course, I will not marry a wife like this.)

(Of course, I am sure some men with financial means will marry her. Some people are already rich. , I don’t need a wife to take care of my life, but I also need a woman who is not tacky in spirit)

First of all, she is definitely not a scheming woman, it’s just that she is a bit inappropriate for her age.

This person is definitely a person who pays attention to emotions and is harmless to humans and animals in life.

It is considered pollution-free.

There must be no scheming.

Just a person who is very dependent on others.

She is usually taken care of by an agent who is familiar with her, and may be cared for by a man who is very considerate of her. She is content and lives the life a little woman should live, without having to deal with other people, free and easy. Live in your own world.

Just because she was on this show, everything was exposed.

In fact, everyone has a psychological safety zone, and everyone will adapt when they step out of their psychological safety zone.

It’s just that her reaction is different from ordinary people.