Don't let your education tie you down.

what is the way out for graduate students?

Today, when I look at WeChat official account, I see a reader who wrote a letter to Liu Yuanyuan.

This reader is a graduate mother who gave birth to three babies (including twins).

her problem is the worry about academic qualifications.

she and I have the same confusion.

I was once trapped in this pit and couldn't extricate myself.

I feel that if you have an advantage in academic qualifications, you should be "superior" to others and should be treated differently!

however, when I first joined the work, many things I did were similar to handyman's work, and gradually I felt extremely unbalanced.

With the longer working hours, but my working ability has not improved much, I gradually feel that I am only a few pounds, even worse than someone with a lower education than me, and then I deny myself more and more and feel that I am very poor!

At work, I am more and more anxious and less confident about my personal ability!

slowly, it entered a vicious circle!

in fact, the most essential reason is that I expect too much! Always set high standards for yourself!

I think that a high degree should be better than others, and should be better than others in all aspects.

but in reality, I always smack my face!

how is that possible?

no one is perfect, and everyone has his defects!

Without this title, where would these troubles and burdens come from? They are all much ado about nothing, and they are trapped in the "ego" and cannot extricate themselves!

I was so stubborn before!

Liu Yuanyuan, graduated from Peking University, but now she works as an anchor and sells books live, which is far away from her major, but she is still doing a good job!

why can she do her career so well?

I think it is very important that she doesn't care much about what others think.

She knows exactly what she thinks, what she wants to do and what she likes.

then, regardless of what others think and see, abandon all other people's opinions and just be yourself.

Li Xueqin is also such a number one person.

I've been attacked before, and I've been scolded, but so what!

just understand yourself.

it doesn't mean that all of us have to follow the path of others!

No, it means that education or some titles should not be a stumbling block to us, but should be used for us and serve us!

it's not that we choose a path that doesn't suit us at all for the sake of our academic qualifications and what the world calls "should".

How to choose in life should be inward, not outward!

you should live according to your heart, not the standards of the world!

Today, I read the book "The Second Bloom" and saw this passage, which may not be consistent with today's theme, but I really want to share it with you.

There always seems to be endless troubles in life, such as work troubles, education troubles, family troubles, parenting troubles and so on.

it seems that this trouble has just been solved, and that trouble has reappeared.

but if you don't understand the essence of things and go back to the source of your troubles, you'll never find a way out!