How to treat comrades-in-arms gathering?

Our comrades-in-arms get together after 38 years.

When I was eighteen, I joined the army, sharing a pot of rice, training and studying, and having a deep friendship.

When I met the monitor of the new recruits, I felt mixed feelings and burst into tears. I couldn't forget his concern and severity, which made me retire step by step in my future military career.

I can't forget the company commander, instructor and platoon leader's preference for me as a rural youth. When I joined the party, entered the school and promoted, I got a green light all the way, and I didn't take any relationship. At that time, the atmosphere of the army was real.

as long as you work hard, the honor you deserve will definitely be yours. I miss the growing environment of the troops at that time and the true feelings of my comrades at that time.

Hello, I'm Maya, a demobilized military cadre, and I'm glad to talk about my views on this topic.

I don't know once upon a time, the gathering of comrades-in-arms suddenly exploded among the people, blossoming everywhere, and it was very lively. Personally, I don't approve of this kind of organized and undisciplined large-scale gathering of comrades-in-arms, and it is not worth advocating.

personally, I have twice turned down comrade-in-arms parties under different names, not because I feel superior, disdainful of interacting with them, or narcissistic. I just feel that the vast majority of comrades-in-arms gatherings are just wrapped in the cloak of "reminiscing about war friendship" and "drinking eggs", which is really unnecessary. This kind of comrade-in-arms gathering, the general process is to visit the old company (in fact, it has a certain impact on the company's work, of course, some may be directly rejected), take a group photo as a souvenir, have dinner and drink, and get drunk.

There are three main reasons why I resist this kind of "stale and nutritious" comrades-in-arms gathering:

First, comrades-in-arms gathering has become a stage for a few people to show off their power and wealth. In fact, this is also the common problem of most of this meeting and that meeting. Whether comrades-in-arms or classmates, everyone's ability level and development opportunities are different, which inevitably leads to a big gap in social status and personal wealth. At parties, there will always be a small number of so-called successful comrades who want to take this opportunity to satisfy the vanity of their successful people. If you must label people as so-called successful people with "position" or "wealth" in the secular world, no matter whether you mix well or badly, there is no need for comrades to feel ashamed or arrogant. There is no need to compare with each other, love the poor and love the rich, and we must not be cynical and hurt each other.

Second, the gathering of comrades-in-arms has become a utilitarian marketing meeting. Since the comrades-in-arms meeting has unfortunately become a show where a few people perform poorly, naturally some people come to join in the fun with various ulterior motives. There are hundreds of people, all kinds. After leaving the army, individuals are eager for quick success and instant benefit, and always want to get rich overnight, live an enviable life, drive a luxury car, live in a villa and hug beautiful women. Driven by this deviation from the normal track values, these people dare to take risks and engage in some businesses such as pyramid schemes that are on the verge of breaking the law. These people's keen sense of smell and greed for unexpected wealth will naturally not miss a good opportunity to accumulate contacts such as comrades-in-arms gatherings. After a few pleasantries, I definitely asked to leave a phone number and add a WeChat, and I will contact you often in the future. The meaning of drunkenness is not wine! There will be many things that will annoy you in the future.

Third, the gathering of comrades-in-arms has evolved into a battlefield where people eat, drink and fight for wine. The highlight of most comrades-in-arms gatherings must be gathering for dinner and drinking, and the climax mostly appears when everyone is drunk and hot. I'm not against drinking, as the saying goes, nothing can be achieved without drinking. What's more, soldiers, in the eyes of ordinary people, are generous people who are not drunk for thousands of cups. As the saying goes, drinking is not drunk. Between comrades-in-arms, drinking a few cups and stopping at a moderate amount can enhance feelings. However, most of the comrades-in-arms get together, but there is a scene of disharmony. The banquet is full of unhealthy phenomena such as persuading and fighting. After a fierce battle at the wine table, it must be a mess, drunk and full of ugliness. Some people have no virtue after drinking, talk nonsense and say things they shouldn't, but they hurt the feelings of their comrades-in-arms for many years.

to be honest, even if a company joined the army together, how many people have the same mind? "Birds of a feather flock together, people are divided into groups." Personally, I think that three or five close friends who share the same feelings among comrades-in-arms, if they live far apart, usually communicate by phone or WeChat to exchange feelings. If you have money and leisure time, you can visit each other, drink tea and cook wine, and remember the bitter experience, without disturbing your normal family life. Why not?

the opinions of one family are inevitably biased. welcome to discuss and communicate below.

The first Saturday of November every year is the day when our comrades in Huaiyin Box get together. We set out from Huaiyin on November 9, 1986, and arrived in Fujian, where we became a glorious pontoon bridge soldier. During my stay in the army, most of my comrades-in-arms retired from active service one after another, but several comrades-in-arms were admitted to military schools. After so many years, there are no comrades-in-arms in the army now. Among our 37 comrades-in-arms, there are various occupations, ranging from directors to small vendors, workers and drivers, but every year, comrades-in-arms parties actively sign up for them, and the expenses for the parties are AA. Let's brag and chat together, and talk about the work and life and family situation of the year. There is no distinction between high and low, and it is enjoyable. It's been 12 years since comrades-in-arms got together. Fortunately, 37 comrades-in-arms didn't "fall behind". Here, I wish all comrades-in-arms a smooth job and a happy family!

It's nothing interesting, just showing off. It's exciting if the country joins the army, and it's life and death. The other day, a 7-year-old soldier told me that recently, more than 7 comrades-in-arms from various provinces all over the country came out of 5 yuan and spent seven days in Jiujiang, Lushan and other places. He was tired of making arrangements every day and was bored to death. In the future, we won't hold such gatherings again. I say it's better to be a soldier in 68 years. After 7 years of discharge, there is no internet, no mobile phone, no phone, no contact with each other, and there are not so many things. There are about 7 people who can't stand it. But the true feelings of the former comrades are always there! Remember, being a soldier together is always a comrade-in-arms! I wish all comrades who have served as soldiers good health, happiness and longevity!

With the approach of August 1st, the gathering of comrades-in-arms has become a hot topic again. Let's talk about some reference opinions from the topic of the subject.

comrades in arms for a day, brothers for life, it is beyond reproach to get together properly. Comrades haven't seen each other for many years or even decades. Occasionally, they organize revisiting their old places or getting together in different places to be caring and attentive, reminisce about the past, enjoy delicious food, enjoy the beautiful scenery and take photos as a souvenir. It seems that they have returned to the moment when they entered the military camp, and there is indeed an unparalleled mood.

But after all, the old comrades have not seen each other for many years, and their health and other aspects have changed greatly. In many aspects, they are often willing to do more than they can do, and a little carelessness often leads to regret for life.

most of the participants in the comrades-in-arms party are happy, but the organization of eating, living, traveling and playing is very complicated, and the activities should be small rather than big, and the activities should be refined rather than excessive. You should think twice before joining in the fun-gathering across administrative regions and original units.

Conclusion: With the increase of age, the resistance and immune function of the elderly are declining year by year. Before the COVID-19 epidemic has been lifted, all parties are unnecessary risks. Taking care of the unique body is the best treasure for family and friendship.

whether it is suitable for comrades' reference, welcome to communicate, thank you!

comrades-in-arms' party is just a label, and it doesn't matter if you are excited about friendship. When you don't get together, you especially look forward to getting together for a long time, and when you get together for a short time, you rarely remember your years as a soldier. After a long time, some of them are bleak. The noisy topic is to show off and then show off. To tell the truth, the comrades who meet together must be influential comrades-in-arms, with social status and unsatisfactory life. I didn't care about my comrades-in-arms, but as a powerful comrade-in-arms, I know the contact information. I once visited a comrade-in-arms in Xinbinglian, and when I left, I didn't pay attention to saying: I have time to look at my home, which is in winter, but I didn't expect this comrade-in-arms to get off the train one stop earlier in December because he didn't know the way. He walked hundreds of miles in Snowy Road on a snowy night and found my home all the way in the middle of the night. Unfortunately, no one was at home and he didn't look at it The newly worn leather shoes are all open-mouthed. This kind of friendship is sincere. After 26 years of demobilization, he never attends comrades-in-arms parties, which makes him feel meaningless. At the dinner table, he is insincere and pretentious. I invited him several times, but I didn't understand it at that time. However, I often attended comrades-in-arms meetings in the early years, and various situations happened, and I gradually understood him. The friendship and brotherhood of war may not be deeper. (That's the old watchtower where I used to stand guard.)

I was a soldier in 1977. It's been 43 years since I retired from the army, during which I had two large-scale comrades-in-arms gatherings. According to the classification of viewpoints, the small-scale gathering is 6 times, and the two large gatherings are basically harmonious. Friendship in war, especially in the era when we lived, paid more attention to feelings than now. During our service, we just caught up with China's counterattack against Vietnam in self-defense. Because we are an air force, we have no chance to participate in the war, but we are also very nervous. The camp radio station is on duty 24 hours a day, and the duty elevator takes off and falls regularly. It is also close to the state of war, and all actions are more tense and serious than before. During the period, the combat emergency assembly was increased once a week, and the bullets of the sentry on duty had to go to class just to turn off the insurance. When changing jobs, the bullets of the laid-off soldiers left the sentry post after returning to the court to check their guns.

At one time, most of our comrades-in-arms were in the same army. Only a few comrades-in-arms were directly assigned to a certain unit of the military region after the training of the recruits' company. The night before each comrade-in-arms gathering was basically a memory. Now they are all over 6 years old. Our company commander and platoon leader have passed away, and all our comrades-in-arms are still alive. When they retired, they were all Beijing soldiers, and the jobs arranged after returning to Beijing were quite good. Because of the age, we all remember when we met, and the days have come, and we have to live a better life in our later years. Our current slogan, comrades-in-arms, is to see one side less. Nobody leaves until 99!

why can't comrades-in-arms get together? What do you mean by eating and drinking? I've been a soldier for three years, but I haven't seen you for ten years. Eating costs your family money. At first glance, you haven't been a soldier. There are 57 million veterans in China, which is also a valuable asset of the country. A man who has been a soldier has given his youth to his country and done his due duty. This is a complete man. I hate those people most, saying that people who have been soldiers are stupid. Without soldiers, we would have a happy life now. As an outsider, you are not qualified to comment on soldiers.

The gathering of comrades-in-arms has gained more and more momentum in recent years. Generally, there are three parts: gathering blessings, visiting memories, and slogans and songs.

I support the healthy and happy gathering of comrades-in-arms once a year or every 3-5 years: recalling the past, forgetting the future and deepening feelings. I object to tasteless and vulgar parties.

Our company has been awarded the second class merit for three consecutive years, and it has also been awarded the first class merit by the Liaoning Provincial Government. Comrades are in harmony and unity, and the company has strong cohesion and fighting capacity. All kinds of competitions, competitions and appraisals organized by the brigade camp are basically between the first and the second. Twenty years later, comrades-in-arms in Dalian organized a company party, and more than 1 comrades-in-arms came from all over the country. Everyone was very excited. They visited the company, visited the scenery, tasted the farm food, shouted slogans, left the queue, sang duets, and climbed Tongniuling. Accompanied by dancing and singing, the climax of the two-night banquet was wave after wave, and each wave was stronger than the other ... < P From this gathering, I love my comrades-in-arms in our company even more, and I also love the company that fought in those years. The connotation of the passionate years in the past has been further sublimated in the gathering: healthy, happy, sunny and uplifting ... < P > When comrades-in-arms meet their comrades-in-arms, they drink a lot of wine! In the circle of friends around me, all former soldiers can drink well, but in fact, some can't drink much. Let's cut short the gossip. As for comrades-in-arms parties, I am like this:

First, "comrades-in-arms, comrades-in-arms, like brothers", comrades-in-arms parties gather feelings and recall the years of being a soldier together. With the growth of age, it is still quite difficult to get together the brothers who once carried guns together. Generally, people who organize parties will inform everyone of the time, place, cost plan and activities one month in advance. In fact, it is very difficult to really get everyone together, because there will always be various unexpected situations leading to absence.

Second, after the comrades get together, they are nothing more than eating, drinking and having fun, talking about life and ideals. When they reach the age of marriage, ask if their girlfriends have been implemented. If they don't have girlfriends, everyone can help us find a way to fix them up. If they are married, talk about their married life, exchange experiences, and talk about parenting methods. However, these are not the most important links, and the fun is yet to come!

Third, with the deepening of the party, people drink more and more wine, some people start to speak awkwardly, some people start to tie their tongues, and the climax of the party slowly arrives. At this time, they usually do something that they usually do in the army, sing together, laugh at comrades with slots, or recall stupid things they did as soldiers, until they are always drunk in the end, as if they were back in the hot military camp and the training ground where they were screaming loudly!

Finally, I think the comrades-in-arms party is much more pure than the ordinary classmates' party. At the party, there is no boss, no leader, only a class, platoon, company or even a group of brothers who risk their lives together! After retiring from the army, people have their own aspirations and take different roads, but I always believe that all roads lead to Rome, and as long as we don't give up the perseverance of being a soldier, we will always succeed!