Is "Iron Lung" Huang Qishan's three marriages and three divorces all because of her parents?

"When a person changes his heart, he does not believe in his words. When a person breaks up with you, there is no point in being sad. I keep listening. I close my eyes, not daring to look at your expression. The sky is filled with endless shooting stars, and my tears cannot be wiped away. clean".

When Huang Qishan sang this song "Cut Love" many years later, the resentment and grief in her heart were unforgettable. This song was originally written for her by her husband Tu Huiyuan, but it was given to Zhang Huimei due to divorce.

It is rare that Huang Qishan has experienced ups and downs in marriage along the way. She was married three times and divorced three times. At the age of 52, she is still alone. She has lost her desire for marriage and only has Du Haitao as her "godson".

Huang Qishan was born in an ordinary family in Chongqing in 1968. Her mother gave birth to her when she was a minor at the age of 17. As the only daughter in the family, she has been doted on in every possible way since she was a child.

But this favor did not last long, because her parents got married too early and were immature in thinking. They divorced when Huang Qishan was in middle school. Perhaps due to the influence of her parents, Huang Qishan’s subsequent marriages It was also very rough. After three marriages and three divorces, I still didn’t understand people’s hearts.

So she grew up with her grandfather and learned many model plays from him. Over time, she gradually developed a strong interest in music. In a divorced family, music gave her a lot. The sense of security has become one of Huang Qishan's greatest joys in childhood.

At that time, "Sweet Song Queen" Teresa Teng's song "Sweet Honey" became popular in China. Influenced by it, Huang Qishan also began to learn pop songs. She wore a pair of headphones every day and listened to them early in the morning. I don’t feel tired at night.

Due to neglect of management, Huang Qishan played around with some gangsters in society every day and fought with them. When she was in elementary school, she became the eldest sister in the class. She was young and ignorant and thought it was cool. .

When she was 18 years old, Huang Qishan successfully signed up for the Chongqing Huahua Dance Troupe. Although the conditions were very difficult and she could only eat boiled vegetables every day, she was finally able to do what she liked and perform on stage. This is a great joy for her.

Afterwards, Huang Qishan went to Guangzhou to pursue her music dream, and later sang songs such as "Dreams and Hopes" and "Unbreakable Love". She also released "The Man Hiding Behind the Music" and "Asia's No. 1 "One Girl's Voice" and many other albums, but they have always been tepid and failed to establish their own popularity in the music circle.

At that time, she always wanted to enter the "Butong 100", which is where famous singers such as Na Ying and Mao Ning started. However, because of her "ugly" appearance, she was rejected after three consecutive interviews. Na Ying couldn't stand it anymore and said, "You don't want Huang Qishan now. When she becomes famous, you won't be able to get her anymore!" The boss then accepted her.

Until 2013, Huang Qishan participated in the singer competition reality show "I Am a Singer Season 1" as a singer in the starting lineup. Her cover of Liu Huan's "Can't Live Without You" amazed everyone and made many people present. Everyone couldn't help but shed tears. With their excellent strength, they won the fourth place in one fell swoop.

Her soul-stirring singing voice has finally been recognized by the audience and industry insiders. The 45-year-old Huang Qishan has finally become popular and is known as the "Iron Lung".

Although her career was bumpy, it was smooth sailing along the way. She was a late bloomer, but her marriage had gone through ups and downs, which made people feel distressed. Huang Qishan had three marriages, but they all ended in failure.

When she first arrived in Guangzhou, she met her first husband. At that time, Huang Qishan was only 20 years old. She and her boyfriend, who had not experienced tenderness for many years, were very obsessed with each other. After confirming their relationship, After that, they hurriedly entered the palace of marriage.

But when she was young, she didn’t understand what marriage was at all. She just loved each other passionately, thinking that they could grow old together. Faced with the trivial work after marriage, their love was quickly wiped out, and the two of them quickly lost their love. People parted ways in just a few years.

Because she invested too much emotion in this marriage, Huang Qishan couldn't help herself after the divorce and suffered from depression. Looking back on this memory many years later, Huang Qishan sighed with emotion: "If she had not chosen to leave at that time, If she goes out, her life will definitely not be the same as it is now.

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Later, when she was in Butong 100, she met her second husband Tu Huiyuan. Tu Huiyuan is a famous talent in the music circle, a famous producer in Taiwan, and the former gold medal songwriter of Zhang Huimei. people.

By chance, he heard Huang Qishan's singing in a bar. He was deeply attracted immediately and took the initiative to invite Huang Qishan to discuss music together. The temperature rises rapidly, and sparks appear from the collision.

One writes lyrics and the other composes. The combination of the two seems to outsiders to be a perfect match.

Huang Qishan, who had a failed marriage, did not learn from the mistakes and once again devoted herself to love without hesitation. She did not hesitate to give up her rapidly developing career and follow Tu Huiyuan to live in Taiwan.

Huang Qishan once again gave her all for this marriage, but her husband failed her again.

Due to different musical opinions, the two gradually developed conflicts, but later Huang Qishan cried on the show that the real reason for the breakdown of their marriage was the betrayal of the other party.

After two failed marriages, this woman who longed for love was unable to recover. In the following 10 years, her career was mediocre and she no longer had illusions about men.

During that time, she suffered from severe depression and wanted to commit suicide many times. She told her brother that she had severe insomnia and cheated her into taking sleeping pills. At that time, her brother did not notice anything unusual about her and even advised: " You can't eat more of this, you can only eat half a pill every night." After eating, Huang Qishan felt like she was floating in the air, and suddenly regretted it. Fortunately, she was rescued in time.

After that, she became addicted to Christianity and wanted to escape from life to get rid of the pain, but it still didn't help. No one knew how she survived that dark time.

Until 2013, Huang Qishan, who had recovered from the pain, met a man named Zhang Ying, who once again opened her originally closed heart.

Huang Qishan never thought that she would fall into the trap of marriage for the third time. She was still preparing to be a housewife and even announced that she was preparing for pregnancy and looking forward to the arrival of her child. Everyone was expecting this. Thinking she found her happiness this time.

But reality slapped her hard again. After marriage, Zhang Ying was very stubborn about Huang Qishan, who longed for love. He refused to work every day and relied on Huang Qishan for food and accommodation expenses. As time went by, Huang Qishan felt that she was too humble in the marriage, and the two of them quarreled constantly.

When the quarrel was very fierce, Huang Qishan was beaten violently. In the most serious case, Huang Qishan needed more than ten stitches.

Later, Huang Qishan was photographed staying in the same hotel as the musician Lu Yanwei, behaving affectionately. She was sued by Zhang Ying, and their marriage also broke down.

Her parents have divorced since she was a child and she lacks family care. She has a very strong desire for family warmth and hopes to fill the void in her heart, which is commonly known as "love brain". In fact, her parents are one of the culprits.

But the more anxious you are, the easier it is to get lost in feelings and not get them.

Now that Huang Qishan has gone through three failed marriages and is 52 years old, in her heart, she may have no longer longed for love and marriage, and she is only accompanied by Du Haitao, her "godson".

I hope she can bring us more wonderful songs in the rest of her life, and I also hope she is happy!