Which types of relationships between men and women are most likely to last for a long time?

The question has already told us the answer, it is love that lasts for a long time! Isn’t there a classic saying by Zhang Ailing: What is the passage to a woman’s heart? To say that the easiest relationship between a man and a woman is to have a relationship in bed!

Don’t think that it’s just Italian friends who can’t have true feelings. There is such a real example around me. My husband's friend has a regular girlfriend, and their nightlife is very harmonious. After a friendly fight for a while, the two fell in love.

It can be said that the relationship between the two has gone through a lot of twists and turns. In the middle, there were also episodes where the man was on a blind date and the woman was jealous. There was also a time when the man went out to eat after finishing work, and when he came back after eating, he found that the woman had changed in bed. He got angry and beat him up. But even after going through twists and turns, the two still maintain a harmonious relationship as friends.

Just going back and forth like this, it really took a long time to fall in love. The two of them changed from being just friends to being boyfriend and girlfriend. Then they met their parents, got married, and happily fell in love for a long time. They also successfully made a baby, and now their children are going to kindergarten!

When I got married, my husband and I went to have a wedding banquet. My husband stood aside and said to the groom, it’s not easy for you two! The fate between you two truly reflects the following four words: love grows with time!

Introduction: Many people don’t understand women, they just ask girls if they want to go on a date? In this way, girls often put them in a dark room. Love also requires learning. Chasing girls requires more learning. For example, I used to be an introverted otaku who dared not and could not chat with girls. Thank you for meeting Xishi and asking you out. (pao542), I saw a lot of love secrets on their official account, from picking up girls to dating, and even going to hotels, they were all explained in great detail. Up to now, I have three beautiful girlfriends at the same time, and I have become a lover without knowing it.

My husband and I got married through introduction, which was introduced by a matchmaker in my hometown. When we first got married, there was no emotion and it was very dull. After getting along for a while, our relationship is now very good.

Love grows over time, which is something we often encounter in our lives. After getting along for a long time, we may not have any idea about the person of the opposite sex, but after getting along for a long time, we feel that the other person is also a good choice. A feeling of emotion that arises.

Let me share a little story with you. The logistics department and the development department of the unit are two adjacent departments. The highlight is that there is a handsome male colleague and several young female colleagues, who are together all day long. They are all familiar with each other. It is said that the sanitary napkins of female colleagues are all purchased by this handsome guy. Of course, it is obligatory to queue up in the canteen to get food.

(Unified Procurement)

When everyone was eating together, they laughed when they learned that the handsome guy had gone to such an extent for the beauty.

But one day not long after, when a colleague and his wife went to a nearby city during the May Day holiday, they encountered the handsome guy and a female colleague together. The colleague was not very embarrassed. I was at a loss for a while, but the handsome guy took the initiative to greet me warmly, which made this colleague feel that he was having an affair.

(Office Affair)

Later, everyone knew the secret between them, but no one told it because both parties were married. It's always bad. Later, I heard that they started working overtime at night to cooperate with each other due to work needs. This way, they gradually fell in love over time. They felt more concerned at work and felt more guilty at home.

Later, the matter was revealed, and the partners of both men and women found their work units. It was very tense for a while. In the end, the man was transferred and the matter was settled.

(One after another)

There was once a story about a girl who fell in love with a sunny boy, and she ran over to confess her love to him! The boy said, "Sorry, I have a girlfriend. Thank you for your appreciation." But she said, would you like to change your girlfriend? Of course the boy said he didn’t want to! But another girl said to the boy, "I know, you have a girlfriend, would you like to have another girlfriend?" So they got together, and finally succeeded!

Long-term contact and companionship are better than a thousand words! Many couples are in love for a long time!

When I was in college, I liked a senior sister. With the help of female classmate A, my senior sister and I got together. We are inseparable every day, it's like not seeing each other for one day is like three autumns.

One night A asked me to drink. We both drank a little too much. She asked me why I wanted to be with my senior sister. Is she bad? I said you're pretty good, but you're not my type! She hugged me and cried and said, I like you and I want to be with you! I don’t know if it’s the effect of alcohol or the overflowing hormones! That's how we had a relationship! Then I chose to break up with my senior sister and be with A! Sometimes you don’t even know whether you like it or not. Only by having a relationship and long-term companionship can you know who you really like!

Traveling is the best way. When I was in junior high school, I just finished my junior high school graduation exam and met up with a few male and female classmates. We were riding bicycles to climb a mountain. We parked our bicycles at the foot of the mountain. We were young and frivolous. We vowed to climb to the highest peak, so we climbed hard. The male classmates helped the female classmates get their things, and the female classmates were grateful. The students spent a long time helping each other climb up the mountain, collecting wild fruits, making a fire for a picnic, taking out their own delicacies, and had a delicious meal. But it was getting dark, and we all panicked and had to get off quickly. Come out, otherwise, what should we do if a wolf appears? When we talked about it, the female classmates were all frightened. The mountain breeze was very cold, and it was easy to go up the mountain but difficult to go down. The female classmate was very arrogant, and she was paralyzed for a while and became cold for a while. We men showed heroic spirit, took off our clothes and put them on the girls, and some of them even carried the girls on their backs. The girls said "you are so kind", and we all felt happy in our hearts. We stumbled down the mountain like this. Traveling is the best way to understand a person. When I went to high school, the relationship between the few people we traveled with was very good, and some of them had reached the point of falling in love

Which types of relationships between men and women are most likely to last for a long time? I think this scoring age group.

When I was in elementary school, I thought I was the star of the class. She has two long ponytails, her skin is as white as snow, and her smile has two dimples that are intoxicating. Just looking at her makes my face turn red instantly, my head feels dizzy, and my heart beats crazy. Just looking at it from a distance makes me feel satisfied, that is the feeling of first love!

When I was in junior high school, I thought she was the top female student in the class. The love that grows over time is the love of worship!

In high school, I think all girls are within a radius of one person with you as the center!

In college, my university is quite miserable, and my classmates in science and engineering all understand it. of suffering. How does it feel to have only one girl in a class of 50? Haha, this is a hell for boys and a paradise for girls. No matter how the girl grows up, what her temperament is, or what her figure is, girls will protect, care, and cherish her like a queen, and they will be as noble as the queen in an ant nest. It reminds me of a movie "The Girl We Chased Together in Those Years", but I want to say that we are "49 People Chased One Girl Together In Those Years".

Social segment, I think it is a blind date. I’ve met hundreds of people, and they’ve all talked about owning a car? Do you have a room? Do you have any savings? Oh my god, how can I get married with all this? In the end, I finally fell in love with someone, let's just get along, and finally understood that you can have feelings after a long time, but it is definitely not love.

Human beings are not ruthless. As long as a man and a woman "live" for a long time, they will definitely fall in love.

According to my observation, the following types of relationships between men and women are most likely to last for a long time:

1. Colleague relationship.

Male and female colleagues in an office are an important place for ambiguity to occur. There are 365 days in a year, which is longer than the time you spend with your lover.

If one person is affectionate and the other person is intentional, it is very easy for ambiguous things to happen. Of course, the premise is that neither of them are ugly.

2. Superior-subordinate relationship.

Regardless of whether the leader is a man or a woman, as long as the leader is impure and takes a fancy to his subordinates, it is very dangerous.

This is how it is played in TV dramas. The male superior falls in love with the female subordinate, and is tempted by various temptations. In the end, the female subordinate obediently takes over. Or the female superior took a fancy to a strong male subordinate and took him down on a business trip.

3. Relative relationships.

Families with sisters-in-law, brothers-in-law, young ladies-in-law, etc. are also the birthplace of lasting love.

How many brothers-in-law are "afraid" of their sister-in-law, not even when they are far away, let alone when they are close.

In fact, whether you have feelings or not is determined by your "heart". If something is wrong in your heart, you can feel in love anywhere.

When a man and a woman get along for a long time, feelings will naturally develop.

But it would be bad to have an extramarital affair for a long time!

Now let me talk about it from the perspective of extramarital affairs. There are mainly three types of relationships.

Work occupies a large proportion in our lives, and there must be a superior-subordinate relationship at work. If there is a relationship between men and women, problems can easily arise.

My best friend is a strong woman who is devoted to work and spends little time at home. It turned out that she had a sweet relationship with her husband, but within two years she got divorced and ended up with a subordinate who was five years younger than him.

I once asked her why she chose this way? She said that she had almost no communication with her husband every day. Her husband would fall asleep after work and go to work again in the morning. Not only do she spend a lot of time with her subordinates every day, but they also respect her very much. In addition to sweet words, subordinates will also prepare their own water. During a company dinner, her superiors helped her hold back the drinks many times, so she relented and agreed to be together.

Men and women usually talk about everything, and even things that are inconvenient for couples to talk about will become topics of conversation between them.

My colleagues Xiaoli and Lao Wang are like this. The two of them work in the same office and chat when they have nothing to do. The conversation turned to emotional issues.

Xiaoli said that her husband has been avoiding doing homework recently, and she has not experienced that feeling for two months. Lao Wang said that his wife has no interest and only knows how to play mahjong all day long. The two of them were so sad that they cried, and they went straight to the hotel after get off work. They were also a strange couple.

Especially when the other half of your family goes out to work and is not around, when you have something urgent, you will naturally think of your neighbors first.

This time you changed a light bulb in her house, and next time she helped you wash the clothes. Over time, the emotional distance between the two narrowed.

If one of the parties is willing to go further, they will provoke the other party by asking for directions. For example, a man would say, are you afraid when you go to bed at night? Shall I come with you tonight? Women naturally know this well and will leave the door open for men at night.

In short, the best way to prevent both parties from having extramarital affairs over time is that we should shoulder our responsibilities as husbands or wives.

Let your husband or wife be comforted by us, and naturally their thoughts will not be transferred to others.

The most fascinating stage of the relationship between men and women lies in ambiguity. If you don't break this relationship, you will feel particularly happy, even more wonderful than formal contact with love.

However, after all, it cannot last long, and most ambiguous relationships will want to go further.

Especially the following four types of relationships between men and women, it is easy to be moved by true feelings and want to fall in love.

1. Particularly caring confidants

Some of these relationships, such as a confidante and a male best friend, may last a lifetime (you know, the possibility of having a confidant of the opposite sex is relatively small), and some They would go astray, and there would always be a time or two that broke this pure friendship between them.

Once you truly break the boundaries of a friendship, it can easily spiral out of control. After all, everyone has been in a relationship for many years, and the relationship between the two parties is close enough.

Although such a close friend is easy to go astray, it is also easy to stay on the right track.

After all, it was restrained in the first place and still had the ability to control it.

2. Friends you have a crush on

Having a crush on someone who becomes your friend is a pain that goes deep into your bones.

A friend is like this. He had a crush on an old classmate, but he never dared to confess to him in person.

Until the class reunion, with the help of friends, this secret love state was broken.

Unexpectedly, the other party also had a crush on him, so the two successfully joined hands.

3. After breaking up, you still have contact with your ex

Many people still have fantasies about their exes, and sometimes they will consider getting back together.

Especially when the new lover is not suitable enough and not as good as the ex, it is easier to miss him in the past.

This feeling often needs to be tried, passed, played, and finally learned to cherish.

However, it does not necessarily mean that you are willing to turn around, and the other party is also willing to turn around.

If the other person is still waiting in the same place, then there is really a chance to renew the relationship.

However, such bloody plots are really uncommon. If no one helps, I still don’t know what the future will be like.

4. From strangers to netizens who talk about everything

In this era, netizens are really more than just their friends. They often dare to talk to netizens about their family affairs. Because they don't know each other in reality, they don't care about revealing their little secrets.

However, it is because of this open mind that it is easier to open up.

Too many men and women start from a simple understanding of mutual ambiguity and eventually develop into a couple or even lovers.

Usually such a relationship can only be a casual one. If both parties are single, then such a casual relationship is fine.

Once you have a loved one or family, it will make you feel like a chicken.

The relationships between men and women that are most likely to last for a long time include the following two situations:

After a divorce for more than a year, the father of the child would always give the child 500 yuan. . She is a single woman with a 12-year-old child. She has no high education, no assets, and little savings. Her monthly income is so tight that she has to break every penny in half to spend.

Friends advised her to take her children back to her hometown, but she was reluctant to give up the high-quality educational environment in a big city. She had suffered enough from not having knowledge and knew clearly that "knowledge is power."

She works part-time in two households during the day, and goes to Tianqiao to set up a stall at around 7 o'clock to sell stockings, trinkets and the like. In fact, you don’t make much money by setting up a stall, but you have more free time, and it’s not a strenuous job.

Originally, she had not thought about finding another partner. After all, she was in her thirties and had an average appearance, the kind that could not be found in the crowd.

However, half a year ago, the person setting up the stall next door changed. She used to be a female college student, but now she has probably graduated and has a few days of free time. She has been replaced by a middle-aged man, who mainly sells mobile phone cases, film stickers and the like.

Because she met the urban management officer twice, and he helped her pack her things. She became familiar with her after two visits, and she started to talk to him later.

It is said that happy lives are all similar, and unhappy lives have their own misfortunes.

Like her, he was divorced in middle age. His wife disliked him for losing all his savings in business, so she took the initiative to file for divorce and took away the children and the house. He was left with a small car that cost over 100,000 yuan. He simply sold it and replaced it with a small van for hauling goods. He helped others move things during the day and set up a stall at night.

Slowly, the two of them had similar experiences. They were both divorced in middle age, and they both set up stalls on Tianqiao to make a living. They started talking about the same topic, and finally got together.

The girl and the boy met because of a bus accident.

It was a rainy night. A bus heading from a township to the city was delayed a lot of time due to a detour, so it was now racing against time.

The visibility was not good at night, and it was raining again. The driver was too impatient, and lost control of the vehicle at a turning point. He accidentally rushed off the road and fell into a ditch under construction next to it. inside, about three or four meters deep.

At that time, the boy was sitting next to the girl. When the vehicle lost control, the girl was almost thrown out, but he grabbed her.

Everything seemed to happen in a flash, and she fell in love with him. Later, they were all lucky. A passing vehicle noticed the danger in time and immediately called for rescue. Except for a few people in the car who were slightly injured, everyone else was safe.

The girl and the boy got to know each other. They found out that they were in the same university, and they gradually got in touch. As time went by, they got together.

There is a saying in psychology that when a person is nervous or in danger, adrenaline will rise, so the heartbeat will accelerate and the face will turn red. Some people can't tell whether their heart is really beating or if it's due to adrenaline.

That’s why there are so many heroes who save beautiful women and end up committing themselves to each other. This is the reason.

My heart beats faster, and we have been together for a long time, so we have been in love for a long time.